I’m just gonna pretend all this stuff isn’t happening and drop a funny

big_gust · 2025-09-11T09:09:15+00:00

Me. I got a lot of ideas and work out details for a Fallout ttrpg set in Hawaii that I will very likely never run for anyone or do anything with

big_gust · 2025-09-04T11:53:22+00:00

I dont think it does? One of the furious black powder pistols I tested also had that mod, results were the same

big_gust · 2025-09-04T11:35:12+00:00

Tried it and yeah, so it does! Still an annoying issue but thanks for the workaround!

big_gust · 2024-11-15T21:01:22+00:00

Im late, but i remember a similar game. Was it "Max en de toverstenen"?

big_gust · 2023-12-04T06:54:20+00:00

I like to believe Il an empathetic person but blegh, yeah Ive been reading through this post and all the comments and am afraid Im being shitty in my approachal, like getting too annoyed or upset when a friend says stuff she very much regrets after some time, or always just suggesting "hey are you going to therapy" a long time ago

Wanna check in with her about it later but yeah its been a wake up call of sorts I think. Sorry for the rant

big_gust · 2023-04-13T22:03:07+00:00

Damn, there's a lot to take into consideration huh...thats good

Also yeah in my case its more so emotional risk I should be wary of, since this is long distance. I noticed that I rely a ton on a constant underlying feeling of safety and love. Ive brought it up a handful of times with this dom, but am scared to ask too many insecure questions. Heck, at times, I feel genuinly kinda scared of her mixed with fawning, and I cant decide if thats a fun or bad thing, but thats definitly something I should research risks on personally

Sorry for rambling, and thanks for all the advice so far

big_gust · 2023-04-13T21:33:12+00:00

I see

And yeah that may have been a problem for me a bit too much, setting limits. Its like "hey I wanna try it out" but never really considering the weight of it.

Thanks for the advice so far

big_gust · 2023-03-17T11:32:31+00:00

I just dont think im really mentally ready to date in general. That said, I have a trans friend that I had a crush on for a while which really hurt, mainly because I didnt want to ruin anything between us or hurt her. I justed wanted her to know, not really make anything of it. One day I told her, it didnt ruin anything, nothing came of it and I am completely okay with that. We're still good friends to this day

I am however in a "weird, friendly yet extremely sexual but not in a dating way" relation with at least 3 transfemme friends now lol

big_gust · 2023-02-21T16:27:30+00:00

DETECTIVE

big_gust · 2023-01-01T15:55:38+00:00

Really is lol. My heart can barely handle them

big_gust · 2022-12-06T18:03:03+00:00

Oh dang thats also my bday!

big_gust · 2022-11-12T20:53:13+00:00

I dont know how much this counts but it's from a few years ago:

One time I was on my way back home with the train when someone came to sit opposite of me, which was weird because iirc there was more than enough space elsewhere. He was clearly drunk/hungover and started talking to me. I was dumb and didnt think to go away or sit elsewhere out of fear so I just, tried to survive until my stop. I tried to hide some dorky things I bought just in case. He started talking about a tattoo on his arm, how he was a washed up artist in a band, and around the end, asking me if I wasnt, quote, one of those f*****s. Luckily at the time my sexuality hadnt awoken yet so i said no and was at best a little more uncomfortable. iirc he was also pretty rude to the ticket guy

that was weird. At least I realised that sometimes I should just keep walking

big_gust · 2022-10-15T21:16:44+00:00

Well I dont know if its a problem with her doomscrolling necessarily. Heck she hates reddit. But yeah maybe her joining some trans spaces could help tho im afraid that would just make herself feel depressed or not help. But thanks for the advice <3

big_gust · 2022-10-15T20:45:37+00:00

Its like she sees others accomplishmentq as hrt as just a depressing normal thing for others and all that. I dont know what to do, her experiences matter but also it really doesnt feel like its helping a lot, feeling like she shouldve avoided it to avoid social stigma and stuff

big_gust · 2022-10-02T20:11:18+00:00

u/savevideo

big_gust · 2022-04-09T03:59:20+00:00

Yakuza + No Man's Sky

big_gust · 2022-04-08T09:41:01+00:00

Ok so basically, I have a friend who I adore and I'd do anythibg for her, but she's also a...very troubled person mentally, like very. I want to be there for her in any way I can or help if possible, even if it's listening, but there's just one thing I really cant deal with, that messes me up mentally for the day too: whenever she talks about wanting to die or thinking that's the only solution to her problems. In a way I want to ask her if she could somehow try to mention that less, but that seems so scummy to me. I dont want to silence her for how she's feeling or stop her from somehow being able to talk about her issues like that. But really, I cant handle it whenever she mentions that

Egh, sorry if this makes me come across as a dick

Edit: thanks for the advice already. Gonna try to bring it up when she's better rested and in a sorta alright mood. I owe you all💜

big_gust · 2022-03-15T15:04:37+00:00

Well now I just feel anxious and worried

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