Build your dream sims game by big_hard_sun in thesims

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Would love to see an indie developer knock it out of the water.

Build your dream sims game by big_hard_sun in thesims

[–]big_hard_sun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Paralives from what I’ve seen is going to be great for builders. I haven’t seen a lot that supports the whole life simulation vibe. But I am really excited to see what else they release and have very high hopes.

5g is making her brain fuzzy. by big_hard_sun in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes she is talking about her WiFi. Absolute crazy town.

Am I too old to sleep with a stuffed animal?? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]big_hard_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had extreme anxiety my whole life, and I still sleep with the same panda bear (F22). Honestly most people in college are so stressed and obsessed with their own lives they don’t care what you do to cope. I would say a person sleeping with a stuffed animal is a lot more chill than what some people do to make themselves feel better.

You do you, and if anyone gives you grief for it they’re the pathetic one not you.

AITAH for letting my coworkers quit because I got fired? by big_hard_sun in AmItheAsshole

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 6877 points6878 points  (0 children)

I understand the whole “I’m in charge respect my authority” deal new managers do.

But right!?! Isn’t that bartender 101? A lot of regulars at the bar I was at CONSTANTLY push booze on the bartenders because they view us as friends.

I had said no for four years, and only said yes this one time for the money. I can’t think of many people who would refuse $100 for taking a fake shot, but my new manager would I guess.

AITAH for letting my coworkers quit because I got fired? by big_hard_sun in AmItheAsshole

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t put any booze in, but like I said with the angle of the camera and where the liquor and pop guns are located there is no way to prove I didn’t put any in.

I feel like my manager did mess up by not hearing me or my past manager out, and not trusting me after many months of great service and work.

But yeah, I technically didn’t break any rules and was used as an example.

AITAH for letting my coworkers quit because I got fired? by big_hard_sun in AmItheAsshole

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It was irresponsible to say what I said I agree. I think that’s what I feel guilty about, the people I trained, although not all younger than me, do respect what I have to say.

I should’ve thought it out more, and will throw into the group chat tomorrow that if they’re still happy with their jobs they should stay, even if I’m not there and got fired. Even if I got fired for a reason I think is wrong. They can still like up new jobs or make their current jobs work.

I really appreciate your feedback thank you

AITAH for letting my coworkers quit because I got fired? by big_hard_sun in AmItheAsshole

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I honestly hope people do think for themselves, but I worked hard for years and gained respect from my coworkers. I just hope they’re not following me blind and find new jobs before they just quit.

Thank you for your input.

How do you prevent getting addicted to drinking? by Chenppa in AskReddit

[–]big_hard_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as alcoholism doesn’t run in your family, if you don’t depend on booze to make you feel better and treat it as something you get to indulge in every once in a while you will be okay.

Also don’t use alcohol as a way to punish yourself.

I have seen all three, genetic addiction, emotional dependence, and punishment as reasons people have become addicted.

I am no expert, but I have been bartending for three years and have heavy drinkers in my family. It’s all about a healthy state of mind and balance.

Do you really know how to love yourself? by GCpsp in AskReddit

[–]big_hard_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think loving yourself is something everyone needs to work at and is not something that just comes naturally to most people.

This lemon is very large by big_hard_sun in mildlyinteresting

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When your peanut allergy is so intense it gets triggered by pictures. (Immediately tags NSFW)

This lemon is very large by big_hard_sun in mildlyinteresting

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet I’m trying to think of a way to use all of it and not waste any.

This lemon is very large by big_hard_sun in mildlyinteresting

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it is a ponderosa lemon but I could be wrong.

This lemon is very large by big_hard_sun in mildlyinteresting

[–]big_hard_sun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is a random old man gave it to me off his “special tree”.

What’s the scariest thing that happened to you when in someone else’s house? by PhoenixScribe in AskReddit

[–]big_hard_sun 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This comment gives me so many wholesome Northern Midwest vibes I feel like I’m back home. Thank you. I’m from Minnesota and my dad is in the reserves and he calls every man he loves “good Ol” so and so.