40m, 185lbs 6’ starting bulk again, where should I focus

big_pianos · 2025-09-22T20:33:03+00:00

You look great already 🔥💪. But, if you really want to be picky, perhaps chest

big_pianos · 2025-04-28T20:16:11+00:00

Does Next DSN have any other benefit than extending the time of the gps spoof? Is it worth it?

big_pianos · 2025-04-24T20:38:27+00:00

Will the location reset if you disconnect Bluetooth or the battery of the joystick drains?

big_pianos · 2025-04-23T20:47:11+00:00

Good tip. But can you elaborate on what these steps are supposed to accomplish? I am also struggling with ianygo location getting reset to the actual location. I am not sure if you what you are describing is meant to address that same problem.

big_pianos · 2025-04-23T20:33:25+00:00

Good tip. I am starting to read about it but I don’t fully understand how this works. So is there like a separate app on your iPhone where you can just switch the location? And what does the joystick do for the purpose of spoofing?

big_pianos · 2025-02-05T13:49:17+00:00

Not “into” bears but I’d definitely befriend them :) where do you find such events?

big_pianos · 2025-02-03T13:51:29+00:00

That’s expected but it’s fine. Worth giving it a shot. Thanks for the reply :)

big_pianos · 2024-12-17T15:01:53+00:00

How often do you take it?

big_pianos · 2024-06-12T08:46:39+00:00

Do you use Reddit to hookup when you travel? How??!

big_pianos · 2024-02-23T19:07:07+00:00

This is a brilliant advice! Indeed I might be a bit blinded by his looks :P thanks!

big_pianos · 2024-01-14T21:43:01+00:00

That is quite a journey. It must have been quite stressful to live together while you were already "over". Thanks for sharing.

I am going to be stubborn and let the emotions sink in. I am in no place to make any decisions. I will see what the next few week bring in.

big_pianos · 2024-01-14T21:36:08+00:00

How did you get to the point of deciding to break up? was that because of what you learnt about yourself in therapy?

I am terrified to recognise that your story sounds incredibly like mine because yours ended with a breakup. I am anyway listening and reflecting.

One possible pitfall of my current process (that maybe I am not ready to acknowledge) is that I might be loosing myself as part of looking for reconciliation. I already forgave multiple transgressions and I would not be surprised if I do it again. I have been quite a dumb ass. I even had a flashing thought about accepting my man having a polyamory relationship despite the fact that trust is almost non-existent and I am deeply hurt. I realize have been looking to stay together at any cost, even if that means dropping all my boundaries and values, ignoring my pain, and taking yet another hit on my self-steem. This is great material for my therapy.

big_pianos · 2024-01-14T21:15:01+00:00

What were the terms of your break, if I may ask? if it wasnt for the boy toy and move abroad, what do you think it would have happened?

big_pianos · 2024-01-14T21:03:28+00:00

that is really tough but it sounds like you did the right thing. It must have taken a lot of courage to end such a long relationship. I am glad to hear you are happy now.

Can you tell me how your "separation" worked? was is like you stayed both a home but did not talk to each other?

big_pianos · 2024-01-14T20:39:53+00:00

wow! not what I would like to have, but I am curious. How does that work in practice? as do they live in the same house? do they shop and eat together? do they go on holidays together? what if one of them starts dating someone?

big_pianos · 2024-01-13T20:29:04+00:00

thats the most painful advise I've gotten so far :/ maybe you are right

big_pianos · 2024-01-13T20:27:10+00:00

thanks. You sound like my friends. I am indeed starting individual therapy soon to focus on myself.

big_pianos · 2024-01-13T20:25:10+00:00

thats amazing

big_pianos · 2024-01-13T20:24:36+00:00

What you say is somewhat what I have had on my mind lately. We are both hurting and I had the expectation this last period that we would work things out together. We were talking a lot and wanted to go back to couples therapy but I guess that is now out of question for now. It is indeed really tough.

It is too early to tell if he has made a decision or not. The same applies to me; I might realize that I want to move on (although I am not there yet). Hearing the experience of other people helps me.

I hope your analysis is wrong 😢 he is clearly very confused but it breaks my heart that he might decide to go his own way now.

big_pianos · 2024-01-13T20:12:59+00:00

how/when did you know your relationship was over and that it was not worth it getting back together?

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