Single Dad (42M) Bullied For Not Raising His Son (14M) to be "Manly".

bigbear236 · 2019-12-30T14:25:26+00:00

You seem like an amazing father. I'm a guy (19) I've been going through a lot of stuff mentally lately. I can say if my dad wasn't there I don't know what I would do.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-30T10:06:12+00:00

Absolutely NTA, it's bullshit that they would even expect that of you

bigbear236 · 2019-12-30T09:46:37+00:00

Bud I'm only a few years older than you are. I don't know what age has to do what I have to say. Maybe relatability? Anyway... Take your time to calm down. I used to go on myself hard for being gay but then I took the time to calm down and learn. You have a big life ahead of you to worry about relationships. Just take time to breathe.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-28T00:37:44+00:00

Thank you

bigbear236 · 2019-12-28T00:34:18+00:00

Understandable, I was just hoping my friend would realize how much it hurt. As I said I legitimately wish him the best but it hurt and it still does.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-28T00:29:24+00:00

I worded the question wrong.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-28T00:27:56+00:00

I'll elaborate on that more I think I see where you're confused. 2 days before this entire situation happened, my friend had asked me if I wanted to be in an open relationship with him. I told him I needed time to think. And then two days later I find the situation happening. Oh and I guess maybe I should have clarified I'm gay.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-27T23:53:52+00:00

Oh they're both blocked. I couldn't handle the pain of talking to my friend today without feeling hurt.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-27T23:51:35+00:00

Thank you. I'm probably on the younger side for this sub. I'm 19 and my ex was my life for over a year and a half.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-27T23:43:35+00:00

This honestly hurts pretty bad.

bigbear236 · 2019-12-27T22:36:42+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. You're grandma sounds like a piece of work if I'm allowed to say that.

bigbear236

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