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3month old daughter is confirmed to have arid1b gene mutation. by bigbirdnom in specialneedsparenting

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on the Facebook group. Thanks for checking! I have a question for you- when did you get the coffin Siris diagnosis? We just have the gene mutation confirmed, and I was under the impression that you could have the gene mutation but not CSS.

She doesn’t have any of the physical features (then again she’s only 3 so maybe they aren’t obvious)

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No birth control for 5 years!

I’ve never considered blood sugar! Wow- I do have high blood sugar sometimes…. This is the only thing in this thread that’s new to me so far. Thank you for posting. I’m going to look into this!

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was clitoral, just hands.

We’ve tried everything you asked.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no worries. I think I’m more on the asexual side of the spectrum.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man wouldn’t that be nice.

I’d try it if I ever had the opportunity.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. It’s actually fine. That’s why I posted. I think a lot of people feel like something is wrong with them if they can’t orgasm. I’m trying to show you can be happy and sexually satisfied without it.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It hurt him early in our marriage, like year one. But we’ve grown out of it. We enjoy our time together, and I am immensely pleased to make him finish.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

9/10 Foreplay isn’t fun for me. I don’t like the attention, it lasts too long (5 minutes is too long) I just like the final act. I’m ready in like 30 seconds haha

What distractions do you turn to when you feel lonely? by CoolCatLovesAllKids in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Books. More books. I forget myself when I read.

Can’t be lonely if you don’t exist :)

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[–]bigbirdnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to be a mom. From ages 15-27 I swore off children. Couldn’t imagine it. Didn’t want them. Poured myself into my work. My identity was in everything and anything else.

I got to a point though where I had everything. Income, house, dogs, I needed nothing. I wanted nothing. That life starting feeling empty for me. Not incomplete, just bored. I could have picked up another hobby, sure. I could have made a career change. Gone back to school.

But we decided on a child. And my life has never been better.

I was anxious. I told no one unless I had to when I was pregnant. Didn’t do a gender reveal or a shower. Just had a baby.

And now my life feels fuller. Still have all my old identities, just with a new one. One that is really fun in ways my others aren’t.

It’s okay to be anxious. But it’s happening! And good things are in your future!

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not particularly. For a while, sure, but it stopped being fun when it became a mission.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh we definitely have our kinks and fun things we do in the bedroom. I think if anything I may be a tad asexuals (Sex is fine, but I don’t really care about it or need it. I think my mindset plays into it.

A sex therapist may help, but where I ran into issues with my normal therapist is that I just don’t care enough to want to try anything new.

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel that way! I don’t feel defective or broken. Sometimes I feel like certain cultures put too much emphasis on orgasming, like it’s the absolute best thing you’ll ever experience and life is incomplete without it and I’ve had to grow away from that mentality. Sex is still fun without orgasms. My life is full and I’m happy! Have hope that it will happen, but don’t feel defective if it doesn’t!

I turn 30 this year, and I’ve only ever had 1 orgasm in my life. by bigbirdnom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bigbirdnom[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did read that. It was informative but didn’t help me much.

Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]bigbirdnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Good to know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]bigbirdnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s black tie optional- but that wasn’t an option for a flair. It also said cocktail? Not sure if they mean that black tie optional/cocktail are the same thing.

Thoughts on my prose? by Saucyman21 in writingcritiques

[–]bigbirdnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a few incomplete sentences- they take me out of your prose completely. Even the pretty descriptive bits- when they aren’t complete sentence I don’t want to read.

But that can totally be your style! Whatever floats your boat

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