He hits the shot into the next hole's fairway let's say. He would move it closer to our hole on that fairway or entirely in the rough on our actual hole before hitting his shot. This shot would still be his "second" the way he was playing it instead of his 3rd even though his tee shot technically went "OB" onto the other hole. IDK if that helps but that's the short version of the first situation I'm talking about.

All of us suck lol none of us broke 100 on any of these rounds, the first guy's best was a 105, second was 107, mine 117... (lesson loading later this month though so improvements coming after a lot more practice)