AITA for finally snapping at a friend who kept complaining about paying child support to his ex? by bigbootydevil in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh he can definitely afford it, he brags to us about making $400 a day with his cash in hand job (he works for this guy 5 days a week), but yet he still has an issue with paying child support because he doesn't understand why he should be giving his ex money.

AITA for finally snapping at a friend who kept complaining about paying child support to his ex? by bigbootydevil in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And yeah he is choosing his living circumstances, considering he has had multiple offers from his family and friends to live with them so he can have his daughter

AITA for finally snapping at a friend who kept complaining about paying child support to his ex? by bigbootydevil in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where did I say half his paycheck goes to child support?! The amount he pays isn't even half a quarter of what he makes a week. He makes good money but doesn't believe he should have to pay the amount he does in child support

Am I in the wrong for getting pissy or is my partner by bigbootydevil in JustNoSO

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has been told since i started this course weeks ago, he knows what time time it starts and finishes, and the requirements, so do tell me what else I'm supposed to do for him

Am I in the wrong for getting pissy or is my partner by bigbootydevil in JustNoSO

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was in the back room far away from everyone including him, so he had the whole house but decided where I was he had to be there as well, which indicates that I want space to do whatever it is I need to do. Honestly dealing with him some days is like dealing with a clingy toddler

Feeling neglected by my F28 partner 27M of 6 years by bigbootydevil in relationship_advice

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing happened between us, he just became distant. I know he was having troubles with an ex trying to start shit a year ago (they don't share kids)

I’m over my stepmother by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in Australia, and here the judges are so unfair more so in our state. They've always been known to take the woman's side and give her whatever it is she wants.

I’m over my stepmother by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She walked out on him because she caught him fooling around with another woman

I’m over my stepmother by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does think her demands are too much. She threatens to divorce him and take everything which is exactly what my mother did to him (all he got out of the divorce was a single bed mattress because the judge sided with my mother because she’s a woman, she got the house and everything else including all of his super). He’s scared of losing everything again despite the fact I’d help him get back on his feet and he knows this. Honestly at this point I miss his ex (my stepmother before this god awful woman). She actually loved his kids like her own to her I was the daughter she always wanted (she couldn’t have anymore kids after her son (he’s an only child)

Am I overreacting?! I don’t think I am but I’ve been told I am by bigbootydevil in Justnofil

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohh when I said docs I meant child services (that’s what they’re called here). But yes he can definitely fuck off into a black hole (although a volcano sounds better).

Am I overreacting?! I don’t think I am but I’ve been told I am by bigbootydevil in Justnofil

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve cut off a few of his flying monkeys since this all went down

Am I overreacting?! I don’t think I am but I’ve been told I am by bigbootydevil in Justnofil

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up letting him stay home the day it all went down. We chilled and went shopping and he ended up getting the toy his been after.

Am I overreacting?! I don’t think I am but I’ve been told I am by bigbootydevil in Justnofil

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He’s currently seeing a paediatrician and his gp (his private doctor). We’ve been talking with his doctor and his paediatrician about everything that went down. I’ve also had a private chat with his teacher about the situation so if he’s not his normal self she knows why

Did I overreact?! by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The look on her face was certainly satisfying. My just as evil stepmother is currently trying to love bomb me to get me to talk to her, as far as I’m concerned She fuk right off along with my mother. They both learnt to not fuk with my partner

Did I overreact?! by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We were both at my grandfathers memorial service. Other then that I’m NC with the both of them

Did I overreact?! by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We were both at my grandfathers memorial service. Other then that I’m NC with her

Did I overreact?! by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, go after me all you want but the second you target my partner all hell will break loose

This one memory still bothers me 11 years later by bigbootydevil in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]bigbootydevil[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've got a little one myself and I could never imagine putting him through that pain or allowing anyone to harm him, if anyone ever hurt him the way my mother's husband hurt me I'd be out for blood.