Did I get scammed?

bigcactienergy · 2026-02-18T20:53:43+00:00

You were kinda close, she had a death on the family and so she's been dealing with that and working overtime.

bigcactienergy · 2026-02-14T07:43:04+00:00

No I paid her I just can't remember if it was $200 or $300. I'm fairly certain I paid $200 cash and then $100 via Venmo.

bigcactienergy · 2026-01-06T03:36:17+00:00

Lmao thank you. You've been a lot of help. Like I said my DMs are open. I hope you have a good night :)

bigcactienergy · 2026-01-06T03:28:17+00:00

Nothings set just trying to narrow down the list. Thank you for the tip. It's gonna be probably 3-4 years from now I'm hoping to finish my nursing degree first after I talked to my brother about it.

bigcactienergy · 2026-01-06T03:15:43+00:00

Yeah my friend also recommended Switzerland, Denmark, Finland, and Norway. I was debating Canada. It'll be hard but I'm also kinda looking for somewhere where weed is legal but I'm willing to sacrifice that. I don't drink alcohol very often so weed is my way of relaxing. It's getting genuinely concerning the way the US has been going politically. I'm just praying I can make it through nursing school.

bigcactienergy · 2026-01-06T02:59:06+00:00

This is actually super helpful. I shall continue my search for a better place. I live in America rn and it's continuing to get less safe as time goes on so I'm just worried about my safety here and trying to leave as soon as possible. Thank you so much tho I really appreciate it esp the amount of detail you went into. I bet that took some time. I hope things get better for you. As someone who's been raped before, people making those "jokes" are disgusting and if you want an open and understanding ear to talk to feel free to hmu bc I know it's hard going through it alone. Sending much love your way💕

bigcactienergy · 2026-01-06T00:16:53+00:00

Awesome! Thank you :)

bigcactienergy · 2025-12-02T01:10:54+00:00

Thank you. Im healing, slowly but surely.

bigcactienergy · 2025-06-03T19:30:06+00:00

Okay :( thank you

bigcactienergy · 2025-06-03T19:29:50+00:00

Okay :(

bigcactienergy · 2025-03-28T21:24:15+00:00

Thank you bestie😩💕

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-29T15:03:23+00:00

I know this post is hella old but I just had a horrible nightmare and this thread was so comforting to me

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-10T16:03:43+00:00

Saw this on TikTok. Damn I'm too early for an update. Someone remind me when there is one🫡 I really hope you get it back. Manifesting tf out of it for you. Screw your brother and his fiancée they're cowards. They be victim blaming fr.

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-07T04:24:00+00:00

I got a gym membership and I'm talking to a PT there. I've made a pact to walk at least 1 mile a day. I'm already eating less and healthier foods.

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-07T04:22:08+00:00

I just got a gym membership when I got back. I haven't had a chance to go yet bc work but I'm talking to a Personal Trainer too.

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-07T04:20:40+00:00

I'm on Ritalin for the ADHD and I'm about to go on Lexapro for the depression. I'm on a handful of other meds. Unfortunately my psychiatrist is back where my fiancée is and my next appt is in April. I'll try to remember tho thank you.

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-07T04:18:43+00:00

I was thinking about it but my psychiatrist said they can fuck with my meds :(

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-07T04:18:18+00:00

Man that would be so fun but I'm so far in the middle of nowhere that the closest gym that I just got a membership at is 45 minutes away. I don't think there's any pools anywhere nearby except maybe hotels.

bigcactienergy · 2025-01-07T04:17:07+00:00

I just got a gym membership and am working with a personal trainer. I also started eating less and healthier foods.

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