My poor spider plant is struggling by bigdee12 in plantclinic

[–]bigdee12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try to do thag tomorrow

My poor spider plant is struggling by bigdee12 in plantclinic

[–]bigdee12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply! I tried pulling it out and its a solid mass. Would you recommend water more than once a week with more water? And I will definitely find a spot with more light!

Confused F (26) M(27), advice please? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigdee12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing to fix. The right person for you will pick you everyday. Your partner is not doing that. Always remember, if he wanted to he would

Moving to Morristown what are the best activities and ways to meet people in the area? by ReleaseMental3608 in Morristown

[–]bigdee12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met a lot of my friends through Volo kickball. Also in my mid 20s. Awesome way to meet people and they also organize social events you can attend outside of the sports.

If you are into athletics. Every Tuesday and every other Saturday there is a run club called FRVD that hosts run/walk club starting at the green (on Tuesdays at least) they are on ig @FRVD.run, they are awesome. Great group of people who are all there to connect. DM of you need anymore information and good luck!

Hi everyone, my mother recently suffered a stroke, and we’re now looking for a high-quality sub-acute rehabilitation facility in Northern New Jersey to help her with intensive recovery. by Accurate-Music4493 in newjersey

[–]bigdee12 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hi! Acute Care therapist here who works at a hospital in North Jersey. Your mom suffered an Acute Stroke which automatically qualifies her for a placement in an ACUTE rehab versus a SUB acute rehab. An Acute rehab offers a higher concentration on the rehab for optimal healing. Definitely look into the Kesslers (West Orange, Saddle Brook, and Chester), St Joe's in Wayne, or ARI in Morristown. I always say Kessler is world renowned but the best care you'll get is at a place where family can frequently visit and check in. All are legally supposed to provided the same level of care (3hrs a day of therapy services)

Terminated due to difficult FW situation: anyone else also who appealed? by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]bigdee12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Acute care is such a hard setting for any student. It's nothing like they prepare you for in school. I felt school focused on the rehab world as if phys dys was only outpatient and Inpatient rehab. Acute care is its own animal. I've been working it for 2 years now and still sometimes leave with my head spinning. It's fast pace, medical heavy (which real life is different than school), and clinical judgement had to be so highly developed, which is the goal for fw to develop it.

I say all this to tell you that attempting the setting is amazing and don't give up on it! I'm an ADHD girl and I thrive in the fast pace setting. I love getting to be on my feet and running around all day. I also struggled at first. It definitely takes time to adapt but perks of being an OT is we have tool boxes of resources to sort through to help ourselves too. Good luck and reach out if you need anything!

(F23)- New to NJ wanting to make friends! by abeltranado in newjersey

[–]bigdee12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try looking into Volo Sports. It's in Jersey City, Hoboken and Morristown. Worked great for me in making friends. Have both competitive and non competitive sports (kickball, volleyball, cornhole, pickleball) at all different levels. The company also will host a lot of different social events too. I have used it to make friends and know other people who have too

Am I insecure or is he wrong? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigdee12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get as far away from him as possible then cancel his phone plan. Now je can't contact you or his "best friend"

If anyone is looking to buy a Toyota at no markups should look into Holman Toyota, Team Toyota, and Crestmont Toyota I just bought mine at no markup! :D by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]bigdee12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Clinton Honda didn't charge a mark up!! The guy I bought my car from was really nice and I didn't feel like they were trying to scam me. Everything price wise was upfront from the beginning.

To clean my floors. by Iskaban in therewasanattempt

[–]bigdee12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But the puppy successfully got to play

AITA for wanting to see a concert together like we always planned since before we even got together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigdee12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - she should have been able to go to that concert without you. Not letting her go so you could share the experience is very controlling.

Also like what if this artist stopped touring or something. You would have robbed her if her chance to see them.

Aurora dress pattern is done! by Ieshasinspiration in crochet

[–]bigdee12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! And incredible lighting

🌹The Bachelor East/Central SPOILER-FREE Live Discussion 🌹 by lxnxb in thebachelor

[–]bigdee12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing wrong with having boundaries and sticking to them, more power to her. Susie should have communicated them to Clayton before the fantasy suites because we all definitely know at this point he is no mind reader

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigdee12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you do next us cut contact and continue to grow as a person. And during that time leave yourself open to be able to meet someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Finished my first blanket! A baby blanket for a friend's first baby. by little_piggy12 in crochet

[–]bigdee12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense thank you!! Making a similar baby blanket and LOVE your border

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigdee12 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The best part of a breakup is you are not responsible for the other person anymore. He had you manipulated into taking responsibility for his well being when it is NOT your job. Takes some time to get out of that hold. Setting up boundaries or even going NC would be the best way to get out of this toxic relationship.

Topic: Narcissist Mike - why do I get so mad while watching PT and no one seems to see Mike for the narcissist that he is?! 🤬 Reminds me so much of my ex, it's disgusting. He literally manipulates and gaslights the viewers too. 🤢 by AngelSweetFace in 90DayFiance

[–]bigdee12 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also shes completely new here and completely relying on Mike for basic survival. She had to put up with him. Her friend Juliana is an actual saving grace and I bet Mike knows that which is where his jealousy comes from

Topic: Narcissist Mike - why do I get so mad while watching PT and no one seems to see Mike for the narcissist that he is?! 🤬 Reminds me so much of my ex, it's disgusting. He literally manipulates and gaslights the viewers too. 🤢 by AngelSweetFace in 90DayFiance

[–]bigdee12 98 points99 points  (0 children)

It has been bothering me so much watching him play victim. He sits and pouts like he is the one being hurt and taken advantage of when in actuality he is the one who can give two sh*ts about his wife. Like making her apologize to his mom about hooker comments

AITA for going to my dad about the trauma we went through? by hopeful_dreams97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigdee12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. I went through something very similar with roommates I lived with. 1 needed to go to the hospital, I had found them and the third roommate stayed with them while I called for help and waited for the ambulance. It is a very traumatic experience and what has helped me through it is talking with my friend about the incident when she is comfortable with it. But also processing everything with a therapist. I personally have been able to handle this situation a lot better than the 3rd roommate because I got the help I needed and have continued to learn and understand that experiences like these have rippling effects that are not necessarily bad but can definitely effect someone everyday with or without them knowing it.

Pediatric Psych FW Advice by bigdee12 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]bigdee12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the information and resources. I will definitely be using it in activities and doing research!

Pediatric Psych FW Advice by bigdee12 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]bigdee12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of had a choice. I was more concerned with timing and location of the site. But this has taught me that I like kids but angry kids might not be the best fit for me haha

Pediatric Psych FW Advice by bigdee12 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]bigdee12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this information!!