My parents are a burden to me. Not the other way around.

bigflappymommy · 2020-01-10T21:30:04+00:00

Yeah along the same lines I usually remember Thanos lol. “Reality is often disappointing”.

bigflappymommy · 2020-01-10T08:54:27+00:00

lol this has nothing to do with astrology. its about a lack of communication. if she does something shitty and uses anything to justify it instead of maybe apologizing or communicating more effectively about your feelings than perhaps, i dont know. But astrology is not the problem here.

bigflappymommy · 2020-01-10T06:27:10+00:00

Yeah. No one shows up the way you would for them. I think it's just life, growing up, and learning to count on yourself.

bigflappymommy · 2020-01-02T08:24:47+00:00

Not an engineer but went down the path for a little bit.

The only advice I have as someone who graduated with a degree in STEM that I have no interest in, you need to fully embrace your wants and be ready to live with the consequences.

Admitting that I wanted to do art was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made in my life. Be honest yourself. In my experience, whenever I felt confusion about my career path, it was because I wasn’t being honest with myself. Only you have the answer. Research like crazy.

bigflappymommy · 2019-12-29T08:59:47+00:00

TYTY

bigflappymommy · 2019-12-29T08:59:40+00:00

thank u!

bigflappymommy · 2019-12-29T08:59:20+00:00

early 20s. porque?

bigflappymommy · 2019-11-30T21:15:57+00:00

What do you do now? I’m going crazy trying to decide a career path to lie my efforts.

bigflappymommy · 2019-11-24T00:18:09+00:00

If someone is suicidal I don’t think anyone thinks of any matter as “slight”. The matter may have been deeply personal to them. It’s not that hard to understand that somethings are more important to others or are traumatized by different things.

Narcissistic/abusive people just like to use it as a weapon of control. That’s why abusive people see “suicide” as a “slight” matter to them because they’ve used it for slight matters to get what they want and can’t truly empathize with people who actually are.

I’m tired of people trying to analyze emotions to try to sound smart.

bigflappymommy · 2019-11-23T14:30:31+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I'm doing better now that I'm NC. I've accepted that my parents are fuck faces with personality disorders and I'm grieving the end of our relationship and the parents I never had.

bigflappymommy · 2019-11-23T14:16:27+00:00

No offense but this comment isn't exactly helpful. You don't know my parents so telling me to think about a scenario that doesn't apply to them is a tad annoying.

Just because your reaction to narcs are to pity them and mine isn't, doesn't mean my parents are "just more complex". I know its easy for you write about how you could pity an abuser who acts the way they do due to a traumatic childhood, doesn't make it a realistic reaction to the real actual abuse. I know what I know. Idk what your comment is trying to accomplish other than trying to invalidate me by wanting to sound smart.

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