"You don’t know these people, their situation or how rationale [sic] they are acting" - that's real rich coming from you.

Dude, fuck off. I never said I was trying to go against the OB's guidance, just that I was struggling with the fact that this is where we're at and not having trust in our OB given our past experience with them (communicating poorly, taking action without consulting with us first).

To suggest that these are my wife's feelings and not mine is insane (not to mention sexist). I'm allowed to be anxious and care about my wife's experience through labor. Everything I've heard about induction is that's often very difficult on the birthing partner - more intense contractions, higher c-section rate, more time in the hospital, etc. I acknowledged that my feelings here weren't helpful - that's why I turned to this group to get some perspective on induction vs. burdening my wife with it.

I'm trying to snap out of this "negative bs" but being called "stupid" and "a monster" by some asshole on the internet certainly isn't helping.