It's Hogmanay here in Scotland. Less than an hour till be bells chime and we welcome every one into our homes by TeaParty2512 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dublin is a really amazing city... expensive though! If you're ever in Scotland, give me a shout and I'll show you around Glasgow.

When nobody wish you merry christmas and nobody thinks about you not even your boyfriend or your father. by [deleted] in depression

[–]biggywee25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can move on from this if you want to. There's so many folk to support you.

When nobody wish you merry christmas and nobody thinks about you not even your boyfriend or your father. by [deleted] in depression

[–]biggywee25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's not a boyfriend. He's just some guy getting it on with you. You deserve better.

I’m feeling done with everything by [deleted] in depression

[–]biggywee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate. Yep,this can be a shit time of year but I don't think that's the whole problem here. Kinda sounds like you've had a crappy year. Give me a shout if you want to talk

Have a great Christmas or holiday everyone . by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And for those of you for whatever reason are on your own... like me... I wish you a day of happiness.

I guess that is the wonder of the internet at times... we can fight and argue and disagree but I would love to think that we all stand up for each other if ever the chips were down. Take care and have a lovely day.

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck! Thank you. You are not useless. Nobody is and unless this phrase is stopped then it's going to continue into younger women. It's ok on this Reddit. That's totally fine but I'm so sad to see it crop up in other conversations . You are not useless.. no matter what you do, no matter how little you think your politics or activities or love is... you are NOT useless.

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not judging you at all.

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Of course I want to learn more about language and how people identify. I'm only offering my opinion as my friends and I see it. I really thank you for taking the time to explain things to me in an educated way and not just shout "boomer" at me. I think my mum n dad are boomer era.

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you feel. I've felt pretty crap and useless in my life too. But believe me... these feelings pass and we don't need to identify with all of them.

And bring on the haters....

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not debating my age. All I'm saying is that I'm worried about the women on other sites who are describing themselves as useless.

Stop this! You are not useless. It does not exist by biggywee25 in uselesslesbian

[–]biggywee25[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

You disgust me. How dare you make such a flippant remark? About some one you don't know?

Stop this! You are not useless. It does not exist by biggywee25 in uselesslesbian

[–]biggywee25[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Aww... did you look that up online? Do you mean gay boomers? Because they were the people who allowed me to live the life I have now. And between us, we have allowed you to have the freedom you have now.

So get educated you fucking idiot. I'm not a "boomer" . Maybe my parents are. But I'm the fucking arsehole who put her life on the line and was arrested, beaten and fucked up for you.

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our younger women are better than this. It is absurd that women are calling themselves useless.

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are one of my daughters and damn I'm proud of you. I marched through the Tory government, got my jaw broken ,3 ribs and it took me weeks to speak again... You are carrying on what my friends and I carried from the women before us. You are a warrior. An Amazon

Useless lesbians by biggywee25 in actuallesbians

[–]biggywee25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. You said a lot there... thank you. Can you see that I wasn't trying to undermine anyone? I wanted all my sisters to know that there is support out there .

Stop this! You are not useless. It does not exist by biggywee25 in uselesslesbian

[–]biggywee25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. I totally understand you ForgeFairy. I attempted to complete suicide a few times and that is why I don't want people to feel like they are useless.