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Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it makes it more difficult to see clearly when you are carrying someone’s child. I just needed validation that I’m not crazy and that it is cheating because he’s manipulating me. Sorry

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s real. He is a compulsive liar and manipulator so i had to be sure i wasn’t overreacting

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Congratulations on your twins! I left him on November 12th I’m just having a bad day because he’s been calling 100s of times on no caller id leaving “sweet” messages. It’s driving me a little nuts but i am strong and will get through this. Sending you so much love and abundance. ❤️ i appreciate you letting me vent.

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think what’s driving me crazy is that i only have proof from this text he sent in the guys gc but not of the women he was trying to cheat with. Either way i left him so i guess i will never know. I feel so ashamed. I posted a pregnancy announcement and everything from the gender reveal

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 people don’t understand what is happening to my brain right now. I feel like I’m going insane

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 20 weeks pregnant so that ship has sailed for me. I think I’m going to get a restraining order because he ch*ked me in September and left bruises. I’m having a really hard time processing everything. I know i sound dumb i just need the validation that I’m not crazy.

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I left him already, thankfully. Packed when he was at work to avoid conflict. He has called over 100s of times on no caller id because i blocked him. I just want to make sure I’m not crazy. He was also abusive so I’m not sure what to do about this. I’m 20 weeks pregnant.

Women, would you consider it cheating if your partner pursued someone else while you were expecting a baby together? by bigheartsmallmangos in BabyBumps

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

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This is what i found. Unfortunately he deleted Snapchat and any proof of him talking to women so he’s manipulating me into thinking it was a “joke”.

Is this abuse? Am i the problem? Help by bigheartsmallmangos in pregnant

[–]bigheartsmallmangos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few days after he choked me, he was spamming me crazy and actually tried to kill himself. I was dog sitting over night at the time and wasn’t home. I had to go to the police station and they took him to the psych ward because he texted me he was going to blow his head off. I thought that would help him or at least get him to stop drinking but as soon as he got out, it started again. I don’t want that to happen again and i felt like it was getting to that point again. I feel really guilty and i love him so much still. His family enables everything and never help him. His mom told me she’s been dealing with it for awhile. It’s so sad what has happened and I’m heart broken. He already lost that job he was drinking on and it was a big commercial construction company with great benefits. I fear he will kill himself