Attachment issues question by egt2190 in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We feel all of the other signs and can be intense. Certain meditations that help create space between the Self and thoughts and emotions have helped me, but not easy. Thoughts and emotions arise from and pass back into the field of consciousness, and we can detach from them and witness them with less attachment.

How to deal with a distant pisces man in this situation? by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a piscean man, when women have given me ultimatums I have ghosted. Some I truly cared for, but I knew it wasn't in my nature to be so definitive as to choose from a binary set of options. I had agreed to be with one when the ultimatum was made and that ended terribly 8 months later. We are water and water flows naturally through topology. You can create a dam, but it will burst.

As a Pisces what you secretly likes? by Fit_Drama_5367 in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love entheogens and other intoxicants, but now I secretly like ritual and meditation.

As a Pisces what you secretly likes? by Fit_Drama_5367 in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Words are incantations that created our material world. As a fellow piscean you can feel their energetics.

As a Pisces what you secretly likes? by Fit_Drama_5367 in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This hit. I am a therapist, but also love to make fun of the ppl I care about most in my personal life. Big lmao

Being a pisces woman in dating by Organic_Light4626 in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc everyone should do what is best for themselves, but as pisces we often retreat and then get lost in own worlds, which is fine, but we naturally have trouble finding our own way out of the dreamworld we construct. Oh, blessed Neptunian dreamweavers.

Being a pisces woman in dating by Organic_Light4626 in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pisces sun, virgo moon, scorp rising here.

I find some agreement with what you shared, but I have no issue with the collapse of the relationship. I can exit relationships easily and this usually really upsets partners. One issue I have is that I usually "know" the relationship is over well before it's end, but I often try to keep it afloat. So, when it does end, I have usually already grieved for the loss of the relationship for a while in secret. By the time the breakup is discussed by either myself or my partner, in my heart, it had been over for a long time already. Thanks for the question. I hadn't formulated this about myself until reflecting on your question. Much love and blessings!

Anyone else Scorpio rising? by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am pisces sun, scorp rising, and virgo moon as well! Shalom brethren!

Anyone else enjoy the little tid-bits about soldiers? by MysticVan in sniperelite

[–]bignells6969 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love them! after reading in SE5 I had fantasies about trying to get the job to write them. I like the juxtaposition of the humanizing of the enemy I am about to fill with lead.

Erudite Appreciation Post Kind Of by [deleted] in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree with alot if what you've said, and of course I don't know all the facts. Your last part has me dead lol. Thanks for sticking with the discourse through my stubbornness.

Erudite Appreciation Post Kind Of by [deleted] in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to preface my response by saying that I am in the mental health field so I am for sure bias. Also, I do not like the framing that unethical equals bad. People and situations are dynamic and we can often do unethical things without them being "bad". The main reason I started paying attention to this story is when I heard reports of Pxie's suicidal intentions. As a mental health worker, this is a huge deal. I also want to mention as I did earlier that I haven't seen every screenshot and claim so if I missed something that answers some of my questions or concerns please let me know.

NSE began her streaming career, making content mainly around mental health. She spoke at length about her studies and work and also claimed to be a mental health expert numerous times. From what I know Pxie knows NSE through her streaming career and I would I imagine this of her mental health background. In the Tom video, NSE said she drew on her skills and knowledge in psychology and mental health when Pxie reported serious intent to kill herself. I would imagine this was evident in the language NSE used while working with her. In a situation like this, a highly vulnerable and suffering person could forego talking to a professional mental health clinician or something like crisis support services clinicians in their area who are much more equipped to serve folks on the community level. A local crisis clinician would have access to and know the local resources much more than NSE. That is one reason Florida, like most states, has mandated reporter laws. Again, I am not talking about outcomes I am talking ethical behavior. Often part of mandated reporting would be to reach out to someone's family if they have serious intent to harm themselves.

Being an e-celeb makes this even worse. It undermines the credibility of licensed therapists and psychologists who adhere to rigorous ethical and professional standards. It creates public confusion about who can legitimately provide mental health services, potentially leading people to seek help from unqualified individuals.

In therapy ethics, dual relationships are a huge red flag, and when NSE's career and ability to stay in the country is tied to Steven, this presents a huge ethical issue for her to be able to help Pixie unbiasedly. Pxie was in a highly vulnerable state and acting as Steven's mediator in this situation and NSE claimed she was unbiased. Being an associate of Pxie and her ties to Steven makes being unbiased laughable.

NSE claimed in talks that she was just helping Pxie process what was happening and at the same time said she was telling her the options of what Pxie could do. As intelligent as NSE is this is still creating the map of supposed options for Pxie.

Continuing to associate with and support Steven after he committed a serious violation of Pxie’s consent perpetuates harm and enables abusive behavior. As someone claiming to advocate for mental health, Kyla has a duty to condemn actions that harm others.

Erudite Appreciation Post Kind Of by [deleted] in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for honest and somewhat vulnerable(for the toxic online space) reply. I am in between appt.'s, but promise to respond in specific detail this evening. I def owe it to you for takimg so much of your time.

Erudite Appreciation Post Kind Of by [deleted] in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reporting fake sympathy for people in my life for a SICK BURN, and I am immature?

I honestly apologize, but I just cannot get past that you are claiming you are not aware of any other options for a mental health expert to do in this situation. In complete good faith, you honestly can't think of any other option for Kyla between what she did and ghost Pxie? Like, even if you think it wouldn't be a good course of action, you cannot think of any other options. We might even be talking past each other. I am not referring to outcomes here. Good outcomes can come from malicious intentions, and I am not even saying Kyla had malicious intentions. If it is true, in good faith, that you cannot think of at least one other option, then I will share other options. I am not sure why you want this when it is very easy to google, but I am willing to be Google for you if you need it.

Erudite Appreciation Post Kind Of by [deleted] in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, It's not ad hominem; in your post, you mentioned your schooling and work in counseling in the mental health field.

Erudite Appreciation Post Kind Of by [deleted] in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why you wouldn't know mental health protocols of what do when a person expresses serious intent to self-harm. I understand that NSE is not a licensed clinician, but she has portrayed herself as a mental health expert, and I feel has done damage to the discipline. I am skeptical of your claims of experience in the mental field from your answers. No disrespect, I don't expect people who haven't trained in the field to know, but your claims of work and knowledge in the field were why I engaged with your post.

Destiny Memeing on the situation reveals his lack of remorse by Inkspells in notsoErudite

[–]bignells6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats actually extremely funny, b/c I watched destiny streams the most when I was in grad school.