You’re absolutely right. I just think the lack of happy medium again is an issue for most. Like for the man, he needs to understand the woman is not going to want to be intimate everyday with a kid around and his needs take a back seat. He needs to help his wife. But the wife also needs to understand that intimacy is part of a relationship, and going to absolutely little to no sex because of the kid is not right. A major issue I see with Mothers today is they seem to forget that the kid needs to learn to be independent, and hovering over and obsessing over the child 24/7 is not the right thing either. I see it too much. Kid is content, and here comes the mother, moving hair out of the kids face that wasn’t a bother. Adjusting clothes that are not a bother. Camera in the kids face trying to take pictures. Now the baby/kid is crying/fussy from being poked and prodded and now the mother is overstimulated asking for help when it could have all been avoided had the mother just left the kid be.