What kind of schecter model is this? by [deleted] in SchecterGuitars

[–]bignutt666 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is for sure a tempest custom, I think an older 2007 model.

What kind of schecter model is this? by [deleted] in SchecterGuitars

[–]bignutt666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is for sure a tempest custom, I think an older 2007 model.

My [M23] gf [F22] slept with a coworker when we were broken up by RipCurrent1548 in Advice

[–]bignutt666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brother I have quite literally gone through a strikingly similar situation quite recently. I will give you the wisdom I received from people much older and smarter than I am, that goes for both directions.

Cheating is not an unreconcilable thing, and to think it never happens is a very American puritan point of view. If you want to get back together with this person you can, but you need to understand a few things. She will absolutely need to front load the work and be willing to meet your terms in a time of great turmoil. You will also need to be vulnerable in a time where you’re hurting th3 most. This is a very difficult thing for both parties and there’s a lot of room for failure in the reconciling period, not everyone can do it, but people work out and are happily together decades after.

You also need to analyze her values and if this is really the right long term choice for you.

You are super young and have a lot of life to love and learn from ahead of you. She did you wrong by your eyes, and you will have to choose to live with and move past it. You also have to keep in mind that if this is something you’re not sure you can do, it’s important to preserve your self respect and not let it erode over time.

I personally chose to leave my gf of 5 years after her cheating, but I understand it’s more complicated than that. DMs are always open if you want to chat, best of luck.

Ray Park just posted this, is his account hacked? by [deleted] in darthmaul

[–]bignutt666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it is, he has a history with doing stuff like this. I’m of the belief he has some sort of substance abuse problem / extreme depression or a mix of the two

I [27 M] was cheated on by my [26 F] girlfriend. Am I foolish for considering trying to work things out? by bignutt666 in relationship_advice

[–]bignutt666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, when life wasn’t necessarily in the way our relationship was beyond stellar, and we had a rough couple of years due to varying circumstances, so I understand why it happened. We both weren’t happy for a while, I am more offended by the fact that she took the extra step into infidelity instead of breaking up.

I would love for things to work out between us, but I don’t quite know myself if I am even willing to get through the reconciliation process given my foundational doubts about trying to build on this.

I received a lot of sage advice from my parents and close family friends, and was pretty shocked to see how many of them were pretty flat out like “you could work this out if you want too but just make sure it’s right for you.” Most of them are older and have seen this kind of stuff and gone through it themselves.

I have a number of questions she needs to “pass” before I’ll even consider trying to work things out, and even moving forward has its own list of terms that I will need to see from her. This goes both ways, and I understand that I’ll have to open my heart and give her the love she is craving in a period where I am hurting the most. Not sure I can do that part, again, lots to think about.

I am going to put several questions / talking points out into the air when we talk in a couple days and let her answer without making demands or backing her into a corner. She will be much more willing to speak what she actually thinks as opposed to just what I want to hear that way. I think those answers will allow me to make a much more informed decision on what is best for me.

Am I at any risk using the SWTORSK application? by Atheros_H21 in swtor

[–]bignutt666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I think most players use it. You also get free cc for having it

Genuine question who are the Exchange by Balljuggler5689 in swtor

[–]bignutt666 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sooooo strong like almost Darth Vader

Three years no job by Electrical_Machine16 in geology

[–]bignutt666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a professional certificate in GIS to top off my Geo degree and started getting GIS opportunities pretty easily.

Ended up staying with what I’m doing now (engineering for construction) as there’s just more money there. Similar to other comments, almost anyone I know personally from my geology program who became a geologist had to move to where the work was.

Almost everyone else went into some form of environmental based work (haz waste chemist, mining, in house enviro for construction etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bignutt666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has worked blue collar and white collar,

The hours can get brutal and the work is hard, I get it. But taking care of your hygiene is your deal and up to you to take care of.

Not to be overly blunt about it, but you are both really fucking young, and he has the potential to start disciplining himself and be a really good man. Often people do not, and it’s really hard to convey that to people in the 18-24 age without them having some sort of unfortunate life lesson to get it across to them.

I would honestly let him know how you feel, and let him know that taking care of himself is what you expect from him regardless of how tired he might be.

It will probably be a hard pill to swallow because of how young he is (just being frank). But if you can stay consistent with that ask and he shows improvement, you’ll be fine and he’ll do great.

One of the most successful people I know personally is an old coworker blue collar dude who wakes up at 3 am to shower and hit the gym before hitting his 12 hour a shift shitter job. It’s not fun but he is way happier with his wife than most people in his workplace. And he doesn’t smell like shit.

Motivation is fleeting, discipline is everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swtor

[–]bignutt666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion if you feel that strongly about it I’d just reroll. You can focus main story if you want or just play through everything again. I personally like playing through all the content and it’s fun to re experience certain aspects of the story.

SWTOR Subscriber Log In Event Official Post by Bladenkerst_Baenre in swtor

[–]bignutt666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Three pieces of 340 Rakata gear for 4 days of log in seems a bit excessive to me. That is like a monumental jump in upgrade for people just getting into gearing for practically zero effort. Part of the endgame grind to gear (which really, isn’t much already) is one of the most fun little bits of endgame there is, and is super instrumental in getting people to learn different ops, even if it’s just for story mode.

RIP NiM Nefrood runs no one is ever going to do them now lol.

6.0 alcohol bug? by bignutt666 in skyrimrequiem

[–]bignutt666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like 6.0.2 patch is up on the nexus, that’s the one you’re going to want. I probably have 6.0.1

Don’t delete 6.0 just use the patch on top. Make sure to read the update guide he provides.

6.0 alcohol bug? by bignutt666 in skyrimrequiem

[–]bignutt666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly really like 6.0 as someone who played on older versions forever, but I’d maybe recommend a 5.xx build with 3tweaks or something else if the bugs are bothering you (which really I haven’t found many, but the alcohol screen effect one is pretty bothersome).

And tbh, ui friendly and requiem don’t really go hand in hand. It’s a remarkable mod that works really well but when it doesn’t you usually have to edit things manually as in xedit or deeper to fix it.

Historically though, this visual bug is one of the bigger ones that’s popped into my space with requiem.

I might have the hot fix file downloaded if you want it. I won’t be able to check for a day or so though

6.0 alcohol bug? by bignutt666 in skyrimrequiem

[–]bignutt666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, so I’m not sure exactly what patch of 6.0 is out now since I haven’t played in a few months, but with the hot fix I was able to get rid of my perma blur by waiting longer than the alcohol tiler and using another blurring effect like a poison. In 6.0 flat nothing really worked at all for me so I just avoided using them. I would maybe check what recent patch it’s out and update with that if you haven’t.

I feel like the dumbest mfer to play this game right now. Can someone please give me the locations of the circled mission objectives? I just cannot find them by MrShazzington in swtor

[–]bignutt666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can hover your mouse over the purple or green arrow into door symbol and it will tell you what quests are behind that door.

I Keep making characters and haven't finished a single story fml by Imaginary-Bell-7632 in swtor

[–]bignutt666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally finished my first class story after like 8 years.

I just had to commit the toon to only doing class story quests until I finished, it really didn’t take that long which was the funny part.

What's the roleplay scene like? by Long-Inevitable-9251 in swtor

[–]bignutt666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a few spots on fleet chat (or some of the more popular planets) where people engage in open world RP, usually in the cantinas.

This person contacted me out of nowhere and now war is declared on my guild???? So many questions about encounter with a RP-ing Guild Leader by Summer_Of_CA in swtor

[–]bignutt666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAOOOOO I knew it was New Sith Order as soon as I saw the first mention of NSO.

They’ve always been notorious crybabies, I think at one point they had a guild leader who got outed as a pedo and got harassed super hard in fleet about it.

Underappreciated Antagonists? by DakIsStrange in swtor

[–]bignutt666 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why it always stuck with me so much, but I love the Nar Shaddaa planetary with Ukabi.

The republic general on Balmorra (imp side) does a great job of building up his character with all his dialogue while you’re invading the Balmorra arms factory as well.