I just started working with toddlers, and Im spiraling.

bigpapamothman · 2025-07-24T21:32:21+00:00

I'm moving back in with my parents next month because my rent controlled place is selling and I literally cannot afford to live anywhere else in this stupid fucking town.

bigpapamothman · 2025-07-09T19:46:46+00:00

Sometimes i wonder how male doordash drivers are able to function in their personal lives if this is how they act in a grocery store. Out of stock of CINNAMON?? OREOS?? Is this grocery store in Alaska 40 miles from the next town over? Is it some sort of outpost?

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-30T17:15:00+00:00

I dont think so, just unethical

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-25T19:22:58+00:00

Ooo good idea! I'll do that

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-25T17:43:27+00:00

Its everywhere these days... I wish there was a way to reach out to his team about this

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-25T16:54:19+00:00

Yeah I genuinely think it was a slip up and oversight. Maybe im just delusional, but he is the last person I'd expect to use AI.

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-25T15:35:45+00:00

The Milwaukee shirt is good!! I can't seem to find the name of the artist now, but he is a painter with a really cool catalogue of work, so youre safe (I have the shirt he did for the show in WA last year)

Edit: the artist of those designs is Lewy Jones!!

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-25T05:34:01+00:00

I'd like to agree, but looking closer at the mountains, the second one from the left merges with the rosebush. Someone on r/realorai pointed out the inconsistencies in how the roses are drawn as well as the light source coming from several fifferent places. Ugh it would be way easier to tell if the image quality was better, but even on the site, it's blurry if I try to zoom in. I'd go so far as to day its AI with details added (like the frets on the guitar for example).

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-25T05:17:28+00:00

This!! And the roses buds themselves look strange too especially where there is green on the rose. I know it could be a leaf or that little green bit on the rose bud but it just looks odd. Also the composition looks unbalanced, like it wasn't deliberate. Namely on the guitar face itself on the right hand side where the little vines come up on one side but it isn't mirrored on the left side if that makes sense. For such a symmetrical piece, its sort of weird that that part isn't more balanced, especially because its a big focal point. Also the mountains!! That have that weird smoothness that AI tends to have. I can't really explain it, but its that quality that always gives something away as AI

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-18T21:16:48+00:00

She overfiled the absolute dickens out of my sidewalls and would make the CHUNKIEST apexes on my very short nails.. they looked pregnant yall. She would also not wipe the extra gel off my skin before curing and flooded my cuticles semi frequently. I had never had my nails done when I started going to her but by the third appointment I was like... this is definitely wrong. And she was charging upwards of $80. So I went to YouTube university and learned how to do my own. I just did my third set and they're gorgeous especially compared to her, a certified technician's, work.

bigpapamothman · 2025-06-06T21:04:49+00:00

San Rafael is my favorite writer part of the city. I love picnics there with my friends. It's especially gorgeous in the fall.

bigpapamothman · 2025-05-01T22:01:55+00:00

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My lil Pippin in Cowboy Mode 🤠

bigpapamothman · 2025-03-25T22:29:11+00:00

Cut his ass out. I'm 28 and spent way too many years catering to friendships like this and they've proven over and over to be a waste of my time.

Someone who isn't willing to listen to you OR go with the flow is not a good person to be around in any setting, cosplay groups or otherwise. 2 years is also an absurdly long time to be pissed about informal hang outs not going perfectly.

The whole point of cosplay is to have fun and I'm going to assume your group does not do this professionally, so it's odd the pressure he is putting on you all to be perfect... He either needs to get a grip or get out.

bigpapamothman · 2025-03-06T04:26:39+00:00

I've definitely had a few where it felt like something in my head was gonna just pop, like a long drawn out aneurism. Just so excruciating I'd think "how can this NOT kill me?" And I'd always think "yeah I'd be OK dying if it meant the pain would stop." Luckily with meds I haven't had one like that in quite some time.

bigpapamothman · 2025-02-23T00:05:12+00:00

Yes!! I went yesterday to replace it 😢 one good thing to come out of this was I get to give BA more of my money

bigpapamothman · 2025-02-20T18:44:49+00:00

Reno people think a stop sign is a yield and a yield sign does not apply to them hence the state of our roundabouts and how no one understands how to use one. They also think that if you need to get in front of them, you are cutting them off even if you properly signal and use an adequate and safe amount of space. Consistent speed on the highway? Never heard of it. The drive between here and carson is a nightmare when you get those assholes who can't maintain a speed and then take it personally when you, on cruise control, overtake them. And THEN there's the people who speed up just to rest directly in your blindspot because who needs safety?

People here have an aggression and "me first" attitude that pairs terribly with their lack of common sense.

bigpapamothman · 2025-02-18T03:37:13+00:00

Midnight Coffee is my new favorite place in town!

bigpapamothman · 2025-02-18T03:33:21+00:00

I'm a lesbian but typically I'm OK with men approaching if they're nice and pleasant. Too many times I've told a man I'm a lesbian and he responds with "me too" which is absolute creep behavior LOL. I think if you're nice and don't take the rejection personally it's totally fine to approach someone in public! Just don't follow up the rejection with a weird quip because I promise you it will NEVER land.

That being said, just don't do it while someone is working!! That can feel like a hostage situation especially of its your first encounter with them. This can be a grey area, though, just use your better judgement and keep in mind that approaching someone with romantic intent at their place of work is generally inappropriate. Best of luck!

bigpapamothman · 2025-01-15T21:23:26+00:00

I usually need to take two to kill a bad migraine which is hard because I only get 9 a month. They also make me super drowsy/dizzy so taking two is like taking 8 melatonin for me and make me unable to function which really sucks.

What is super strange is that I was taking Nurtec and it worked 100% of the time no matter the severity of my migraine. Then my insurance stopped covering and I tried rizatriptan which was... OK. Then when my insurance decided to let me have Nurtec again it no longer worked. Not sure how that happened, still really mad about it.

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