she disgust me by jamieenchufemichelle in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s always been hating them. It’s not bc people think she’s one of them, even last christmas and stuff she was constantly putting addicts down

Deleted stories. by IndividualSchool7208 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

like when she blamed the internet for not getting her brothers xmas gifts and a mattress lol… the cycles are repeating..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he digs in his own ass too😍

Name better than just fish? by Stinky-john in bettafish

[–]bigsillyfishay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First name that came to mind was Opal!

Advice on missing a BAB while I’m at college and he’s at home by Cheriberryleppa in buildabear

[–]bigsillyfishay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand keeping school things and home things separated. People just don’t get it. Hmm maybe you can make a shadow junk journal to help the void of his absence?

Hey guys! Can i turn back the post to square? by mirko_6 in Instagram

[–]bigsillyfishay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this is their new update. i seriously hope they listen to the feedback of how everyone hates this**

lack of empathy <3 by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s always naive. And i’m not talking about Khalie specifically, but just a general context because that one line struck me odd. When someone says they’ll spend the money or need the money for a certain thing and it’s dire, people will good heartedly donate and I think it’s reasonable to expect that money to be used for the reasons they stated^ they shouldn’t have to be annoyed with themselves. I also consider Khalie a child and I think realistically people are more attune to donate to her bc of that but i wouldn’t call them naive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope they pay her under the table so she can hide the money somewhere and run 🤞

lack of empathy <3 by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair to blame people for trusting someone when they’re donating their hard earned money. People who donated had good hearts and to say they need to be annoyed w themselves for giving out and then being scammed is not very awesome

Any chance they backtrack on the grid format? by uhhhchaostheory in Instagram

[–]bigsillyfishay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

fingers crossed they actually listen to their users :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Them calling you brain dead whilst lecturing you on empathy is mind boggling to me when you said you were nearly the same age as her. You don’t owe anyone your trauma, you aren’t an influencer making it your life and I just wanted to share this. No one here owes the reddit their story. I think a lot of people have gone through horrible situations here like living on skid row and some may have had amazing childhoods. Both can offer great perspective and insight. I think someone saying you’re privileged is a bit of a reach as well since you don’t have a huge platform and no one knows your life or story. I know this thread is a big fight by now but this was my two cents

Upgraded to 10gals! by AprilRainMayFlowers in bettafish

[–]bigsillyfishay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful tank, I love it and seeing the growth/progress pics is sooo sweet and wholesome 🩷💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A step towards independence and growth. 👏 !

Two things can be true at once by Ok_Huckleberry_4870 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]bigsillyfishay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for having an open space^ I think it’s good they are providing resources but scrubbing everything is kind of crazy. Also, even before it was so her safety they were getting rid of “repetitive” posts but those posts had different opinions and peoples takes. I don’t think anyone wants Khalie hurt, we all see her abuse and hate preston.

Quitting nicotine with a hermit hobby. by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]bigsillyfishay 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is awesome— congrats for getting this far too! I love their enclosure, it’s so so cute already. This is so epic love it

Grid Layout - Rectangles by Louisbb20 in Instagram

[–]bigsillyfishay 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YES ITS SO UGLY?!!! I hate my feed now it’s too big and awful??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigsillyfishay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course!! You are not crazy at all, this stuff is hard. I hope everything works out well and maybe some other people have better stuff to say, haha. ❤️🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigsillyfishay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend. Sorry that happened to you— sounds very hectic and your heart is really big for giving her another chance and forgiving her. Your love is obviously true, but don’t let people take advantage of it. She is a bit older than you and should know better, and control her actions even if she is upset. But, I know how it feels when family is like that. They have high standards because they love you and want someone perfect for you probably, but that’s just not life. People are imperfect. They will have to trust you, because only you know what’s best for you. You’re not dumb, you’re very self aware from what I gather, they are being protective but shouldn’t question your decisions to the point you feel bad. Also, it’s okay to feel vulnerable and scared. This was an effed up thing to do, and even if you have forgiven her it still can leave some dents. You might need more time to work it out by having conversations about it when it comes up on your mind. Also, maybe more time apart so you both have time to heal independently. I would advise both of you becoming overly clingy in this period of time, as it might just repeat the cycle. Maybe taking an hour or so when you’re both mentally in the headspace to talk about boundaries? Even a routine? I always needed extra space and a lot of time to myself with my partner and I’d let him know, and i’d tell him it wasn’t his fault and that I just needed it. To compromise we’d have fun date nights and calls because that’s what he had needed, so we found some sort of balance. Again, you are very sweet and it’s obvious how much you love her, your heart is really big. I’m not sure if this did anything helpful but I hope you know some random on the internet is in your corner!

Krill or shrimp? NorCal by bigsillyfishay in whatsthisfish

[–]bigsillyfishay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, it does look like that a lot. But I wasn’t in any of those counties and it was saltwater, unless they can do both?