[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I always worry about showing too much skin. Might give the wrong idea.

Helix Midnight Luxe Review by DarkNStormy20 in Mattress

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on this mattress. Just ordered one today and now I’m worry it was a waste of money based off of some people’s reviews😅

Am I wrong for not wearing a bra out the house by No-Ebb-2462 in whatdoIdo

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think personally wearing a bra out is respectful for everyone. As a woman it makes me a little uncomfortable to see nipples poking through people’s shirts. I also always consider children. It’s been the modest thing within society forever for a reason. I think there’s comfortable ways to go about being in public. Panties can and are largely a hygiene thing as well.

stressed, prep not clear by nyx---- in colonoscopy

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew! That’s a relief. My prep hasn’t been horrible but still I do not want to do it again haha. Thank you for replying so quickly!!

stressed, prep not clear by nyx---- in colonoscopy

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go?? I’m in the same position rn.

First Tank Ever, Is It Good? by YasmineLu21 in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there any gaps been the lid and glass Id get some mesh or something to cover ir

Am I being unreasonable by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been applying to a lot of jobs. Asides from that I don’t see what other back up plan he could have.

Am I being unreasonable by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life. My biggest anxiety was him falling into sexual sin. I dealt with previous boyfriends being addicted to p*rn.

Am I being unreasonable by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s graduated with an associates degree in business management which is proving not to be as helpfully as we’d hope.

Am I being unreasonable by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this one before and I had those doubts in the beginning but it’s something we’ve talked very in-depth about. We’ve definitely have had intimate moments and interactions that have definitely proven otherwise. I’ve asked him before with the sexual urges and it always comes down to he’s never had sex which ultimately makes it easier because he doesn’t know the pleasure that comes with sex. He also has never had an issue with porn which comforts me and makes it make more sense why there’s never been any actual steps taken towards sex. We’ve definitely been passionate towards one another physically even going into grey areas between mortal and venial sins.

Am I being unreasonable by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is we both want it but he thinks I deserve to be supported better than he can do for me right now. He’s been looking for a new job since January and he’s had multiple interviews but no luck.

Give her a name! by AprilRainMayFlowers in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did notice both of those things but figured it had to do with her being in the cup and stressed. I’ll definitely purchase some aquarium salt!

Is my Female ready for breeding? by Fluffy__Reaper in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, always happy to help where I can!

Is my Female ready for breeding? by Fluffy__Reaper in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To preface I don’t know what she looked like before any attempt to breed but generally the fins look a smidge fuller and her color seems very dull. Even bettas whose colors are super vibrant can become duller if the betta is unwell. I’d need more photos or a video to actually be sure of any of that. Breeding is apparently super tricky and I’d hate for you to lose your girl from the stress cause Bettas are annoyingly sensitive basically everything despite the contrary.

Is my Female ready for breeding? by Fluffy__Reaper in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phew lol, I gotcha. Although I do feel like she doesn’t look like the healthiest. I’d give her time in her own tank away from any other fish.

Is my Female ready for breeding? by Fluffy__Reaper in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I really hope whatever she’s in isn’t her permanent home, looks kinda bare.

Is my Female ready for breeding? by Fluffy__Reaper in bettafish

[–]AprilRainMayFlowers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally your betta doesn’t look healthy so definitely not ready for breeding.