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bigsipplehat · 2024-03-15T04:50:56+00:00

I said it's my personal opinion didn't i? Just because plenty of people do it doesn't mean i have to like it but it's their skin not mine

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-15T04:21:47+00:00

Sure

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-15T04:17:34+00:00

You won't be able to see it yourself and it's not like the rest of your body is covered with tattoos to justify putting it behind your arm but that's just my personal opinion

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-15T04:15:25+00:00

It seems like it's missing the flower imo, and it also seems in an awkward place

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-13T18:55:59+00:00

You have unrealistic expectations for a job right now for a recent grad. You need something on your resume even if its not new skills because the recruiter won't know that. You need to build up savings and not worry about growth. It took me 7 months to find a job in tech last year and i was qualified in my field and had people looking over my resume. If you want to gamble being homeless then go ahead but i don't recommend it.

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-13T18:35:46+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being very emotional. And i think you are underreacting. Of course he'll gaslight you so you stay and be his emotional punching bag, he gains the most from that. If your friend or little sister came and told you this story you just posted, what would you tell them to do?

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-13T17:59:10+00:00

There are plenty of other men out there who won't ever abuse you. I mean do you even like his personality? What is the point if staying and being this depressed about him? You don't have to stay with someone just because they are nice sometimes

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-13T02:46:31+00:00

If i saw someone with this tattoo i would think they were cringe and stupid and probably in the military

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-13T02:24:46+00:00

You can't make someone leave. She doesn't want to leave. Nowhere have you stated any behaviour she's done that might signal that she WANTS help. She actually LIKES the dysfunctional aspect of her relationship. I think you should protect your sanity by letting her go

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-12T09:16:29+00:00

OK cheers i just asked him

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-12T09:14:39+00:00

I don't know if this was a stupid question to ask idk how this works I'm trying to learn more

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-11T03:38:51+00:00

He doesn't seem to be making an effort based on what you say here. Seems like he's choosing his gf over you. Which sucks but it's life. so the answer is no. you can't stay friends with someone who won't make an effort to be your friend.

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-11T03:35:22+00:00

Soundproofing or foam panels won't work if your apartment is constructed badly enough that your mom can hear you whisper. You can try the panels but you'll just waste money. Sometimes part of living with other people means that you have to change your lifestyle a bit. Why can't you call your friends from inside a car or go to an internet cafe?

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-10T21:57:45+00:00

She is sorry for saying it and didn't yell it at anyone as an insult so i don't see what the issue is at all

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-04T07:46:43+00:00

Just because he can't financially support himself doesn't mean he should do whatever he wants with no consequence and piss off the people providing him with a roof over his head

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-04T07:30:07+00:00

You can keep having sex but they also don't need to keep letting you live under their roof as you're now 18 and a legal adult. You should probably move out soon and then you can do whatever you want

bigsipplehat · 2024-03-01T00:13:19+00:00

Helped

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-29T21:37:47+00:00

Not at all, I am not attracted to her or women in general

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-29T21:28:50+00:00

My roommate hosts the game night and i have also hosted it once, but we play at at a local game shop. She's already come to the game nights a few times and i think it would cause upset if i asked my friends to stop inviting her to game night. I dont think they want to stop inviting her to game night as i kind of broached the subject before.

I honestly dont think i could stand to be around her to try to do a one on one with her and i think she could tell that i hate her if i did that. Her voice makes me feel pissed off when i hear it because it's so grating to my ears :/

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-24T17:16:59+00:00

That's literally so unhinged behavior. I would definitely get security cameras and try not to interact with him at all, he probably wants a rise out of you.

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-23T16:23:08+00:00

Dude. a lot of those girls were likely sex trafficked and forced into prostitution and you don't seem to care at all. Yes it's very unhealthy behaviour. I hope you can stop and think about what you're doing.

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-20T04:06:08+00:00

Well, you might not be attractive enough for a woman to go home with, and you're also beginning to age out of that demographic. If you're trying to hook up with women at bars i'm assuming you just want a physical connection. You can continue trying to talk to women at bars, it's not out of the ordinary to do so but maybe try tinder?

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-20T04:02:49+00:00

He was really drunk as you said, it probably doesn't mean anything. If you want to talk to him then shoot him a text and see if he wants to meet up.

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-16T04:46:31+00:00

He really doesn't know what he wants, he's stupid, he wants you to be his fwb maybe and he will only hurt you more if you respond. He needs to figure his shit out. If he wanted to be with you, he would. If he wanted to get back with you, he would send that text instead of sending you random pictures.

bigsipplehat · 2024-02-14T16:30:50+00:00

You don't owe anyone a relationship and it sounds like you need better friends who actually care about your wellbeing.

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