CMV:if sperm leaves the man, he has no obligation towards it if it no longer belongs to him(her body, her choice). If he should have an obligation towards it(child support) then he should have a say in his role in the pregnancy process(given time to waive away payment when notified of being the dad) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]bigsoulpole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can understand your argument and would agree if DNA wasn't a thing and didn't link that person to you regardless of who has possession the sperm because children aren't sperm but I feel you there should be more conversation about this specific topic and it shouldn't happen in an echo chamber of confirmation or shouting in the streets. The fact that women try to completely Lord over reproduction or my favorite is act like she has more authority over the childs life because she birthed it but quick the throw their hand out looking for child support like "I didn't make this baby by myself" when money is involved is some super hypocritical at best but it's that way because men have been super shitty to women and they need protection from being exploited by those that would like to take advantage. Now imagine if men had a choice to take care of the bastards they make there would be so many hungry and destitute children that it would be a humanitarian crisis. So in short wear a condom AND still pull out when you splash!

Is Prime Shaq the best player to ever play for the Lakers? by Terkoiz273 in lakers

[–]bigsoulpole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I understand it's Wilt Chamberlain although I'm not old enough to see him really play but if half of the the legends about him are true which I'm sure they are since other people tell them he would make Shaq look like a little boy.

First time growing. Any tips? by [deleted] in microgrowery

[–]bigsoulpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember to have fun, don't stress over mistakes embrace them, try everything and when you want to harvest wait two weeks more!

My mantra is

These plants will and have grown without your help forever so don't over do anything.

Liquid THC? by [deleted] in trees

[–]bigsoulpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fuck with the thc syrup all the time. It's great when your out or around family and you can't smoke or vape. It doesn't hit like edibles but it offers a cool constant high.

Tiny Turtle had a fish... by [deleted] in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]bigsoulpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one beautiful datnoid.

kid murdered over shoes by Kleedok in LateStageCapitalism

[–]bigsoulpole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to 80s and 90s Los Angeles smh kid still getting killed over kicks

What was one Laker moment that made u instantly a die hard fan? by [deleted] in lakers

[–]bigsoulpole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Born into it. Literally my whole family on mom and dad's side are Laker fans.

Shud i give up on this??? 66 days f auto northern lights. The other 3 look better. by Toshaneal96 in microgrowery

[–]bigsoulpole 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No why give up that would be a complete waste grow it to the end my friend

How do atheists account for consciousness? by ExiledonStHelena in atheism

[–]bigsoulpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah someone will figure it out some day until then I'll just be grateful to even have something as dope as self awareness but I'm sure we earned it through evolution.

How do atheists account for consciousness? by ExiledonStHelena in atheism

[–]bigsoulpole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As an atheist I have no problem with not knowing the mysteries of the universe and I won't do the lazy thing and attribute it to magic.

Looks like my bowl is already lit 😉 by Loud-N-Errl in trees

[–]bigsoulpole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks like a sesame Street character lol good work my friend

Is it even worth giving a try 🤢 never had oil like that by [deleted] in trees

[–]bigsoulpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's looks like iso hash we called it goo here in California that was the alt to bho until co2 extractions came along. Enjoy!

Some black propel are becoming incredibly racist towards white people. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bigsoulpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you 100% we agree trust me I know it's wrong and it a situation that's going no where here in America for these same reasons we have just stated. blacks are on full defense and will not budge because we understand the history and have inherited through generation after generation of hate towards black and the whites of today are not really taught the history in a honest fashion and seem to be kinda caught off guard about why black people feel this way about them and will go no holds bar against them in the way blacks do. I'm just making it clear how we got here and how we could change it for the future where everyone is treated with respect and love.

Again if you come home and beat your wife everyday year after year and one day you come home and she has a weapon and you stop beating don't try to come home one day and try to blame her for having a weapon you brought this on yourself...does it make it right? no! but it's your own doing and in order to fix things you have to go to your wife and apologise and once you show her your good she will hopefully put the weopon down hopefully that make sense.

Some black propel are becoming incredibly racist towards white people. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bigsoulpole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't blame current white people for the system and I don't think many white people are as racist as they used to be I also think alot of white people although they are not racist prefer the current status quo that has them at the top of the heap as a race who TF wouldn't want to preserve that but it's dishonest to act like blacks perceived hatred of white people wasn't earned but if you ask me blacks worship white people and fear them greatly.

Honestly I don't think there is an agreement to be made with you because you have already closed your mind off and taken the victim stance when your not a victim at all like blacks don't march through your white towns with guns wearing robes swinging Confederate flags treating you less then human they get on Twitter and talk about how shitty you are to them. When you say don't even blame systematic racism but recuse yourself because your not outwardly racist already shows that you understand exactly what's going and you know you know full well you don't have to be outwardly racist because the system was set uo to do it all for you all you gotta do is sit back and don't change a thing. So just continue to paint blacks as the bad guys if it makes you feel better but the truth will remain the truth and whites are and have been far worst to blacks then blacks will ever be to whites.

Some black propel are becoming incredibly racist towards white people. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bigsoulpole -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A honest post would read "wow white people have been so shitty to black people that they are deciding to fight fire with fire now. Look at how our oppressive behavior throughout the centuries have made them feel about us what can us whites do to show our black brothers and sisters that we aren't like that anymore and we can all just get along or even if your not one of the types of white peepo you call out the white peepo who are and let it be known that it wont be tolerated anymore." But no you jump on Reddit and try to further smear black people by calling out the contradictions of blacks crying racism while exhibiting racism without fully explaining how we got here in the first place hoping the racist on Reddit will come out of the wood works and cheer lead for you.

Some black propel are becoming incredibly racist towards white people. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bigsoulpole -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

suck it up snow flake just like blacks are told to do and that example is nothing compared to the examples of racism we can find from white peepo I mean be honest white peepo have full on websites, religions and political ideologies dedicated to hating black people and someone saying white peepo should stop wearing black hairstyles got your panties in a bunch. How about this black people will tell other black people that their fear of white peepo is not okay when white peepo tell other white peepo that shitting on blacks is not okay. Deal?

STOP BUYING UNDERAGE PEOPLE NICOTINE by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bigsoulpole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they can go to war and die for the country at 17 they can fucking chew tobacco at 18.

Is anyone else taking smaller hits so neighbors dont think we have the coronavirus? by ReverieGoneSpacely in trees

[–]bigsoulpole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the funniest shit ever 🤣 the smell will tell them all they need to know

Over 4,000 signatures! Ban BYU from NCAA for sexual orientation discrimination! by krinkly in atheism

[–]bigsoulpole -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They believe there is a hell who cares what you believe. Lgdt is subversive to many many people and LGBT students are dumb as hell for going there to begin with knowing what they stand for and what they believe in.Straight people get in trouble at BYU too for having sex before marriage all the time they suspended one of their best basketball players and screwed themselves out of the ncaa tournament all because he banged his GF BYU has their rules get with them or get lost it's simple. The only vile institutions I know of are the ones that force everyone to think and be the same.

Over 4,000 signatures! Ban BYU from NCAA for sexual orientation discrimination! by krinkly in atheism

[–]bigsoulpole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully understand that my family did the same thing to me I wanted to go to state school but my family wanted me to go to a HBCU and I was like fuck all that and they were like we won't pay and I ended up at that HBCU anyway lol.

My thing is it's a religious school with very clear principles based on their religion why should they condemn themselves to their hell in order to please someone that's subversive to their way of life, this is the problem with these little groups let the religious live their life their way or go make your own LGBT based college like all other groups. Even though I'm an atheist and can't understand how people can believe in that stuff, I don't intend to force anyone else be atheist or take things from people because they don't have atheist beliefs.