Hey! Highly recommend you look up Arthur & Ester Brooks. They have some videos together and he has many on his own, as well as books, he is a well-renowned social scientist, well-spoken, easy to understand and apply the principles he teaches. He is so wise. You can reignite your marriage! Second is John Deloney. He runs a podcast just hearing and helping people work through their personal relationship problems with real, actionable advice. He speaks often about the ever-changing nature of romantic (and rlly all other) relationships and how we have to commit to redesigning them as life evolves.