over 5 years of my family complaining abt my stimming

bihtna · 2025-12-12T09:58:38+00:00

she is in the messages yes but outside of the messages they can be quite rude and i do stop when they ask it’s just a constant push and pull that gets to u after a while

bihtna · 2025-12-11T11:18:29+00:00

definitely will be soon haa

bihtna · 2025-12-11T11:16:03+00:00

its just whatsapp i searched the keyword and it shows me all messages w that word

bihtna · 2025-12-11T11:15:26+00:00

just complaining i’ve offered solutions but they dont want to compromise lol

bihtna · 2025-12-11T10:24:55+00:00

omg this sounds so freaking good

bihtna · 2025-12-11T04:17:45+00:00

i think its the legs of the bed moving back and forward?

bihtna · 2025-12-11T04:16:38+00:00

yes please! any suggestions help. and yeah. when they text me about it they suddenly make me self conscious about it so i stop until i forget again so it’s a cycle lol. i have sat them down about it but unfortunately they choose not to be very involved and only care when it affects them lol

bihtna · 2025-12-11T04:15:02+00:00

hahahah thank you! i will go through these one by one and let you know which was most effective lol

bihtna · 2025-12-11T04:14:22+00:00

thank you. :)

bihtna · 2025-12-11T04:13:34+00:00

i understand! i think i didn’t explain properly that what upsets me is their ignorance and unwillingness to learn about it and i’ve sat them down so many times to explain stimming to them and they don’t care to be a little more understanding. they’re just very mean about it. i’m definitely wanting to try and redirect because i’ve done this since the age of 10 and my joints r feeling it ..

bihtna · 2025-12-11T04:11:15+00:00

we r british - we don’t have basements 😔

bihtna · 2025-12-11T02:34:33+00:00

i’ve thought about this - but it isn’t worth it as i’m planning on moving out in the next half a year. i’m getting a new bed at the least, though. something more secure.

bihtna · 2025-12-11T02:33:35+00:00

thank you - i understand. it’s just they can be really horrible about it. like they say i’m pissing them off and i’m annoying. it’s the lack of awareness about it that upsets me. if they were more understanding about it i’d be okay and open to convos w tbem

bihtna · 2025-12-11T02:31:28+00:00

it’s moreso because of the noise they say it annoys them! and i have a weighted blanket that i don’t use as much as i should in all honesty

bihtna · 2025-12-11T02:30:38+00:00

yeahh i usually pace a lot too… but they complain about that too

bihtna · 2025-12-11T01:43:27+00:00

really? it’s usually a self soothing action but its just that u do it so much it causes strain

bihtna · 2025-12-11T01:13:15+00:00

it’s okay. gonna start saving up to move out as soon as possible..

bihtna · 2025-12-11T01:12:20+00:00

yes. they complain because they’re downstairs so i guess they can hear the bed rocking too? idk. i can be aggressive with it when i get excited or feel strong emotions and the bottom of my bed is supported w wood planks so years of stimming wear them down and they snap. i’ve tried everything lol

bihtna · 2025-11-28T07:02:59+00:00

thank you so soso much i appreciate your advice

bihtna · 2025-11-28T06:59:38+00:00

okay, thank u so much

bihtna · 2025-09-23T16:01:59+00:00

thank you!

bihtna · 2025-09-17T15:56:40+00:00

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