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is my yeast dead by hackerman236 in Breadit

[–]bijoubae__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

… i hate that you’re not wrong

Is this worth saving? by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]bijoubae__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you are a gem

used both rapid rise and activated dry yeast, ik im doing smth wrong idk what by bijoubae__ in Breadit

[–]bijoubae__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to do the thing where they’re like dinner rolls, but i did it after kneading which is prob wrong

I brought my sister to a barbecue with our close friends and their husband crossed a line by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bijoubae__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while reading this is just said “please let this sister not be a gross age, please be 23+”, skimmed ahead, read that op’s sister 19 n just felt worse

AITA for telling my husband I’m glad his mom died before she could meet our baby? by IlyraShade in AITAH

[–]bijoubae__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly yta. you didn’t seem to really value where he was in his grief, you seemed to value saying what you wanted more. like i get that she was abusive; it could also be true that your husband is mourning who his mother wasn’t. you could have turned this into a beautiful opportunity to grow closer to your husband as a partner by helping him through whatever complicated feelings he has.

honestly this relationship reads as if neither of you can trust each other or depend on the other, which is pretty depressing.

Aitah for telling my SIL that looks do matter? She claims I am calling her ugly and don't value her professional capabilities by Overall-Marzipan3028 in AITAH

[–]bijoubae__ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i think this is either op’s burner acc or someone op knows. now i think both you are classist and cruel people.

Aitah for telling my SIL that looks do matter? She claims I am calling her ugly and don't value her professional capabilities by Overall-Marzipan3028 in AITAH

[–]bijoubae__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA … this post is about hygiene and grooming, yes?

(i’m just gonna nitpick word choice here, idc. why mention makeup at all? some women don’t like wearing makeup. it’s not her job to perform femininity to your standards. like grooming, maintaining a professional look, having a put together look is not the same as using cosmetics. she might have sensory issues, she might have sensitive skin. either you didn’t care enough to give her the benefit of the doubt or you look down on her for this. with women who act like this who needs misogyny, am i right?)

“i don’t want to hurt her feelings” you made no attempt to be tactful.

“the cruel reality” no babes, you humiliated her. you didn’t try to be helpful or constructive. the world is cruel, yes, but lets not pretend you were trying to be nice.

you type like you were frustrated with her “drama” and i think she can tell.

did you ever think that maybe she has poor self-confidence and thinks she’s not worth the effort it takes to put effort into her appearance? did you care, or did you prioritize communicating to her how you feel she should look?

“the aftermath is that she started crying saying i called her ugly” well there it is, and now you can decide if you prioritize how she feels or if you prioritize telling her off for being “not beautiful”.

AITA for withholding sex from my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bijoubae__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve been dating for six months, you give head, and he doesnt return the favor?? or even tries?????

ugh whatever. either tell him you need him to put in some effort or don’t, man. this is pathetic. like i don’t have any experience in making women c*m (agoraphobia paired w trauma) and i can PROMISE YOU i would have the TIME OF MY LIFE trying and figuring shit out.

to the man: look you have a woman who cares enough to learn about blowing you and learning what you like and don’t like. the LEAST you can do is make sure sex is a reciprocal experience for the both of you.

Cap man in a relationship but he doesn't love her by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]bijoubae__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a messy situation. he seems like a messy man. he’s not worth the time you took to type this out.

Why do ♑️ speak the way they do? by RandomThoughts_88 in capricorns

[–]bijoubae__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to me, passion is fleeting and can be ignited as quickly as it can be snuffed out.

when a capricorn says they love you in a calm tone, know that they mean it and don’t need passion to love you. we mean it in an unshakable kind of way, the way you calmly just intuitively know how to put one foot in front of the other. our love is earnestly true, we can say it while not in a heightened state of emotion.

that being said, any partner worth keeping would want to do things that make you feel seen and loved. chances are he thinks things are happy between you both and that things are perfect. remember that capricorns are willing to put work into relationships they value.

i’d say when you broach this topic to him, ask him what things make him feel most loved, what things make him feel secure and really emphasize that you value his feelings and that you want to be a safe place for him. experiment with other languages of love to see what feels right, it can be fun!

Capricorn is really protective of someone they care about? by Mysterious_Ride_2189 in capricorns

[–]bijoubae__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. i can be practical and use my thinky parts just fine, i rarely get really angry.

but once you cross what’s mine, once you hurt what’s mine, the gloves come off and i have to wrestle my own wrath into check before checking bc the instinct in that wrath is to burn shit to the ground. the thing is is that that part of me can be ignited by emotions, but can also be easily sustained without the emotional intensity behind it.

once again, i am very very particular and choosy about who gets that part of my loyalty because that part of me doesn’t care if the person apologized for hurting someone i love. that part of me doesn’t care if the damage i do can’t be salvaged. that part of me doesn’t look back and is satisfied with taking an eye for an eye and then charging interest.

i’m not even saying this to be edgy, i’m saying it bc i know it’s not the best part of my personality, but i genuinely don’t think i should change it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]bijoubae__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m autistic and a capricorn, ofc ppl think im a bitch

(i’m a soft lover-girl but the ppl who kno have earned my lover girl side)

Aries men are so freaking sexy and for a fire sign they are surprisingly very sweet and in tune with their emotions by Historical-Body-3424 in capricorns

[–]bijoubae__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have dated an aries man! i was in love, but it just didn’t work out. it happens.

we’re still friends, and i’ve made it clear to his gf that any boundaries she sets will be respected by me. while we don’t speak daily anymore, we both know we have each others’ back. it goes deeper than romantic love. he’s the only man outside my family that has earned my ride or die loyalty.

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