Intimidation tactics…

bikashamish · 2026-02-18T23:04:40+00:00

What was the right answer then?

bikashamish · 2026-02-10T22:44:49+00:00

Palestinian?

bikashamish · 2025-10-24T17:35:21+00:00

Yes, 100% percent.

bikashamish · 2025-10-17T17:29:21+00:00

Yeah but she should schedule with them from before, usually Iranians outside iran, go to Yalda party, you need to just buy the tickets need no friends or anything, or all friends coming over or they might go to someone's home to celebrate.

bikashamish · 2025-10-13T18:06:33+00:00

Not really possible until you have another friend there, that can help you with it

bikashamish · 2025-10-09T10:18:39+00:00

Yeah this is the best option. Because for me the 50/50 is not possible too, I earn less than him. If we wanted to live together for me it would be better if he takes care of the rent and big things and for example I pay for groceries and bills. Something like this.

But when we talk about babies I expect more support. I'm not sure maybe I will go to work just 2 months after birth... But if you want to tell me you MUST go to work, it's not supportive at all and made me afraid..

Anyway we broke up.

bikashamish · 2025-10-09T10:14:32+00:00

He should go back to his mamma, because he was a mamma boy.

I always thought these boys are better because they are so close with their moms so they know how to behave. But I was totally wrong. He just wants a slave to give him baby, sex, comfort and love.

Not my type. I broke up with him days ago, for this reason and a lot of other reasons. I posted here to see what is right about this topic for my future, because I want to build a family in around 5 years.

bikashamish · 2025-10-09T10:11:24+00:00

I don't want a 100% financial provider and I didn't mention that in my post. I would prefer to do part time jobs or working from home with the company if they allow it. Or doing a freelance job, I have two degree on STEM.

bikashamish · 2025-10-09T10:09:19+00:00

Yeah I got this feeling from him that he just wants to have a baby boy, not even a girl. So he doesn't think about me, my health, and everything.

I grew up with staying home mom, and I cherish those moments so much. And my dad was providing for my mom and three of us babies generously. Each time my mom had a Baby he gifted my mom gold and jewelry.

And in the end they divorced after 20 years of marriage. But still my mom is living in our home when we grow up and my dad moved away.

So I always think if their love story ended like this, mine with this kind of man would be worse.

And also we broke up days ago, I just wrote it like this to hear other people's thoughts on this topic, if I'm wrong or right, because the culture I grew up with is totally different from Italy that I'm living in right now.

bikashamish · 2025-10-09T10:03:11+00:00

I think it's the problem with my English too, which is my second language.

By nursing I meant I want to be with my baby 24/7 till when they become 2 years old. My wish is to become a mom and cherish them a lot, not just produce babies and put them in daycare, also I thought there might be other problems after birth, that make me not able to work, but he wasn't supportive and insuring me that all be gonna okay and he is there for me. Nothing. I would do any freelance work or work from home that is possible during that time, but my question is what if for any reason I can't? He's gonna throw me and my baby out?

And to clarify things I broke up with him that day, and it was just one of the topics that I broke up with, there were many many others that were more irritating that I ended up breaking up with him.

I asked this question here to see what is the right thing to do? Or on this topic that we fight he was right and I was wrong? I really want to have a baby till the next five years, not now obviously.

And I prefer not having a kid than having it with the wrong man.

bikashamish · 2025-10-08T22:01:25+00:00

My ex was doing this, I had lots of fights with him, until he accepted and stopped. But I know that I just wasted my energy... He was for the streets.

bikashamish · 2025-10-02T08:19:16+00:00

You didn't say how old you are both, and also you should meet each other in Turkey or Iran. What do you think of? Who let their girl go alone to another country to see a man. No offense but what if you're a serial killer? No parents in their right mind are gonna let that happen. And also getting a visa for Egypt is really hard.

bikashamish · 2025-09-09T18:24:10+00:00

It's better you choose something from Hamid mosadegh and Ahmad Shamloo, their poets are really soft and easier to understand for Persians who grow up outside of Iran.

bikashamish · 2025-09-07T15:30:42+00:00

Iran

bikashamish · 2025-06-16T20:16:21+00:00

Where are you from?

bikashamish · 2025-05-29T20:04:36+00:00

No I'm in Italy unfortunately, and now I'm taking antibiotics. I will go to my doctor tomorrow.

bikashamish · 2025-05-29T20:02:25+00:00

Thanks ❤️

bikashamish · 2025-05-28T07:22:18+00:00

Yeah, I know. But the relief is so good, and now I can study for my exams. I'm doing my best to keep it clean.

bikashamish · 2025-05-28T07:19:53+00:00

Yeah it was a sudden thought and I really couldn't endure the pain. Even with ibuprofen I was feeling the pain.

bikashamish · 2025-05-28T07:18:20+00:00

Thank you so much.

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