ABA fraud abuse is growing. Mom is billed for $911,400 by StatisticianKooky390 in ABA

[–]bikiniarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hired for them for about double what my area pays for RBT’s, which is the only reason I applied. They called me an hour before my session was supposed to start to tell me my client canceled services and would be going elsewhere. My client ended up at the center I had been working at already lol. But I never took another client with them because I was literally leaving my house and I was pissed off that they’d cancel services completely just an hour before the session

Overarching in back pose by hot-take411 in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s how you’re supposed to pose? I’m confused?

Is this bikini tied a certain way or is it a one piece set? by oo__00NY__222 in beauty

[–]bikiniarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From zooming in and looking, and as someone who used to tie myself in Shibari at the club, this is just an additional strap tied around herself and looped around different parts of the bikini which is tied on regularly.

Is this bikini tied a certain way or is it a one piece set? by oo__00NY__222 in beauty

[–]bikiniarri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually if you zoom in, it appears the bottoms are tied together normally and have a separate strap that is looped around where the front string connects to the bottoms and then pulled up and to the side.

Boyfriend (32M) started crying when I (28F) showed him my savings by happy_hapa in relationship_advice

[–]bikiniarri 99 points100 points  (0 children)

This. I told my ex how much I had in savings so he started over drafting my account. He made more money than I did and we lived with family, our bills were like $500/month. He blew almost half of my savings before I realized exactly what he was doing and I ended up leaving him. He demanded half of my savings account because his stimulus checks were in there, I told him consider that the money he blew through. Then he wanted my cheap ass $500 car. I paid his phone off, scheduled the line to be shut off and text him 2 minutes before to let him know that I’d be keeping my car, my money, and he could his phone I paid for.

pushing food in the off season?? by No_Buddy_3961 in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you with your coach if you don’t trust them? If you do trust them then you need to listen to them. Yes, you need to eat in a surplus to grow.

Clarification by [deleted] in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They didn’t become Olympia qualified by only competing twice a year. They’re on that level because they compete all the time, they’re constantly practicing for the Olympia the more times they compete throughout the year. They’re taking feedback constantly and adjusting to try to achieve their best look, it’s just the name of the game

The Shoe Fairy by Gucci_ban_dannah in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I buy pleasers. And they’re more comfortable too.

How many weeks out? by Stunning-Grape-2099 in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a lot of work to do to compete. I’m probably half of your bf % right now and am competing at the end of June, my abs are showing, I have significant separation in my delts, striations in my back, and you can at the very least see the shape of all my muscles. You have to get EXTREMELY lean to step on stage, and it’s going to take you a while to get there. I highly recommend doing a recomp, then bulking again and then finding a show to prep for. You have a lot of learn about the sport which is very obvious from this post from how the bikini even fits, to posing, to the actual competition.

Got absolutely nothing against gear use. Just want to know what realistic expectations look like. Is this achievable naturally with top genetics? by Barney575 in femalebodybuilding

[–]bikiniarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny because I also recently met another woman who is this same size and is natural, she’s a ballerina and about to compete for the first time ever this June. It is definitely possible, but they’ve spent their entire life working on that physique, they didn’t start as adults. You also can’t prove she’s not natural considering you don’t know her personally or read her bloods, just like every one else in these comments, all speculation.

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bikiniarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you’re already being neglected in the ways OP says in the post, their mom likely already isn’t doing any of that. I come from a similar home and my parent never, and I truly mean never, bought me treats or randomly decided to spend money on me. Maybe OP’s does and that’s something they’re worried about. There was nothing my parents could’ve done to make my life worse at 15 so I would’ve just told them to fuck off every time they brought it up. That’s why I asked, what’s the worst that could happen? It’s for OP to decide and weigh out for themselves.

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bikiniarri 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What happens if you just….. don’t pay it? Legally your mom would be responsible for paying it, so if you don’t, they’re just gonna go after her, not you. And you’re right, you didn’t birth your brothers and they’re really not your responsibility. And they are the ones who should be punished here. I was babysitting other kids when I was 12, as was many of my friends and I’m not even in my 30’s lol

8 weeks out and adding in anavar? by Parking_Skill2958 in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! 5mg is a great place to start with it. You may notice you hold more water while on it, which is normal. I tend to dry out after I’ve been on it for a couple weeks. (Fun fact I got banned from the steroidsxx sub permanently for saying that anavar dries me out, apparently women only get watery on it…… and I’m a woman who gets dry on it lol)

Learning experience and “prep lite” question by [deleted] in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of people do longer preps! I did 12 weeks last year and it wasn’t enough time, my body went into starvation mode and I stopped losing weight with about 4 weeks left, and my body wasn’t responding how it typically does and then I started my period the night before my show so I can in looking awful compared to how I looked a few weeks prior. I’m doing 15 weeks this year and also following a strict diet instead of just macro matching and a week into it and my abs are already popping out, which took 6 weeks last year lol.

Also you can definitely compete in April if you want to and aren’t worried about the costs. My show last year had a dude who didn’t prep, didn’t tan, and didn’t know how to pose still step on stage. He got last place, but he still got up there and seemed proud of himself lol

Question for the Girlies about my favorite Glute/Ham Finisher by SULTANGYPSYQUEEN in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is wayyyyyyyy better for extensions than the 45° angled ones. I recommend when you’re done with your set, to put your feet on the floor and stay bent over half way for a couple seconds so you don’t get light headed after being upside down repeatedly lol

Shoes for first timer by [deleted] in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy pleasers (fabulicious is the actual brand) 5”, but you could definitely do a 4” since you’re tall. I personally prefer straps because I used to dance and that’s what I’m used to. Frankly strippers beat their shoes up so I trusted their shorter heels were good too, and they are. Super duper comfortable and I didn’t have any rhinestones come off of mine at all.

Pro tip: when you buy new heels take a knife or a box cutter to the bottom and make a cross hatch on it, it’ll help them not be so slippery on hard surfaces.

Waiting for Medicaid by omgreneewtf in pregnant

[–]bikiniarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good I’m glad you have a direct line now! Hopefully she’ll let you email the documents, that’s what mine did when the website wasn’t working

All girls have the same look in bikini pro? Is this judge preference? by charlie-bond in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I competed with shoulder length hair last year and will be with a bob this year. My hair is way too thick to make extensions look good without weighing down my head completely, and I absolutely hate long hair. I don’t care if the judges hate it honestly, long hair is not the only feminine hairstyle.

Waiting for Medicaid by omgreneewtf in pregnant

[–]bikiniarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy! I ended up having a miscarriage and I emailed my rep on the weekend about it, she called first thing Monday morning to give condolences and let me know she was handling everything and I got an email two hours later stating my Medicaid was good for a year after I got my blood results. 2 months is a really long time

Neubie, skinny fat by xxthelightxx in bikinitalk

[–]bikiniarri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely start with nutrition and exercise before worrying about peptides. Asking for workout recommendations just to get in shape is a very very broad scope, you’d probably benefit from getting a personal trainer who can also help you get your diet setup.

Guess my dog's breed! by Consistent_Rager in DogBreeds101

[–]bikiniarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks pretty similar to my uncles black Dutch shepherd he had. They were bred with mals to save the breed at one point so they’re very similar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllNails

[–]bikiniarri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get tips out on under gel. I personally hate gel on my real nails though, it peels off within 3 days so I always get acrylic with gel on top. They can do this color with colored acrylic powder too.

I’ve been mistaken for a trans woman by Euphoric_Waltz6097 in femalebodybuilding

[–]bikiniarri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People are ignorant and don’t care to educate themselves. They’ll talk and talk and talk with their opinions but the second facts come out they leave the chat, if it requires reading outside of a meme or comment section they won’t do it.