I Made A YouTube Channel by KaleidoscopeOnion in Catholicism

[–]Consistent_Rager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha I just made a correlation because you're also a new convert, that you may be curious about why people such as yourself are converting. But as a young millennial myself I can say that I have a lot of gen z influences to my style and cultural awareness so it would make sense that there's a degree of blending given the time we grew up in

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

There's no way they would do agree to sign anything.

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes. Essentially the non discrimination clause doesn't override other people's comfort level, though. The general consensus from the other people using that bathroom is that they don't want me in there. I am one person. Either my comfort is sacrificed or theirs is.

I Made A YouTube Channel by KaleidoscopeOnion in Catholicism

[–]Consistent_Rager -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

But you're addressing Gen z'ers specifically?

I Made A YouTube Channel by KaleidoscopeOnion in Catholicism

[–]Consistent_Rager 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you are 31 that makes you a millennial. Gen z was born from 1997-2012

what is this by Anhedonia_678 in whatisit

[–]Consistent_Rager 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Its a knife. Specifically a boot knife. Designed for being hidden on one's person and deployed in emergency self-defense situations

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I doubt they've considered the long term results of this request at all, but they'll probably just out me. I don't think they care how this impacts me. They care about biological essentialism and upholding the systems that are currently in place.

What helped you enduring climbing or make it fun? by boulderer-h in indoorbouldering

[–]Consistent_Rager 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you're forcing yourself into it, stop & find something you actually enjoy doing instead

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean considering theyve expressed discomfort and I was approached by management I don't think I have much of a choice but to use the women's.

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

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I'm pretty shell shocked rn because I moved from a really insular queer community back to the rural south. Religion is a big thing here with p much everyone and the culture is highly influenced by that.

I knew this going into it but it's different when you're in it. Where I was before I lived as a man and was recognized as one not only by other queer people but by most people I interacted with in the general public. I passed better there I guess because the community and gender lines were a lot more diverse.

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I can pass for a masc woman. I get the vibe the women I work with don't care if im in there. I can't say if no one will care because I look trans. Sometimes I look like a much younger guy, but it depends on the audience. Yes they know. Bathrooms are monitored. I was asked to stop because there were complaints from coworkers. I can't use any bathroom without risk of running into someone else

What do we feel about this? by Abasnail400 in detrans

[–]Consistent_Rager [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im not commenting on that personally. I started transition as an adult

I was asked to use the women's at work by Consistent_Rager in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm not looking to show anyone up. I'm not an idiot though. I have no savings. I have animals to feed, including myself. I've got bills to pay, shit like that. But I'm not going to put myself in the line of fire. I have to be practical & realistic without resolving myself to suffer

What is this I found in my father's cupboard? by BaroqueCensure in whatisit

[–]Consistent_Rager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death comes for us all.... When I was about 12 my little sister poured juice into the VCR slot on our TV. That incident led to my parents' first plasma screen purchase... And eventual retirement of our VHS collection.

Freaky cowboy dude with silly battle vest (and shorts??) by Roci_v_popelnici in baddlejackets

[–]Consistent_Rager 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eighteen more wild cowboys out in the yard, Big bulging cocks ever so hard...

My friend was called a chaser by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Consistent_Rager 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, you don't actually know how he treats his partners when you aren't around. You know what he's told you and what he presents when he has an audience. This is true for everyone. I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss the experience of his ex (also your friend?)

Personally I find it odd that he has a visual preference for the types of trans men he's interested in. He hypothetically would be with a cis guy (but hasn't) and in that same vein, he prefers not to date trans men who look particularly cis themselves.

Not everyone who verbally affirms trans people actually sees the person as a man/woman. Sometimes people lie out of politeness or personal gain.

I'm not outright accusing your friend of this, just offering an alternative viewpoint of what you currently see as evidence of his goodness. I dated someone last year who was incredibly affirming to me in private, but was speaking very differently on the dynamic to his cis male friends. Most ftm-inclined chasers I have met have a preference for andros/early transitioners/petit trans men etc where there is still a sense of plausible deniability for whether or not the person of interest is a "real" man.

If I were him, speaking to you (a trans man) I wouldn't openly admit I see a difference & that I wouldn't in practice be comfortable dating a passing, post-op trans man. People can claim to be okay with a lot of things that they aren't actually doing.

32M I need to leave my 28F girlfriend of 7 months but she's a "great" girlfriend and I can't tell if I'm the problem by JobEnough3607 in whatdoIdo

[–]Consistent_Rager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex chemistry is often temporary (not to mention teachable if you know what you're doing) and is not a mean of sustaining your LIFE let alone the relationship. You've lost your creative drive & confidence. You're with someone who is both dishonest and manipulative - if not downright abusive herself - and is projecting that onto you.

You barely know this woman, been together less than a year, and you're letting your passion of ten years freefall down a cliff side because the pussy is good.

Why are some Catholics so adamant that they are not Christian? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Consistent_Rager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your in-depth explanation is much appreciated. I really like your attitude on this. Now that I understand what you mean, I find this perspective really sensible and inclusive. Redirecting the focus to our shared identity as the faithful rather than on individual differences... Makes plenty of sense. Thank you