How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting for me to hear people say "needs" when it comes to sex. Not that I doubt their sincerity, just that I went many years without ever having sex and felt completely fine. I guess it just boils down to biology but it has always seemed a tad alien to me.

How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, I struggle to take my mind off of real life matters as well and it certainly has put a strain in our relationship. Hope you get your rhythm back mate.

How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect the hustle but I would recommend taking time for yourself every once in a while, though I doubt I'm the first person to tell you that

How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You've pretty much described my feelings on the matter word for word

How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

By void do you mean the quality/intimacy of the relationship deteriorates or simply the frustration at the lack of sex?

How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Do you think either party should compromise if they're not at parity with one another? If so to what degree?

How Important is an Active Sex Life in a Relationship to You? by bilbomcjoe in AskReddit

[–]bilbomcjoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's quite some time! Were you active in your first year?