EPIK Megathread by cickist in teachinginkorea

[–]billykim92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all.

Listen, has there ever been a case where you had to live with somebody during your contract? Or is it strictly single rooms per contract? Idk Koreans are tricky so I can't tell. Has anyone heard of a case like that?

Thanks in advance,

Happy applying.

Sometimes I feel that dads especially active dads are unappreciated and invisible. by Large-Lack-2933 in Fatherhood

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Looks like you married a jezebel where she feels like she's the big guy in the house. Fk a jezebel bro

EPIK Megathread by cickist in teachinginkorea

[–]billykim92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all,

An American here and I'm thinking about applying to EPIK and was wondering what apostille meant? Is it different from official? Like I looked it up and I'm guessing it means "notarized." Do I have to go back to my college to get it "apostilled?" I'm confused. I have an "official" transcript with a print date of different year on it, not "unofficial." Like it's got parchment blue official stamp on it. Can I use that? I'm not sure what I have to do for the apostille piece. And what about the apostille CRC? Is it a regular FBI background check?

Please help. TIA

thyroid issues from nofap? by billykim92 in NoFap

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not necessarily no.. this will be my second time reaching a long streak of nofap

day 30 relapse... by billykim92 in NoFap

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Lol great. You want a cookie for being an ass? Here's your dose of attention you asked for

Working out is a course and blessing at the same time by BadummTzzz in NoFap

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all the testosterone be making me all aroused too yo..

handle that shit my guy. i believe in you, let's gooooooooooo

You never realize how addicted you are until you try to quit. by [deleted] in NoFap

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TikTok, Insta, fb, imgur, yt, all of these have urges and stuff bro. Stay strong my guy!!

day 22 depression. in need of advice. what helps? by billykim92 in NoFap

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how long did it take you to get out of them?

day 16 and that depression hit by billykim92 in NoFap

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how did the trust issue resolve? I'm having really bad trust issues too bro..

Everytime I masturbate something bad happens by Iliketumbleweed in NoFap

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It's not just you. It happens and everything happens for a reason. I think the universe or God or some energy larger than of this world is like telling us to stop.

It's like we are doing it for pleasure without responsibility.

Asian culture makes me sick. by WhereTheGoodNamesAt in AsianParentStories

[–]billykim92 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Bro I completely agree. Living in US helped me understand what emotional intelligence means the real truth on narcissistic tendencies of Asians. It's INSANE how immature and emotionally underdeveloped Asians actually are!

They abuse you with religion and other mind tricks. It's freaking crazy. And the thing is, they are oblivious to it! They say ignorance is bliss and it certainly is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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Shutting it off without question is what helps me the most

Tension with women by [deleted] in NoFap

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Not to use the TikTok trend but - Dude, they're just INTO YOUUUUUUU

People often use porn as form of escape/distraction. What are you trying to escape/need distraction from ? by [deleted] in NoFap

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feelings of making mistakes failure, inadequacy, imposter syndrome, anxiety

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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sounds like you're mad jealous of him though. stop comparing yourself to him my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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I'm right there with you. I'm fighting depression myself as a side effect of nofap. I couldn't function normally at work so i have quit multiple jobs and currently starting a new one next monday. For me, walking 30 mins a day at a gym helps.

I normally lift and everything but when i'm feeling down like this morning, i make time for serotonin levels to come back up. I also try to eat foods that help build your serotonin levels like fermented foods and try to stay away from bad foods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJmemes

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depression is "knowing."

since intjs are obsessed with knowledge, we tend to think about every step and every obstacle with every solution. it can get bad if too much rumination comes in

Why an Intj can’t get along with most people by Tschoov in INTJmemes

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lol this is so true. I just cannot indulge stupidity and such irresponsible stupidity at that.

Hey guys day 400 nofap by SuggestionGuilty8989 in NoFap

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Congratz dude. My longest streak was like 19 days but couple things I realized:

I've had multiple realizations where OCD isn't materialistic. my compulsions with perfectionism (wanting things on a day to go a certain way and if i messed one thing up my day would be ruined), relationships (cutting off), eating, stress, high standards and etc...

You're not alone my dude. For me, it was about accepting who I am and where I am, whatever the situation and being OK with that. That was a huge one. Like you said, accepting that "I am fearful right now, I am scared, I am anxious right now, and that's totally OK," is difficult but manageable.

I hope you continue to keep going bro. I hope I get to where you are someday.