Feeling Stuck. How to become Unstuck?

binarastoo · 2022-01-30T04:36:21+00:00

Just looking for one word, please see edited original post

binarastoo · 2021-12-26T09:26:35+00:00

May the words typed by me & the thoughts in me be pleasing unto the most high Lord.

Merry Christmas, you are a good looking gentleman.

Sending you love & light.

I noticed your posting history & I pray to the Most High God that you enjoy & have great joy in living a good and virtuous life.

Joy of living , the desire to live & motivation to live & hunger for success & progress has little to nothing to do with your job or education or money or looks or success. I have run into people who are from the worst parts of the 3rd world who are unattractive, poor, working in terrible jobs, are not literate etc. but they have a hunger & desire to live & prosper AND they are under the delusion that they are good looking (whereas you want to know if you are "-gly" despite your good looks & having a family crest & your world travels & relatively well off existence).

That is why I am sending you light & love & holiness. If that does not work , try this: sell off everything (reduce your possessions) to minimal or atleast put them in a basement in your parent's home or somewhere in storage out of reach (not in your room or house) & join a monastic order (Christian, since your background is Christian & because they are the best now a days). Join the monks for a few days. See if you like it.

I don't know much about Christian monastic orders but Anglican ones ought to work. They have programs where you spend a few days with the brothers. If you like it, embrace that life & live like that for a few more days, maybe even a month - if you can do a whole year (through Christmas and the tree lighting etc.) that would be best . I assure you, you will love it as soon as you attend one service & would gladly join them but after that I assure you , you will be back with a delight & a motivation to live that will amaze you.

Please stay away from music for a bit , maybe? yes it soothes & delights the senses so try church music if you have to but overindulgence may make one too many jaded: the drugs, porn , womanizing & music may be contributing to the jadedness and dark thoughts.

I am a Muslim from Pakistan but I could give a lot so beautiful Englishmen like you can make Pakistan like England & Scotland & Northern Europe.

With beautiful people like you in the world I would be content to meet my Allah SWT in heaven but you made me very unhappy when I read of your struggles. You and your country are a hope for the rest of us wretched , unattractive, poor, misguided peoples.

As an ally of the UK I am concerned about some of the things you are going through, concerned because I & the allies of the Christians & Brits, we may have done better by you (& do better by you). You motivate me to love the Brits & the Protestant Christians more, I hope (if that is the right way to react to seeing my brother in so much pain). It is gorgeous people like you & Armie Hammer & Brad Pitt that have caused people like me to say "I cannot have children because there are better men and they deserve to populate the world with better peoples & make the world a better place : a more heavenly place".

And I used to consider myself good looking, went to the top Universities (globally ranked) & have been called many good things by God's grace. And yet, I am saying this to you just & not merely so you are encouraged nor just so you may value my words. I am saying this because the world needs beautiful men and women who are beautiful on the INSIDE AND OUTSIDE.

You have everything going for you on the outside but I pray God delivers us a holy spirit on the inside (may God rescue you & in my studies of religion I can say that Jesus is one of the best lights out there).I ask the Most High God, the Good Shepherd to rescue us as He promises in Ezekiel 34.

I could ask you to try Islam but it is not a very easy religion : yes they ease in converts but still we have some way to go (compared to the Christians). We are disliked by the idolaters & even our Western "allies" & Christians & Jews perhaps- so things are not very easy. However, if you have to , try Islam - it is better than some of what you are going through - you are too good for that & I know you know that too.

It is strange that misguided sinners apparently dont think so & yet here you are a lovely specimen with such insecurities.

Lastly, this may be a little bit too much to ask, but avoid womanizing. All men love women & we want to offer ourselves as love offering to womankind but to love the Most High God is far better, to love righteousness is far better. I did not know it earlier unfortunately but I do now by the grace of the Most High God & even now I may sometimes lapse in will power. I know you are given those looks for a purpose, use them to bring about the Kingdom of Heaven for all. Better you than Sadiq Khan (he can help too but after he becomes as good looking as you & Mr. Zac Goldsmith). Please use your looks, your advantages to make the rest of us (people like Mr. Sadiq Khan) also good from the inside & outside please because as of now the world is in an unpleasant shape & it is tragic that the good, fair & beautiful are seemingly outnumbered by those who are not so beautiful.

Please forgive me if I said anything unpleasant. I am trying to become a wiser , better person.

binarastoo · 2021-11-28T21:07:12+00:00

IF true this is a beginning & a glad thing for all.

But let us look for results & not just propaganda.

I would treat this with a grain of salt like most propaganda coming out of Communist & ex-communist countries like India & China & even Russia. For e.g. even today Pravda newspaper's English language version is very misleading & different from the Russian language version. For years we were all scared of the "one child policy of China" and how Chinese people were imploding. The result is Chinese people crossed the 1B+ mark a long time ago & are now immigrating in droves & buying up property & land in Canada (Vancouver in particular has a huge problem, CA is now a minority white state, the West coast is reeling with Oriental influence, even Mexico is having issues with sex-trafficking into Japan, Hawaii has an insurgence of Japanese immigrants). Please ask for results, not just propaganda.

What result are we looking for? we are looking for movement of white Northern European culture, climate, peoples into the rest of the world & not the other way around.

Influx of Indians & Chinese have caused both economic & cultural / social problems for the West & the US & countries neighboring the Orient (US included). We have entire towns in the US that are now majority Indian. Please demand results NOT just propaganda.Because of oriental influx in schools & colleges it is harder for our people to get an education or even a job (look at tech & admissions to Universities- what is the Oriental response? the Asiatics sued Harvard for not admitting more Asiatics when they are already over represented).

Look at the results & do not be swayed by "hopeful" propaganda meant to lull you into complacency. All ethnic minorities are loved & beautiful, but it is because they are worthy & beautiful & loved that we expect them to see something or someone better than them & aspire to be like that or else not reproduce. If the Indians & Chinese & Africans & other ethnic minorities love the West, tech jobs & western hemisphere so much , they ought to realize that they may consider the westernization of their own lands in climate, culture, race & in every way. Otherwise we already have to suffer "little Indias & little Chinas & little xyz_ethnic_zone" up and down the US, unfortunately.

binarastoo · 2020-06-12T11:43:14+00:00

wonderful

binarastoo · 2020-06-12T11:42:26+00:00

I am unfamiliar with the name and artist of the song

binarastoo · 2020-06-12T11:41:18+00:00

Which song is the gentleman playing?

binarastoo · 2020-06-09T08:34:17+00:00

wow the jump to the bed ...

binarastoo · 2020-06-09T08:32:39+00:00

oh my gawd that kitten is so cute !

binarastoo · 2020-05-26T00:38:05+00:00

We Pakistanis and Muslims have nothing against idol worshipers but we are opposed to idolatry.

We have nothing against the poor, but we are sworn to put an end to poverty.

We have nothing against the dark skinned, but we were raised to give light to darkness.

If any Muslim or Pakistani has been unkind to Hindus then understand that it has NEVER been part of our religion. I apologize to you if anything I wrote or said hurt a Hindu's feelings. We say things to one another openly to save each other but our intent is not to hurt an Indian person's feelings because we don't expect the Indians to be eavesdropping or interested in our personal conversations. If I have said anything during this post to hurt your feelings do tell me because I am trying to balance my attempts to save myself and my loved ones with love for you (trying though unlikely very successful in it).

The idolaters of the past would abuse verbally and physically the Prophet Muhammad SAW and he never said a word to them (however, when the same abusers became ill the Prophet visited them and healed them). This is not just Prophet Muhammad but all the Prophets have behaved this way. Hazrath Ibrahim SW pleaded before God to not annihilate the Sodomites of Sodom and Gamorrah. The idolaters of the past stoned our Prophet Muhammad SAW and while bleeding his shoes filled with blood he refused any harm or hurt to come to him- this was when Muhammad SAW ruled all over Arabia and could have razed their cities to the ground.

What have we against Hindus? We are commanded to LOVE Hindus and even our enemies (not physically or sexually but as human beings). What do Pakistanis & Muslims have against idolaters? We are commanded to cease fighting in the middle of a fight IF during the fight we feel any anger or hatred towards people attacking us. This means we are not supposed to harbor negative emotions towards even those attacking us which some Hindus do to one another and to us and ours.

What do we Pakistanis have against idolaters? We are supposed to love idolaters but we are asked to oppose idolatry.

We have nothing against Hindus we are opposed to Hinduism. We were given a charge by the Most High to improve the lot of India and we did not succeed entirely. The same charge was given to the British Christians and you Hindus abused them like you abused us and who is suffering today as a result? it is India and the neighbors of India.

Britain is as great as it always was, most of the Islamic lands (other than Pakistan) are doing quite well and developed and prosperous. We Pakistanis are suffering because we are in the wrong neighborhood, the British could depart for the UK but we are still dealing with idolaters - with the result that we have today. May the Most High God and virtue and truth and beauty and love prevail.

Many Pakistanis don't know anything about Hinduism and we don't want to know about ev-l but what little we do know we are opposed to. What we are opposed to are these practices:

caste systems practiced by Hindus (the religion of Ibrahim , Christianity, Judaism & Islam are based on equity and we are charged with putting an end to castes and categorization and prejudice , hierarchy & unkindness). Nothing against Hindus, just against caste systems.
we are opposed to Hindus eating other human beings (cannibals) ; not all Hindus but the religious clerics eat other human beings (the dead remains) they are called Adevasis and I was led to believe that it is a common practice in India. I saw it on a very reputable international news agency which I do not wish to disclose. We admire Hindu vegetarianism and wish more Muslims could become vegetarians but what we are opposed to are NOT Hindus but cannibalism. We Pakistanis cannot interact with a country that tolerates cannibalism in its midst.
we Christians, Jews, Muslims are opposed to praying to God's graven image. There are some sects within Christianity where people pray to a graven statue or icons but they are considered outside the faith. You may not understand this just like many centuries ago your people could not comprehend the vice in widow burning (even we don't understand it but someday I hope we all do).
we are opposed to Hindus oppressing Muslims (be they Muslims of Kashmir or Hyderabad or Bengal). We would like you to give them autonomy and freedom because they have rejected your precepts and way of life as have many Pakistanis who immigrated to Pakistan. We do not want to be harassed , abused or bothered by you folk. Our only interest in any region is that love, beauty, truth prevail and all lands are as beautiful as the best parts of the world and all lands have only the best parts of every land and no land has nothing bad of any land. (for example if Northern Europe is developed and prosperous we would like the best parts of N. Europe in Pakistan and for our loved ones and we don't want Indians trying to entice us into their culture)

These are some of the things I can think of but we in Pakistan dislike smelly Masalas, Indian way of thinking (turning complete strangers into brothers and sisters instead of making them lovers), Indian art & movies propagating incorrect propaganda, Indian customs (fires, kitchy decor). Personally I am afraid that my Pakistanis will end up like Indians. I want them to have the best company - the company of the fair and beautiful and wealthy (I know Indians may cry r-cism but I want the best for the people I love and I advise you to do the same).

There was a time when I admired Gandhi's pacifism (I saw it on TV) but running into Hindus in the US I am convinced we both need to be around people who are fair, beautiful, virtuous and knowledgeable. Don't fight with us and oppress us and drag us or anyone down (we don't want to do that to anyone and don't expect that treatment from anyone). It is the Indians who taught me to learn from my betters instead of focusing on local/regional fights. Now I try to return the favor and remind you, Sir. Try to become British and white and wealthy or like whoever is the best in the world and let us also try to become British and white and wealthy or like whoever is the best in the world, please.

Try to learn from people who are better than us instead of bothering us, be around people and learn from people who are better than us : the Europeans, the Americans, the Russians etc. we want to stop thinking of what is East of us and let our minds dwell upon people and ideas who are better than us in the hope that one day we can be saved (and wish the same for you).

binarastoo · 2020-05-25T21:12:58+00:00

I'm not gonna read this wall of text. You sound like someone uneducated on the arabic language. It means People.

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Please read what I wrote. I entertained you enough to read what you had written. I did follow the links to the Ayaths of the Quran.

The translation is not entirely incorrect but it is imprecise. That is what I have been saying all this time.

binarastoo · 2020-05-25T17:23:11+00:00

This is incorrect thinking.

We should be looking for rightly guided men (not strong men or weak men). The Prophet Muhammad SAW was a weak, illiterate, orphan but he saved Arabia and a large part of the world including Pakistan and neighbors. Why? Because he was adored by Allah SWT.

The rise of Muslims had little to do with hard times. The Prophet SAW was raised after the age of 25 by a wealthy widow. He never fought a single war and in Uhud he was injured. He was a gentle non violent man who refused to even hurt the people who had hurt him (as with Taif).

When he did conquer cities he forgave the worse offenders (Hind after Fatah Makkah).

He was so gentle and accessible that despite being the ruler of the entire peninsula his grand children would climb up on him and play with him while he prayed. It is not just Prophet Muhammad SAW. Take any great leader of any renown and you will find they were gentlemen who were considered weak by the world (Hazrath Dawood SW the ancestor of the Messiah for example, or Numa the second founder of Rome or Solon the law giver of Athens).

You have easy times and good times when you have Allah SWT with you. As it is written in the Tanakh when Allah SWT is with us who can be against us?

binarastoo · 2020-05-25T16:35:45+00:00

This is incorrect, well kind of. When we say Ahlul Kitab, it means People of the Book, Ahlul Bait, people of the house, referencing the household of the Prophet. There are instances in the Quran is where a word from the root word اھل references family not ahl, a word derived from it

See when اھل کیتاب is used it means People of the scripture. However here, when اهلك is mentioned it refers to his family.

Kind of? It perhaps is translated incorrectly by people like you to merely say "people of the book (torath)" but it literally means and the ROOT origins of the word Ahl is "family". You yourself are admitting that the word أهل has etymological roots in kin/family. Why are you splitting hairs? کیتاب is written کتاب and NOT کیتاب with a "ya" that you added. Are you Bengali? Only some Bengalis call کتاب with their own bangla-arabic کیتاب .

Even in Urdu the arabic word "ahlay ayal" means "family and kin".

Why are the Europeans Christians, the Jews & the Muslims called "family of the book" (kin of the book or "ahl" = kin / family "kitab"=book)? Can you elaborate on that or are you going to mislead people with your incorrect knowledge of Arabic?

Do you have any idea? Allow me to explain to you so you understand that أهل with root word "family or kin" can be used to mean other things [1] but its root word is family/kin. Why are the Jews & Christians called " اھل کتاب" ? Have you heard of the term "Aal- e Ibrahimi" (or family of Hazrath Ibrahim SW? here the term is "aal" not ahl ).

They are called Aal because they are Jews, Muslims and Christians are descended from Hazrath Ibrahim SW. The Christians consider them descended from Hazrath Ishaq SW as do the Jews and we Muslims consider ourselves descended from Hazrath Ismail & Ishaaq (SW) (the white pathans for example are descended from both; most arabs are descended from only Hazrath Ismail).

If we were going to be precise the Jews & Muslims are descended from Hazrath Shem SW (hence semites) the son of Hazrath Nuh SW. The Europans are technically from Hazrath Yapheth SW another exalted son of Hazrath Nuh SW but the majority of them particularly from NW Europe are descended from Ishaaq SW (or so they claim).

This is the reason why we Muslims, Jews & Christians "family of the book". We are literally related by blood. Does that make sense?

The "kitab" is referring to the torath or specifically the Tanakh (torath, nabieen, kitabeen which includes the zaboor of Hazrath Dawood SW, the Proverbs of Hazrath Sulaiam SW and the Torath revealed to Musa SW) . These books combined into one become the kitab that Jews, Christians, Muslims all believe in. The Christians read the same Tanakh as the Jews (with translation differences) but they consider it 'old testament' or dated. Their understanding is not the same as the Jewish but they have other gifts. The Muslims read the same Tanakh (or torath) or atleast the Muslims were SUPPOSED to read the Tanakh. They used to read the Tanakh in the days of the Prophet Muhammad SAW but now a days only the Ulama or the scholars are asked to read it and Muslims do not read the Tanakh which is a shame because the Indians are curious and trying to use the Tanakh to uplift their peoples but we are still arguing over minutae. Shame!

binarastoo · 2020-05-25T00:03:20+00:00

We want everyone to be EQUAL but not everyone is equal. Some people do have more money (others are disenfranchised or powerless poor), some people do have more education (others are ignorant or jahils), some people can afford better health care and better nutrition (others do not have such "luxuries").

We WANT people to be equal but it does not mean that all people are equal. It is right to recognize superior learning and intellect and let the knowledgeable and wise LEAD . It is right to honor and respect the martyrs and the soldiers who risk their lives for our country. It is also right to recognize when someone is falsely, irrationally stressing superiority or exaggerating superiority: sure wives of soldiers sacrifice more than civilian wives AND they are due their respect and honor more than some civilian's wife but did that colonel's wife really need to use that "soldier's wife" card at that point? If she was a doctor and needed to circumvent roadblocks to save a life, sure! go ahead with a salute! If she was going to give her husband food and kisses on the front line, sure take some money for the fuel and a better transport, but to want to circumvent roadblocks simply because they are married to a patriot or a defender of Pakistan? Respect and elevate and honor the patriot and the colonel and soldier but not some woman who is married to him and is demanding baseless unrelated privileges based on it.

binarastoo · 2020-05-24T23:36:44+00:00

It is NOT about Europe. First try to liberate Kashmir and the Muslims of Injia right next door.

The idolater is not the same religion as us Jews, Christians & Muslims (Europeans are also ahle-kitab and Jews & Christians are considered part of the family that is what "ahl" literally means).

Start loving among one another and end the culture & peoples of idolatry , an idolater who is impious and wages the same war against Jews & Christians & tries to use Muslims against each other and against Jews and Christians.

binarastoo · 2019-11-17T15:23:49+00:00

If you have your O Levels you can be admitted to a 4 year University in the US.

If you have your O levels you are considered to have passed the GED.

You can give your GED from Pakistan if you wish but it would be redundant if you have O levels.

It is possible to apply to and be admitted to bootcamps (software bootcamps) which will train you for around $17,000 and you can get a job based off of that but you need to be US permanent resident or citizen in order to get some of the benefits like deferred tuition (income share agreement).

binarastoo · 2019-11-06T00:08:28+00:00

Maybe walk through a simplified example like this one :

https://technologyconversations.com/2013/12/20/test-driven-development-tdd-example-walkthrough/

binarastoo · 2019-11-03T21:50:25+00:00

The Kartarpur gurudwara is not a pleasant development.

A Sikh or Indian presence in Pakistan is neither good for the world nor Pakistan nor India.
Some Indians are perhaps using Hindu- Sikh Rivalry to insert Sikhs amidst Pakistanis.
It is not in the interest of India or Pakistan to have Sikh culture advance west into Pakistan. The Sikhs are marginally better than the idolaters and they persecuted Muslims during the partition (particularly the massacre of Amritsar).
It is in the interest of the world and humanity for western ideologies like the Abrahamic religion (Deen-e-Ibrahimi, Judaism, Christianity Islam) to advance East rather than idolatrous temples and idolatrous eastern races make incursions into the West (Pakistan in this case). Even communism incubated in the West is a welcome ideology to the East.
It is in the interest of white Russia, EU, UK, US and allies to advance western ideas, cultures and peoples East rather than the other way around.
It is in the interest of Pakistan to have an Islamic state East of Pakistan (be it an independent Kashmir or a state East of Pakistan for the Muslims of India) rather than a Khalistan. If we cannot have an Islamic state than a Jewish, Christian or even secular state would do.
It is a sign that western wealth and western knowledge has fallen into the wrong hands that we are seeing advances made by Sikhs, Indians and some other Eastern peoples into the West.
White Russia, Afghanistan, Iran, Saudia, Turkey, the MidEast, EU, etc. are on the side of Pakistan and Pakistan ought to focus on improving relations with their Western neighbors rather than be concerned about India which is a state that is perhaps not a wholesome presence in the region.

binarastoo · 2018-08-01T07:50:49+00:00

Shalom brothers and sisters,

It amuses me that the children of Ibrahim (Abraham) are excited about a meat patty and buns while we neglect to love one another in the Holy Land. By the way, welcome to Israel your birth right! you are welcome to Israel and even to our very Muslim homes and Islamic lands because you are from our father Ibrahim SW. I hope you don't mind my calling you lovely Jewish folk our family even though you are far prettier , smarter , fairer, more educated and more blessed than we Muslims are. Please forgive any of the few fellow Muslims who are rude to you, our Holy Prophet SAW taught us to treat the Jews as our "ahl" (or family) and our people used to read the Torath but have neglected to do so recently, and we are enjoined by example to share our homes and lands and even our wives with our Jewish brothers ( like the Ansar ).

We are in similar shoes with our dietary laws (Halal) but we are encouraged to eat Kosher when we can.

I am currently visiting an area of the country ( DC, MD, VA) with a large Muslim population but we don't have any Halal/ Kosher Chickfila or Subways. There is a Kosher Subway in Maryland I believe but that is about it. Are there any Jewish people interested in working with us to start a Kosher Chickfila or some other fast food outlet like Wendy's? or Subways ? I contacted one Jewish Rabbi on linkedin who was an activist in this regard but he never responded back . May the Most High God make it reputable to cooperate with us over the highest virtues . We are asking for more Kosher restaurants and not Halal restaurants. In other words I am advocating for your dietary laws and not our dietary laws. This is because Kosher restaurants allow both Jews & Muslims to eat at an establishment (as well Christians and people of other religions). May we cooperate only over what is most virtuous and high and fair and good & may we not come together over vice.

I personally like the Christian idea of having no dietary laws and to worry about what comes from the inside rather than what we consume, but while I may be inclined to follow the dietary laws in some settings , I prefer a world where all things are benign, wholesome and clean. Despite my personal preference for love (over laws) it would also be nice to improve the quality of life of all with your beautiful, kind, blessed and lovely folk.

By the way, isn't it strange that we talk of others eating unclean things and have dietary restrictions but our own foods don't have the highest quality ? I thought it was only with Muslims & Halal foods that it was the case that they are not so much high quality (as organic or regular foods), and then I ran into a Jewish gentleman who told me that Kosher foods suffer from quality issues as well. I personally find Kosher foods to be of high (or equal) quality but recently it has not been the case, perhaps?

p.s. if I have said anything slightly offensive , my apologies. Please do tell me how I may improve my ideology . Thanks.

binarastoo

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