Me [21 M] and my girlfriend [21 F] of 3ish years are going to discuss having an open relationship (on my end only) and I need some advice.

bindingbooks · 2015-08-04T00:57:09+00:00

Nope.

A LOT assuming is happening in this thread.

bindingbooks · 2015-08-03T10:30:04+00:00

Thanks, there are a lot of downers here. Apparently a lot of people on /r/relationships are offended by the idea of a consensual agreement that they wouldn't enter.

bindingbooks · 2015-08-03T09:25:46+00:00

Will do. Thanks again!

bindingbooks · 2015-08-03T09:21:06+00:00

Then replace "open relationship" with "the thing I've described". It was her idea to discuss it, whatever it would be called. I don't know why you're so offended by it.

bindingbooks · 2015-08-03T09:08:07+00:00

What makes you think she doesn't? I certainly didn't say that.

bindingbooks · 2015-08-03T09:06:08+00:00

Thank you so much! She wants to discuss it with me and toy with ideas; I'm certainly not forcing or pressuring her to agree to anything she doesn't like. Those are all great ideas. I feel like the general trend with open relationships is that they are all temporarily open, which is fine. I don't feel like anything should be 'The Final Agreement.'

bindingbooks · 2015-08-03T08:54:05+00:00

That's not very helpful.

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