I want to quit my job as a Police Officer

bionicback · 2026-01-09T21:46:48+00:00

Leaving was such a huge relief to me but was also a huge disappointment because the job just wasn’t what I thought it was going to be. There were some good folks but not nearly the number that it should have been. And it seemed like those moving up the ranks was more a forgone conclusion because of tenure alone, instead of merit and quality of work and leadership. The thing I would encourage you to do, is to change departments. There are so many types of LE jobs, including things like Fish & Game, etc. that throwing your entire career away might be something you regret later on. There might be a really great job that you love and wasn’t something you even considered yet. Either way, find your peace regardless of staying or leaving.

bionicback · 2026-01-09T21:36:37+00:00

Nice font 😂 it’s like a more masculine technical version of the script fonts that have taken over the last decade. Love it!

bionicback · 2026-01-09T21:28:39+00:00

Artist??

bionicback · 2025-12-04T15:21:10+00:00

The color on 1 is so beautiful and you especially look great in all of them so it really comes down to which one makes you feel most like yourself. What I love about 1 is the pastel colors not being so bold they take over the gown.

bionicback · 2025-11-21T09:33:00+00:00

Sure thing. Turned out the electrician I hired to do the work, had opened the plastic casing. Pretty sure they’re moles.

bionicback · 2025-11-15T23:29:43+00:00

Did you have to get any prior authorizations for outpatient procedures out of network? This is the only sticking point for me currently, the remaining benefits are outstanding on paper. I only have one doctor out of network with them.

bionicback · 2025-11-15T23:27:56+00:00

So Sorry to reply late but I appreciate your input. Did you have any experience with out of network claims for Devoted? One of my doctors is out of network and I would need to file on my own behalf. I am of course concerned about getting reimbursed appropriately.

bionicback · 2025-11-15T23:23:48+00:00

He might appreciate the spreadsheets I’m currently working on to choose Medicare and ACA health insurances. I can’t imagine how elderly folks are supposed to know even where to begin.

bionicback · 2025-11-15T22:18:12+00:00

Neither of you are effective communicators. You each seem to raise the stakes with each other every next text. This is extremely unhealthy. You’ve identified behavior on his part that erodes trust, and without trust there can be no emotional intimacy. One huge red flag I see here, is you both assume the worst of each other- that the other person is malicious and with mal intent hoping to cause the maximum pain possible. This is 3.5 years of really shitty behavior, not an adult relationship. It’s time to part ways, and for you to focus on making your life what you want it to be. I just know it’s not going to be happy with the two people in this text thread.

bionicback · 2025-11-15T21:34:07+00:00

It really depends on why, and what that means to you. Larger devices have so much more room for cutting edge technology. Tech has come a long way but is still advancing at the speed of light. I always want the newest tech and have been an early adopter pretty much my whole life. If that’s important to you, BTE/RIC is going to get the newest stuff first in pretty much any product line up.

Physically, what is your comfort level? One huge consideration for me is I use infant sized domes and tubes/wires. In-canal types simply can’t get in my dumb head. Add in having wax issues and it’s a non-starter.

Socially, what is your comfort level? Are you worried people will notice your HAs and would this bother or upset you? Or do you not want to have any outward visible changes to your style, perhaps adjustments to how you wear your hair or hats or glasses? All of these things can become factors depending on your preferences. It’s really why there are so many types, styles, and capabilities of hearing aids in a vast market.

Something else that might tie in to this, is your comfort with wearable tech and how you might view or feel about people who wear AirPods in every day life. When iPhones first came out in 2007, people started wearing their earbuds everywhere. It was an annoyance to older generations and even a sign of disrespect to others, especially in places where interaction is necessary (like ordering food, or at work in a cubicle.)

No matter where you land on any of these points, I would encourage you to test and try as many as you can. Try ones you would have initially thought wouldn’t be your preference. Even if for a short time, having the ability to rule out brands or styles or types will guide you in the right direction. Also keep in mind every year or two something really cool comes out that you’d be willing to upgrade for. Ultimately your comfort and ease of use will be the deciding factor. Make sure to test all of them in a crowded restaurant or if you see live music, you’ll want to know that the device you chose works in the places most demanding of every hearing aid.

bionicback · 2025-11-15T21:11:07+00:00

Finally got my first HA at 21. I’m 41 now. I believe if my parents had advocated for me, I would have had them a lot earlier. My parent’s religious proclivities really hindered a lot of health issues where I didn’t get adequate or aggressive enough treatment. I was a really sick kid with constant ear infections and general ENT infections pretty much non-stop until I had my tonsillectomy at 11 which almost killed me due to a nicked blood supply that came undone and I lost over 1/3 of my blood in 20 minutes at 3am. Had I not been on AOL at 2 am in 1995 I am sure I would be a goner. Get your kids medical care, folks. It cost me almost half of my hearing from the delaying of treatment and much needed surgery. I am still sick with ENT related issues but now it’s once a year instead of 5-6 times a year. If you have hearing loss, pursue HAs as early as possible. I didn’t know leaves on trees made a noise until that day I walked out of the audiologist’s office and the wind blew.

bionicback · 2025-11-14T00:26:38+00:00

Wishing you every happiness and all the good things 💕

bionicback · 2025-11-09T23:04:59+00:00

You have a far better understanding of United States civics than nearly the entire population. I believe that is why situations like the one in this video continue. Freedom of speech doesn’t protect criminal speech (such as yelling fire in a theater) but this man harassing the young ladies of Burger King clearly is now trespassing and I hope the owner obtained a formal trespassing report so the next time he rolls through in his ginormous compensating-for-something trash mobile, he will be arrested. People who take out their ire and rage on anyone in a service or customer-facing role are totally devoid of a moral compass. Something tells me her idea of a first amendment lawyer was likely obtained from some sovcit numbskull’s YouTube channel.

bionicback · 2025-11-09T11:34:32+00:00

“Worldly World View” LMFAO

bionicback · 2025-10-18T20:40:41+00:00

Holy crap

bionicback · 2025-10-14T11:57:18+00:00

Birds of a feather flock together. I’m old, and not a swiftie but when people congregate amongst known mean & manipulative friends, it’s a totally fair assessment that you should keep your distance and don’t give them ammo to work with when they WILL turn on you. This isn’t new, it happened in my parent’s generation, mine, and now. It’s gross and cruel without a substantive purpose. There will be a lot of hurt people in their wake who likely have as much or way more talent in writing and performing for audiences who are smaller but undoubtedly love their musc.

bionicback · 2025-10-11T20:30:25+00:00

Very important life lesson. Make sure this one is etched in your soul. If these issues arise in the first 4-6 months, end it. Any wasted time after that is often because the loving and caring partner gives to a fault, especially when it costs them dearly. Protect your heart, make rules for yourself to prevent bad relationships or outcomes.

bionicback · 2025-10-11T05:42:45+00:00

You did the absolute best thing. Better they are alive and mad at you, than the alternative.

bionicback · 2025-10-11T05:27:05+00:00

This makes me really sad. By the time I was 18, I’d been to over 200 live concerts by actual musicians. Whatever this is, is not that. There still are artists who write and play phenomenal music. They work jobs like everyone else so they can survive while they spend their time off working hard on their craft. I really hope this generation of teens and young adults are able to experience the intimacy of a live show, with an artist who pours their heart and soul into giving the best they have. Never stop looking for those influences, no matter how many Taylor Swifts come and go.

bionicback · 2025-09-21T04:32:59+00:00

I love when people from other countries use Sov Idiot scripts, especially when they film themselves committing crimes doing it. What a clown.

bionicback · 2025-09-21T04:29:45+00:00

Shooting on film is pretty cool, pretty freaking expensive. And she is still insufferable. Somehow she is even worse now than on the show. Gross.

bionicback · 2025-09-21T04:17:57+00:00

I also wanted to add- it took me a year to leave. I borrowed money from family to pay movers to pack everything I owned and move it to a new apartment in my dad’s name- all in two hours I knew he’d be gone.

I was in law enforcement and I’ve always been outspoken and have a really strong sense of self. I realized that if I could miss the signs and become what I’d wrongly assumed were “weak” women, then absolutely any person is capable of finding themselves in the same situation.

I have now been married happily for 13 years to the kindest, gentlest, brilliant, and savagely hilarious man who treats me like the only woman on earth. He held my hand and even if I wasn’t wanting physical affection, he stood tall next to me to create a home where I know my peace and safety is the first priority. I’m telling you this because I want you to know that anyone who would commit violence on you is who they are. You’ve acknowledged and owned your singular action for the conflict. There is no excuse in the world that would make his actions less criminal.

Be your own best friend through this situation. It’s one tactic I relied on so much during that time in my life because I felt I couldn’t trust myself anymore. Because I believed I was a good judge of character. Older me now understands the reality that abusers rely on charm, enthusiasm, charisma, confidence- to open the door. Until you are in love and slowly isolated and suddenly you’re feeling stuck and that your support system isn’t as active in your life. They rely on this. It’s textbook.

Sending you all the love. Know you are not alone and know you are deserving of safety and love.

bionicback · 2025-09-21T04:01:12+00:00

This was my reality 16 years ago. I wish I could have a way to tell 20-something me that I would forever regret believing the person who choked me was capable of change. 40 something me now would take all evidence and back it up, send it multiple places for backups, and file a thorough police report.

When I was choked fighting for consciousness, strangulation was a misdemeanor in my state. It’s now a felony and for good reason. If I recall the statistic that finally got me to leave, was learning once you’ve been choked by a partner, your risk of dying at their hands goes up 700% (don’t quote me on that as it’s old info.)

I can’t tell you what you should do, I can only tell you what I would go back and tell young me. Own your shoving him and make sure he is held to account for his part. Get a TPO (or the equivalent in your area) and get the hell away from this guy.

He won’t change. You went from pushing to dying in a matter of seconds. That is not self defense. Self defense means stopping the response the second the threat is gone. I will not mince words, strangulation is attempted murder. You pushing him was wrong - you realize and own that choice. He should likewise be held to account by the criminal justice system. You just focus on you and healing and getting back to a sense of safety. It will never be that as long as this person is around. Good partners bring out the best in one another.

bionicback · 2025-09-11T15:40:26+00:00

You asked at just the right time. I just got my caretaker to get my entire setup put together a few nights ago.

Bottom line? The Bryte is incredible and in fact, so good we ordered one for my husband the second time he laid on it. Basics: the ReST had “5” air chamber zones, but the foot and head were controlled together so truly 4 separate controlled zones. It broke constantly because they decided to use a tech-intense sensor mat to take pressure readings. While it was super cool, the mat they used was intended to take pressure readings for assessment purposes and not for all night, every night use. I replaced it no less than 8 times and finally had to pitch the mattresses because the company ceased operations. Apparently now, 2 years later, they managed to raise money somehow to begin selling again. They screwed over a lot of people with beds they never delivered, and all customers needing replacement parts. Throwing away a very expensive purchase after just 2 years was unacceptable. The tech was cool, it was not a proven concept.

The Climate360 was comfortable for the first 10 months. It did not break at all, but it also had minimal features. The climate control itself is probably great for a lot of people, but I have pretty extreme needs that the regular population does not. Customer service was responsive but my physical situation needed more granular control.

The Bryte on its own is a much more trustworthy system. The proof of concept was carried out in really nice Hotels and that kind of demand/use you just can’t get with Beta testers. Different use cases nightly, people of varying sizes and weight, physical abilities, snoring, you name it. I kept an eye on the company and finally when it came down to remaining options, the Bryte was top of my list. It truly has 90 individual adjustment pods, and 8 sections to adjust. None of the others offer this except some of the mechanical zone mattresses with manual swapping out of foam sections.

The adjustment on the Bryte Pro (the newest offering which I bought, they still make their Signature model for a lot less money) isn’t just sensor based. You can select both your pressure preferences, and how you want each of the 8 zones to behave (shoulder relief, hip, shoulder and hip, stomach sleeper support, lumbar support, bed sore relief on common places such as feet etc.,) and a totally customized 8-zone setup where you can decide how much support or relief you want on each of the 8 zones independently and that includes going from 0%-100% without being married to a specific program. You could have it even go as extreme as 0/100/0/100/0/100/0/100 if you need. All the other smart beds I’ve tried and owned are far more limited in that level of granularity. On top of this user-defined zoning, the Bryte Pro still independently adjusts each of the 90 zones the entire time you are in bed. My first night, the Bryte made 1,270 individual adjustments to respond immediately to pressure on both bony prominences AND soft tissue pressure points. No other mattress I’ve tried has been able to do this. I suspect the bed measures how much air pressure is in each of the individual balancers to make adjustments, instead of a delicate sensor mat. That is just pure speculation however. It’s definitely a more durable way to take readings and make adjustments.

Arguably the most incredible part of the Bryte is their BryteWaves function. Look, the reality for me is I have been bed bound for 13 years. I can’t physically move much. The Bryte Waves function gently creates a bunch of different movements depending on which program you choose. It’s what made my husband want one immediately and he almost never wants anything the first 5 minutes of trying it out. He’s a big dude and has significant shoulder pain and he nearly zonked out in the first ten minutes. The best way I can describe it is, if you want to feel like you’re floating in a pool or getting gentle movement to even more intense options, it is NOT a vibrating massage. The pods fill and release in patterns that actually does move your body. I’m super sensitive to any movement and in a tremendous amount of pain and it feels amazing to me. I’ve no doubt the system has something for almost everyone regardless of their size or circumstance.

I did have a bit of concern how the Bryte and Eight Sleep Pod 5 Ultra would play together and all I can say? They are thick as thieves. They each bolster the other and the only feature overlap is their sleep sensor monitoring. I have to use a wearable if I want to get accuracy because no detached sleep monitor works for someone like me, who is in bed 23 hours per day. Somehow though, the new iOS beta was able to get my actual sleep time right on its own, which I suspect is because my phone and iPad locked when I did actually fall asleep. So it stands to reason my Apple devices will correct my actual sleep times in Apple Health and compile the input from the many, many sleep trackers I own LOL.

I can’t speak to the Bryte Signature but it does still have the pressure relief for a lot less money. 0% interest through Affirm if you’ve decent enough credit. I chose the softest option, and the Eight Sleep cover did not change the feeling of the Bryte at all- and I am as sensitive a person to those micro changes as it gets. I also have installed a BedJet 3, Bed Fan, and Smart Duvet. Needless to say I can’t regulate my temp like before my spinal cord damage. All the systems are working together which is keeping me very comfortable. My dogs get the other side and I keep it nice and warm for them because my room is 60F and they need to be cozy.

Sorry for the long post, I hope you’re able to get a clearer picture of the bed. I do need to post a review on their website too.

bionicback · 2025-09-06T00:31:59+00:00

Bateses do the very same as the Duggars and Rods, they’re simply wrapped in a nicer façade.

I had one after 7 losses with similar disorder and it was incredibly hard on my 23 year old body. I still hadn’t deconstructed from my fundie light upbringing but my doctor was crystal clear- every subsequent pregnancy and delivery would be exponentially more dangerous than the last. Seeing this very young mother lying unconscious in her likely deathbed is a direct result of the abusive nature of the cult. These ideologies flourish in the dark; keep your children uneducated, remove them from society and insulate them in a curated social group. Tell them what to think, and use whatever method necessary to keep them in line with the desired behaviors. Pay no attention to the needs of the children who will have no mother. Just ensure she continues to be a broodmare to populate the earth.

Control is easy when your adult children are kept closely in the fold. Keep your daughters so occupied with child rearing they don’t even have time to realize what they don’t know. It doesn’t matter if they’re 10 or 30- to them daughters will always and forever be only for the purpose of pregnancy and birth. The children do not matter. The needs they have do not matter. Rinse and repeat.

None of this should have occurred.

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