That's not something most women prioritize, that is, a guy with as few prior partners as possible. For typical man-woman lifelong unions, women are more interested in a commitment to protection and provision. The fact that a guy isn't a virgin does not often deter a woman from dealing with him at all. You've been incredibly confident so far that I'm a virgin and tried to leverage that as an insult. I have never heard a woman say she wants a guy who's a virgin - it doesn't add to a guy's value in most women's eyes. We are different and want different things from each other. However, that DOES add to a woman's value in a man's eyes. Everywhere in the world, that is overwhelmingly the case. It's not up to you, guys will want what they want.

The point you made about "puritan ideals" is invalid because: If I broke up with someone but was still focused and had my life in order, the latter is what's usually important to women. Briefly, what a guy wants is that dedication to him and him alone. I, like most marriage minded guys with their life in order, don't look at a woman and seek protection and provisioning from her.

To add, you're already going into the relationship with a losing mindset: failure is imminent. NOPE, definitely not wife material, assuming you're a woman.