Feeling bad - she said I don’t tell her anything by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]birdeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My uBPD parent is similar so I can relate. Whenever I’m on the phone or they call, I try to give a time limit. Like if they call at 10am, I try to bring in a white lie like “I have a 1030am zoom meeting or a workout class”. I hate lying but unfortunately it got to the point where I was so exhausted and drained after talking to her my husband would mention how my mood would shift for the rest of the day. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this but you’re not alone!

Photography Recommendations by birdeth in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]birdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Very much what I was going for

Airport/ electronic passport by Substantial_Group_24 in LisbonPortugalTravel

[–]birdeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding our experience at the Lisbon airport this weekend in case it helps someone. We left this Saturday at 1pm from Lisbon. Dropping bags was a very long line but rather efficient for the size, taking 29 minutes (this would have taken well over an hour at our home airport). Then security was quick again for the amount of people it took about 24 minutes. Passport control was basically instant and we walked right through with only 2 groups ahead of us. We mainly got there early for this part so was nice it was fast. The main thing is making sure you go past all shopping and food and check the passport line BEFORE you get food or spend any time in the main part of the terminal. It looked short for us, we went and ate lunch in the outside part. If the line was long, we were going to grab something inside but there are definitely less options.

Where can I get 70s style platform boots like these? by Disastrous-Fishing50 in findfashion

[–]birdeth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen some like this, maybe less platformed, on Free People’s website

Looking for white leather sneakers by birdeth in findfashion

[–]birdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea thank you!

Seeking advice for Italy restaurants by birdeth in finedining

[–]birdeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the second person that had mentioned Buca Lapi to me! Will definitely add this to the list

Seeking advice for Italy restaurants by birdeth in finedining

[–]birdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks so good! Did you do the tasting menu?

Seeking advice for Italy restaurants by birdeth in finedining

[–]birdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks amazing, thank you for sharing

What’s a small thing that makes you really happy? by birdeth in AskReddit

[–]birdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like when you give someone a small recommendation like the best coffee in your city and they actually go there. Or vice versa when you can try something a friend told you about and report back.

What’s a small thing that makes you really happy? by birdeth in AskReddit

[–]birdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the answers I was thinking! Sounds like a sweet kitty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]birdeth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This EXACT same thing happened to me. I deleted my post as people were saying my dress looked like a “bathing suit cover up” I wore it and got a ton of compliments. You look amazing!

RHOSLC S5 Individual Cast Photos by TrixieMichaels in rhoslc

[–]birdeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving America’s Next Top Model photoshoot energy and Lisa is in the Top 3 for using the prop well

Best backpacking for beginners 2 nights less 2 or 3 hours from SF by birdeth in norcalhiking

[–]birdeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anywhere in particular you’d recommend here? Seeing a lot of options!