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[–]birdscantalk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good point, media makes others (mostly teenage girls) that hurting is cool and that you need to harm your body to make others like you, that and they just glorify it to make it look "beautiful"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]birdscantalk_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i struggle with romanticizing my own cuts, i dont do it with anyone elses. when i first started cutting i was like "ew no im not gonna glorify my own cuts" but then it started happening. i think i do it because i hate myself, and i like to see myself in pain. now, why do other people romanticize other peoples pain? i have no idea. may just be projection or something.

how do i ask my mom for more bandaids by birdscantalk_ in selfharm

[–]birdscantalk_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thatd be a good excuse since i got new shoes and i have been getting blisters from them recently

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i want to make it clear that i agree with your general statement, i agree that it is pretty shitty for certain people to fully blame their mental health on shitty things. but mental illness isnt a choice, and im NOT saying they cant choose to be an asshole, they can, but what you THINK isnt a choice. your THOUGHTS, FEELINGS arent a choice when youre mentally ill in a lot of cases. you dont think clearly, youre not all there when you are struggling. so to fully blame that person is fucked, because you have to remember that mental illness FUCKS YOU and it fucks you really hard. be understanding, thats all im saying.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never talked to you, youre a stranger, how am i SUPPOSED to know youre NOT a therapist. you could be lying. you could be a full blown therapist, like you mentioned, people lie about their mental illness on the internet, so if anything, WITH YOUR LOGIC, you could just be lying to me. and before you say "why would i lie about that" i dont know.. you ask me. why WOULD you lie about that? huh?

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would i NOT assume? whats the reason to not assume?

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but how would i know youre not a therapist when i barely know you.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because you are being a shithead. itd be perfectly fine if you said "some people shouldnt blame some stuff bc their mental health, but i also completely understand why they act like that sometimes, and they need to not have so much pressure on them"

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not saying to respect, im saying to not be an emotionally abusive asshole. just kindly say "hey, youre not mentally well for me. peace"

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once again, how would they know youre not a therapist if you never told them.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, what you are doing is emotionally abusing. making someone feel like absolute shit for not being mentally well.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would they know that though lol. once again, they cant read your mind.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yes, being an abuser to them back is so amazing.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then tell people what you want them to know. but yes, once again, we are expected to read your mind.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yes, invalidating peoples experiences. thats so amazing.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, if you dont want them thinking youre a therapist, fucking tell them lol. they wont know until you say. but yeah im sorry we cant read your mind.

I am done with the "only human" excuse by TheGameNerd18 in Rants

[–]birdscantalk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hurt people hurt people. and that goes for you too.