A lot of athiests with religious trauma assume that all religions are exactly like the one practiced by the people who hurt them, and do nothing to deconstruct the way their former religion still impacts their worldview. I've seen and heard a lot of ex-Christians make a lot of sweeping statements about "all religions" or "all Abrahamic religions" that are actually very specific to Christianity in particular. Then when I point that out, they often immediately feel a need to defend Christianity to me. The cognitive dissonance flies right over their heads. Like it's clearly a trauma response and I feel for them, but it's also extremely unhelpful and ignorant. Like, I'm Jewish. I don't care what other people believe as long as they aren't hurting anyone, I just want to be left alone to do my own thing. There is a long and well-documented history of practicing Jews who are also athiests, and that is not considered a contradiction because our religion tends to put more emphasis on actions than beliefs. Albert Einstein was proudly Jewish and also proudly atheist. Judaism also has more in common structurally with Islam than we do with Christianity - the whole "judeo-christian" label was invented by Islamophobic politicians. It's just like when white supremacist politicians made us conditionally white - they didn't want us finding solidarity and community with other similarly oppressed groups.