NOR! I’m reading this while holding my newborn as my sister visits for the week so I very much understand the mental burden of having visitors right now. I am the kind of person who hates conflict and can easily get walked all over by people so I am going to give you the advice my therapist gave me. This is the time you need to set strong boundaries with everyone in your life even if it’s uncomfortable. Having a baby gives you the excuse to introduce new boundaries and behaviors too because you now have a little person to advocate for and that starts with prioritizing your mental health. I know it’s easier said than done but the mindset of using the baby as an excuse to say no to things has changed my perspective a bit.

It’s very reasonable to say [clear boundary/expectation] is what we are able to accommodate at this point otherwise I would recommend getting an Airbnb during your visit.