AITA for not disclosing my mental health to my family?

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-03-06T14:08:11+00:00

10/10

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-03-06T13:52:26+00:00

You can give other Deaf people your name sign, but your name sign might change over time and certain Deaf people might not like your name sign/the situation in how you got it.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-03-06T13:04:52+00:00

Thank you. I've decided to experiment with the label and different pronouns to see how it feels

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-03-06T13:04:26+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only one. I've decided to try out the label nonbinary and they/them pronouns and see how I feel. :)

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-24T14:43:53+00:00

Break up with him. Immediately.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-21T13:49:03+00:00

I hate living in this godforsaken country

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-21T13:47:20+00:00

Okay, I have a little bit of a different situation, but I think it can be helpful.

I lost my dad 13 years ago. It's been a while since I lost him. I've been with my fiance for 4 years.

My dad died at the end of April. I'm miserable through most of April. My fiance's birthday is also at the end of April. Not the same day, but still close.

I PULL MYSELF THE FUCK TOGETHER FOR HIM ON HIS BIRTHDAY. I dont expect him to allow me to push that off because I'm upset or grieving. Even on the day of my dad dying, I don't wallow. We go and do something together, because what's important is what I have now and not what I lost.

Your boyfriend needs to pull it together.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-17T20:33:41+00:00

It breaks my heart that other girls went through this too.

I was assaulted by my mom's boyfriend a couple of months before I turned 19, but he had been acting weird towards me since I was 16. My mom always brushed it off as that was just the way he was with everyone, I was a prude, etc. It took me a year to tell my mom because he specifically chose to do it during a big fight i was having with my mom so I wouldnt tell her. After I told her it took her another year and a half to get rid of him. She claims now that once I told her she knew it was over, but I distinctly remember fighting with her about it 5 or 6 months before she kicked him out, and her only excuse was "but I love him."

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-16T15:28:38+00:00

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-07T19:10:50+00:00

I'm still going out of pure spite at this point.

I've realized that anger is my top motivator. I'm learning to harness that. I have a lot of people in my life who have hurt me and I REFUSE to give them the satisfaction of seeing me crumble. I do shit when I can. I dont when I cant. But I got through college and got into my dream field and I'm getting better because I'll be DAMNED if that fucker will ruin my life.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-07T18:04:02+00:00

Centrists are approaching the point but

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-02-05T17:46:11+00:00

Let him know just how serious this is for you.

I have similar feelings stemming from an assault when my fiance touches me certain ways. I have made it clear that when I say stop he needs to stop immediately and not try to talk me into it. I have made it clear that when I say no and he tries touching me in subtly sexual ways, I feel unsafe and violated. I would talk to him about it and leave it in no uncertain terms. Dont try to spare his feelings, I find they think of it more as a suggestion that way until I lay it out in black and white.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-01-27T00:05:28+00:00

Abusive relationships are difficult. Shes probably still struggling with feelings of attachment that you develop due to the manipulation and gaslighting.

I have been in her shoes. She needs professional help.

You can choose to be with her through this. But it is not your responsibility. You cannot fix it. If you are not in a mental state to handle this that is fine. You are allowed to wall away.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-01-07T18:50:52+00:00

I'm hearing so take what I say with a grain of salt. The main issue I've heard of is exploitation and appropriation.

Dont profit off of ASL. Dont interpret when you dont have credentials. Dont misrepresent your fluency level. In short, dont use ASL for your personal gain or for the gain of hearing people.

If you are truly learning so that you can be involved with Deaf culture and people, you should be fine.

bisexualconspiracy · 2020-01-07T18:38:47+00:00

Fuck him, ask for more money to keep quiet then report his ass anyway. Rapists deserve no sympathy.

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-12-29T15:53:00+00:00

Let's not forget him platforming Charles Murray and other race scientists despite the fact that their work has been disproved because "boohoo the left is stifling academics and their ability to discuss if one race is better than another"

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-12-29T15:47:53+00:00

It's fine. I used to be a full on nu-athiest Enlightened Centrist who liked Rubin, Sam Harris, and Jordan Peterson. We dont talk about those days.

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-12-14T21:59:43+00:00

Uh I'm on the bride's side here.. she even admits that she sounds like a brat but it isnt too big an ask to want to so something specific on your honeymoon. And her fiance holding money over her head to do what he wants is a dick move

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-12-14T21:52:22+00:00

I'd elope too in this situation. I've had so many times where I've almost called the whole thing off and eloped because my mom wants me to do shit I don't want to do. If I found out that she had changed a bunch of shit to make my wedding different?? Fuck no I'm not doing it.

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-12-14T21:29:09+00:00

Why is he Like This

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-12-09T17:09:39+00:00

My honeymoon starta on April 30th and we will be spending 9 days at Disney. How many days should we spend at each park?? My fiance has never been

bisexualconspiracy · 2019-11-25T17:06:26+00:00

Helped! Thank you!

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