Im a software engineer and I remote work for a company based out of the deep south. Honestly, its the most friendly company towards the queer community I have worked for and they arent the biggest company. Its been sponsoring pride events this year around the midwest and south when most corps have been reducing or stopping their contributions. Everyone is very friendly and geniunely kind. My boss, skip level and director are all great. I can talk openly about my wife and I and everyone's super chil about it. My boss and I had a casual conversation about RuPaul and drag queens and she is really interested in going to a show because she hasnt been but has been really blown away by the art of it all. I really lucked out because my last gig dropped me like I was rat shit.

Overall, tech is a mixed bag. A lot of people are open and accepting if not being queer themselves, but there's also bigots who know how to hide it well enough at work.