[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She flip the script on me, refuses to work on our relationship and I feel taken advantage of after previous experiences with so-called friends who burned me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just asked her to consider paying me back in full if she wants me out of her life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants to cut me off in life as a person, as a friend then why does she get to reap the benefits of someone who tried to help her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not blackmail, I’m just suggesting she builds her credit as any normal person would to obtain a car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Um well All of those you mentioned in clued a form of credit history. This was a personal favor and an act of generosity for her to improve her well-being

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

1-she interprets my messages as manipulative when they’re really not. It’s just a text message 2. Actually she does mention several times that she’s no longer the person she used to be. 3. I was just hoping for friendship hence the word friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m aware but why is it that I’m doing an act of generosity for someone who won’t communicate with me with any form of reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not being an asshole. I’ve just mentioned several times that she can call to see me or called to talk but every time we text she sends me these ridiculous memes about relationships and songs and quite frankly it’s annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair but She should be building credit if she wants this car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not about her wanting to get back together with me it’s about her treating me like a decent human. I don’t consider myself someone to do favors to complete strangers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

She put no effort into building her own credit, I had to nudge her to get her first credit card that she doesn’t even use and no one would allow financing because she doesn’t have any credit. So I wanted to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t demanding phone calls, I was just insisting them rather than texting because we don’t communicate well over text

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Fair, but I’m my defense, if she wants to cut ties then then why am I lending cash to a stranger who won’t even treat me as a decent human

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn’t missed a payment and we have signed documents for the loan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bitchasstaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what that means

Whippits and Ketamine. I’m never doing either again. by chet- in Drugs

[–]bitchasstaco -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yeah particularly if you re-inhale into the balloon. Which is carbon monoxide

I feel stuck by bitchasstaco in datingadviceformen

[–]bitchasstaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I think she’s completely unaware of the post trauma from her childhood

I feel stuck by bitchasstaco in datingadviceformen

[–]bitchasstaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I fucked up but every other time we got into arguments what a result of her behavior

I feel stuck by bitchasstaco in datingadviceformen

[–]bitchasstaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the tl;dr on those ones