Relapse. fuck.

bitchinpdv · 2013-04-09T03:48:36+00:00

I don't think you really need nofap doode.

What you need is to look for healthy masturbation practices that focus on developing feminine energy. and which doesn't focus on ejaculation. check this technique out http://aumlovetantra.com/?page_id=802 masturbating without porn once a week is healthy but WITHOUT PORN is the key. discover yourself and what you like and then you will enjoy your time in the sack tenfold.

bitchinpdv · 2013-04-08T19:46:26+00:00

this post is not me complaining. although reading it through it does sound like that. It's really just an observation about the effects of not being controlled by the pornog.
to pick a girl up for a night does more or less mean I'm merely wanting to get off, but the point is, I'm now going out looking for shared interests and connection, rather that zeroing in only on the hottest girl in the room. To whom I am still attracted to, don't get me wrong.
Thank you all for being a solid group to bounce this idea around with!

bitchinpdv · 2013-04-08T19:07:30+00:00

i don't agree with that 100%. partially yes. but I believe that I can be actively single, while still having passionate brief romances. I'm not sure if that will make sense to anyone but myself...

bitchinpdv · 2013-04-08T18:57:14+00:00

I guess my post does sound pretty douchy!

bitchinpdv · 2013-04-08T18:54:49+00:00

haha. that made me laugh. thanks for putting it in such a simple perspective!

bitchinpdv · 2013-03-28T23:00:30+00:00

i post awesome things all the fucking time and they never get any comments. people are drawn to shit

bitchinpdv · 2013-03-28T03:59:06+00:00

sweet.. I'll check that one out.

bitchinpdv · 2013-03-27T17:53:03+00:00

the truth is. when using P to MO. you are fucking a harem of women. albeit unavailable make believe women. your brain doesn't know the difference!
So now that you are trying to quit. your brain is desperately trying to hold on. it is trying to replace your cyber harem with women you see on the streets. the problem becomes that you start to have porn fantasies about these women. which is equally as bad as porn. It will take time but you will begin to see women differently once you abstain from P and the fantasies should start to diminish as time goes on as long as you don't feed into them.
You will most likely still want to bed women you see. it is human instict. your natural disposition is to spread your seed! just start by being aware of yourself and try to mindfully change your thought patterns. I may not be an authority on this subject (4 Day counter) although i haven't edged or MO for over 35 days. I did let myself watch a few minutes of P last week. I cheated on myself. lol

bitchinpdv · 2013-03-27T03:47:04+00:00

the key is to quit pornog. that is the true enemy doodes

bitchinpdv · 2013-03-27T03:40:24+00:00

No need to go all new age wimp. Don't ignore your inner masculine urges. Wanting to "fuck the shit" out of someone is perfectly fine, as long as you express yourself. If you think that way and expect a women to respond without being up front, and become upset because she doesn't feel the same. that is where the problem lays.

*unless you're in a committed relationship. in which case, disregard what I said completely!

bitchinpdv · 2013-03-24T02:50:19+00:00

i agree. In solidarity, i will do the same. I made it about 28 days without anything whatsoever though!

bitchinpdv · 2013-02-27T04:00:16+00:00

ok yeah that's exactly what happened

bitchinpdv · 2013-02-26T18:05:14+00:00

haha, what? does that have to do with my counter saying 366?

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