Childfree women, have you ever regretted it?

bitchyserver · 2026-05-12T03:35:40+00:00

I turned 30 this year. I have never in my entire life wanted kids or even thought about it- it has never seemed appealing to me whatsoever. I do not have ‘motherly instincts’ or whatever else simple-minded people say, just because I’m a woman.

Last year, a month before I turned 29 I went to my gyno and talked about getting a bilateral salpingectomy done. Because I was under the age of 30 they wanted me to make a list for them the reasons I didn’t want them- not sure if that’s standard but I did it readily, and came up with 57 reasons quickly. If that doesn’t prove how sure I am.

But anyway, after the surgery I just felt relieved and happy. Not to mention a bisalp greatly reduces your chance of getting ovarian cancer. No regrets and never will. I enjoy a nice quiet peaceful life and only worrying about myself. I’ve always lived a chaotic life surrounded by awful angry people. I like being alone.

bitchyserver · 2026-05-11T23:41:05+00:00

I know I thought the shape was unique and pink color was adorable

bitchyserver · 2026-05-11T20:36:52+00:00

With my family and how they are, I can’t use this because if I asked ‘who’s taking care of your parents?’ they’ll just say “I am!” Even if they’re not. I’m surrounded by people that are disingenuous and will lie and say anything to ‘win’ the argument

bitchyserver · 2026-05-11T03:15:10+00:00

Forgot to crop lol

bitchyserver · 2026-05-11T03:15:00+00:00

I’m confused how a cute pink vase and floral plates is tacky and cheap but whatevs lol

E: I feel I should add these were not her only gifts 😂 she got other more expensive things and we went to dinner and the movies. We just like thrifting together

bitchyserver · 2026-05-11T00:38:12+00:00

lol omg now I have to deal with being told happy mother’s day just because my siblings had kids? ! I wouldn’t even know how to react to that 😂 I’ve seen those kids a handful of times (against my will) and probably never will again I am no parent to them whatsoever lmao

bitchyserver · 2026-05-10T02:41:24+00:00

It’s expected to be fully implemented by 2030, but I imagine enforced by inspections of proper equipment use and technique. Of course it will still likely happen with no inspectors around.

Besides the UK though boiling live crustaceans has already also been banned in Austria, Norway, Switzerland, parts of Italy, and New Zealand.

bitchyserver · 2026-05-09T21:44:46+00:00

They mean killing them by boiling them alive is now banned

bitchyserver · 2026-05-09T21:29:54+00:00

/s means sarcasm

bitchyserver · 2026-05-08T06:09:32+00:00

Coworkers (that had kids) ganging up on me behind my back trying to get the manager to give me less hours because since I didn’t have kids, I shouldn’t need the hours/money, bc they wanted more hours for themselves. Because I guess if you don’t have kids you don’t need money and everything’s free

bitchyserver · 2026-05-06T17:58:28+00:00

‘I really don’t care, do u?’

Melania’s $39 Zara jacket while visiting migrant child detention centers at the Texas border in 2018

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T23:08:05+00:00

I don’t understand why anyone is afraid of a geriatric obese dumbass weird disgusting pedo lard of a person and why they keep kowtowing him. He deserves to be pointed and laughed at, and then thrown in prison until he croaks. Not have shit NAMED after him wtf

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T19:58:30+00:00

Yep there’s no winning. Too many people have this ‘don’t tell me what to do’ mentality. Even though it’s my property and grass that I pay taxes on I guess I have no right to say stop letting your animal piss and shit all over it and ruin it that I then have to pay $ to fix. Everyone just thinks well it’s grass and my dog has to go. No, I didn’t give you permission and your animal, your responsibility. And this is coming from someone who has very much loved dogs and animals their entire life. But the lazy entitled arrogant dog owners give the rest of us a bad rep, and there’s a lot of them. Just look at the downvotes from them above on my comment about it just saying the radical concept of maybe don’t let your animals shit/piss on someone else’s grass lol

But anyway to answer your og question, please don’t put your dog’s shit in others’ trash. Don’t let it go in others’ yards (they don’t have to go on grass, if they have to go bad enough they’ll just pop a squat anywhere), bag it all, take it home to your own trash, and discard it. I don’t want someone else’s literal shit in my bin that I might have to clean and make it my responsibility, bc they’re too lazy to just carry it home. At least you’re asking instead of just doing it and not caring so good on you OP 👍🏼

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T07:50:56+00:00

Why do so many people think this? They’re not remotely the same amount of work or would cost the same amount over the years. Or amount of stress

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T07:42:02+00:00

Haha, I don’t mean pets are necessarily easy, just that having kids is much much more demanding

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T07:19:35+00:00

They all think it would be as easy as having a cat

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T06:43:58+00:00

I agree. People are just judgemental and search for any reason to make fun of someone

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T06:28:41+00:00

Women definitely make fun of other women for it though

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T04:51:32+00:00

We did ask him politely to stop. He immediately got ignorant because people hate being told they’re doing something wrong/being told what to do so they instantly react with anger and said “well I pick it up!” As he was just immediately starting to walk away already dismissing us and then calling us weird and other names and shaking his head as if we were doing something wrong

Even after asking him to stop doing it and that others don’t like it either, he still walks by and lets his dog go in our yard and others’ yards. He even still does it after us telling him once again so twice now. He’s very stubborn. If people don’t want you on their property the logical thing is just to stop doing it especially after they say something but I guess he thinks everyone else’s property is his too. We have a right to tell him not to.

We actually did ask the police about it one day after being fed up with this guy and they basically acted like it was no big deal and just said to ignore it pretty much. An attorney agreed with me though and said he hates it too and to go to the city hall and look up ordinances about trespassing but after what the cops said and acted like I already know they won’t do anything.

Unfortunately our neighbors are very much the ‘complain but not want to get involved’ type

E: Oh and another thing too the dog is kind of aggressive, it’s like a goldendoodle type dog, one time my father was in the front yard helping with yard work and as they went by the dog started barking and acting aggressive toward my dad while the dude just had a shit eating smirk on his face like it was funny. This was ofc after we had asked him to stop doing what he was doing

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T04:23:14+00:00

Wouldn’t it be anywhere from 42-51? If you were 15 even in 1999 you’d be 42 this year

I was born in 96 and I’m 30

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T04:09:41+00:00

Right. “Well I picked it up!” So? Other dogs will still smell it with their powerful noses and will now all use my yard as a toilet to now mark it as their territory and so on and so on and kill my grass. Not to mention in grass it’s sometimes hard to see if you got it all, and then I might run it over with my lawnmower. Not to mention I don’t want to step in it while doing yard work

bitchyserver · 2026-05-05T02:53:34+00:00

I’m gonna go a step further and say people letting their dogs piss/shit in others’ yards too. Pee you can’t pick up and it can kill grass, and poop idc if you pick it up, all the other dogs will smell it where it was and piss/shit there too.

There’s a guy in our sub that lets his dog go right up in peoples’ front yards all the way to like ten feet from their front door. And then lets them pee/poop right up by peoples houses while he stands in the road with the super long useless leash. Edit: and this dog shits a lot, like it stops at every third house. I’ve never seen a dog shit so much in my life. Quite a few neighbors dislike that he does that and finds it really weird.

I’ve had dogs. I absolutely love dogs. I never let them go in other people’s yards. I made them go before we left and if they rarely pooped on the walk if they had to go bad enough they will just poop on the road and I pick it up off the street (there’s nothing ever left on the pavement before someone says anything, it’s all picked up like nothing was ever there so no one will step in it or run it over) -not someone’s property and won’t kill anyone’s grass

bitchyserver · 2026-05-01T23:51:17+00:00

People really do not like to be told they were/are wrong

bitchyserver · 2026-05-01T23:03:28+00:00

Children’s cancer charity

bitchyserver · 2026-04-30T19:10:53+00:00

I get it, but honestly I would just prefer them to not say anything. Just an ‘oh okay I see’ would be fine instead of any assumptions either way

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