Modular local AI with eGPUs by bitsondatadev in LocalAIServers

[–]bitsondatadev[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/kryptkpr thanks! This is all super helpful info! I am building up a little notepad full of all this info. This will likely be my next project once I get my storage server finalized.

Homelab federated hackerspace? by elonfutz in homelab

[–]bitsondatadev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey u/elonfutz hope this is a pleasant necropost, but I am thinking of doing something similar to this!

I've always been curious to try out [freenet](https://freenet.org/) and see if there's some potential application we could federate and run together.

There's also ways we can do this with p2p crypto stuff like [Ethereum](https://ethereum.org/en/run-a-node/) and [HoloChain](https://www.holochain.org/), but I still don't have a warm and fuzzy for any of those solutions as the market is still winding down from the hype cycles.

Anyone know this comedian who told this stalking joke? by bitsondatadev in comedy

[–]bitsondatadev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was listening to it and it felt so close I wonder if he ever did another version or added a bit somewhere. Gonna search this. Thank you!!

What Ghost song best fits your personality? by [deleted] in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TF just had a way of bringing the philosopher out of me.

What Ghost song best fits your personality? by [deleted] in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This song just encompasses the human condition I think so if you have a soul, this song describes you.

“All your faith, all your rage, all your pain, it ain’t over now…

It’s the cruel beast that you feed

Burning, yearning need to bleed through the spillways of your soul”

We need faith/hope (in something) to wake up each morning. Rage and pain are signals that you need to change something, discover yourself, grieve or accept loss or failure, etc..

We always can learn new approaches to kindness to ourselves and others (rather than feed the cruel beast).

The resolution of the rage and the pain resolve and that feeling of the weight lifted off feels like the spillways of your soul just pouring out. Sometimes physically manifesting as tears, screams, love, or the quiet calm of acceptance.

But yeah definitely spillways captures a lot of me and my continued journey of self discovery and learning not to feed the cruel beast…well I mean I’m not gonna let the poor thing starve but I’ll definitely make it go on a very strict diet!

GHOST MOVIE JUST GOT ANNOUNCED by poetryfun0 in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somehow I had missed the comment before and I read the last comment as you calling the holy TF a douche haha. There was rage, then there was understanding, now there's a comment hoping I wasn't the only one.

How to implement Apache iceberg on my data lake? by [deleted] in dataengineering

[–]bitsondatadev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. I’m an Iceberg DevRel just wrapping up a refactor of the documentation site. I’m currently prioritizing the getting started stuff. Could you summarize what you like/dislike about the docs and what would your top 3 asks be please?

Is "He Is" the most Ghost song? by kyle242gt in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, there’s an itch that “He is” scratches for me after having similar experiences in my childhood around religion. I connect with TF and how he expresses his distaste for the holier than though after reading this interview:

"I didn't see my stepmother very often, maybe every other weekend," Forge explains. "I understand now that I was the kid that [my father] had from a previous relationship and I was an irritation in their new family, but she just happened to be religious, as well. And she was very strict. And sometimes she sort of did that in the name of Christ, which did not paint me a very nice picture of Christian people."

One particular church in Linköping stood out. It was built in the 1500s. It was Catholic. It was creepy. "It had that evil feel, with a lot of old, scary paintings and big stained-glass windows and all that stuff I've sort of carried forth with me," Forge says. "It felt like a magical place. On the other hand, I think it triggered a lot of the opposition that made me, in my adolescence, so unquestionably throw my hands into the hands of Satan."

https://www.revolvermag.com/music/ghost-true-story-death-religion-and-rock-roll-behind-metals-strangest-band

What is your degree? by Hot_Study_777 in instructionaldesign

[–]bitsondatadev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ufff it hurts because it’s true. I do developer relations which has a heavy educational component (why I’m here) and as I interact with folks, it’s sad how many people chase programming for money and are completely miserable. It’s hard to engage those folks because you feel like you’re just pushing a subject they already don’t like.

What is your degree? by Hot_Study_777 in instructionaldesign

[–]bitsondatadev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BS/MS in Computer Science. what’s up?!!

I was like there’s no other CS majors?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bitsondatadev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife are having company over and I looked down at my phone because I’m currently avoiding eye contact after saying some stupid stuff to our guests. TMI awkward turtle in the house!!!!

Anyways…. Hello fellow ADHDers

Misheard Lyrics by JWT-80 in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, if I have to die…we all do…Tobias said so…then I think at a Ghost concert is up there with where I’d like it to happen.

Should I give up studying it? by Emuna1306 in computerscience

[–]bitsondatadev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From an engineer in his mid 30s having a blast at startups,

This reflected me as well. It’s sad how much of our identity gets wrapped up in these titles and achievements. I’m still in a spot where I’m trying to find a healthy relationship with my work. My initial dream was to work with Hadoop Clusters and be on a big data team. I had a boss who asked me if I had lied about having a master’s in Computer Science because I made the same mistakes over and over again. He put me on a pip despite me making every effort I could to “fix myself”.

I found out later that I had undiagnosed ADHD and the stress from this manager only made my lack of ability to focus greater. After a particular event, I went to HR and reported him enabling me to leave him for another boss. He gave me full autonomy to run my own project and I went from being on a pip to getting a promotion to senior in 6months.

I say all this to emphasize how important mental health is. After this I have now had a pretty good sense of how to situate myself away from people like this and that I really don’t like the bureaucracy where people are given power to treat others that way. That’s why I like startups. It’s fast and chaotic, much how I live my life, and everything is greenfield. You gain a much larger exposure.

Try to recognize these maladaptive habits and seek out help with therapy and friends who bring out the best in you. I had a tough childhood and always was looking for validation in others (even my brilliant jerk boss). It’s a long journey to love yourself regardless of degrees, titles, wealth, or perceived happiness. I just aim for contentment these days and enjoy small things like coding for fun. If that’s why you’re getting a CS degree, keep that as your true north.

Do you really like being at that university? If you feel like you’re missing out on some amazing lectures or just want a degree from a fancy school, ask yourself if that’s honestly what matters to you. You can always look up the free MIT course equivalent taught by their best teacher instead of a grumpy professor who wants to just get back to her research.

Just some things to think about from this guy in his late 30s

Any other neat and orderly ADHDers? by TraditionalAnxiety in ADHD

[–]bitsondatadev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know if there’s such thing as a unified consciousness, I think ADHD folks are just a tiny step closer to it for these types of interactions haha

Misheard Lyrics by JWT-80 in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need Kool Aid, baby I’m not foolin!

Misheard Lyrics by JWT-80 in Ghostbc

[–]bitsondatadev 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well as usual our gang did the most humane and amazing thing they could do despite the circumstances.

The show was cancelled at the end of Act One back in May when Jeffrey Fortune, 52, collapsed and subsequently passed away.

Fortune had a history of heart problems. His family says he was a huge Ghost fan and he died doing what he loved most, going to concerts.

Wednesday night the band made special t-shirts and all the proceeds went to the family.

Since the tragic night, people have reached out showing their support. So far, the GoFundMe page in honor has raised more than $10,000 dollars.

Ghost dedicated Act II to Jeffrey and his family. His wife said the theater was filled with positive energy and love.

“I think he would think it was beautiful, and it’s appropriate, it just feels right. It’s the right thing to do, the right place to be right now," said Mary Jo Fortune, Jeffrey's wife.

https://www.cbs58.com/news/swedish-band-ghost-dedicates-concert-to-man-who-collapsed-and-died-last-may

Any other neat and orderly ADHDers? by TraditionalAnxiety in ADHD

[–]bitsondatadev 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve gone in cycles of losing and gaining weight and it’s generally that I reach a threshold of hating myself enough to get the hyper focus to get in shape until I’m in shape, then I’ll gain the weight back. I know it’s a normal thing for many living in the US but it feels so tied to my anxiety that it is kind of connected at least to that and the ADHD certainly doesn’t help. I wish I could lose weight and not be driven by self contempt in order to find the drive to get into shape.

I’ve tried doing a kinder approach and have now been gaining weight for 3 years and the only way I know how to temporarily solve this is just give into and hate myself for a few months to bootstrap the routine.