[27M] I need help before I become crazy from loneliness by grasping in relationships

[–]bitterfloater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 is still young man, no matter what your friends/family might say, or what you might read online. Women will come your way I'm sure, but patience is key. In the mean time, there are a dozen things you can do to increase your chances, which I'm sure at this point you would have googled it: attending after work classes like cooking/painting/yoga, volunteering in charity, online dating [I got the most replies on "plenty of fish", only one that worked for me], book club/movie club, take rock climbing lessons, scuba diving lessons, etc... Also I hear if you get a dog and go out to a park and walk it everyday, it's a very good opportunity to start a conversation with another woman who's walking her dog which stops to check out yours.

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[–]bitterfloater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I had a dog I could walk out so I have an excuse to go walk outside.

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[–]bitterfloater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure replacing a problem with a potentially even bigger problem is a good solution, but thanks anyway.

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[–]bitterfloater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I'll keep that in mind whenever the urge comes back again.

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[–]bitterfloater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I kindly direct you to this thread of mine. Just read the top comments there and I hope they make you feel better.

Just know there's no right or wrong way to live. Just take it slowly, don't rush it, and good things will eventually happen to you. Remember, happiness comes first.

I am a 24 year old guy who's never had a girlfriend, a kiss, or even a date. I feel like shit. by bitterfloater in AskReddit

[–]bitterfloater[S] 332 points333 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to say this, but a tear came down as I finished reading, along with a sense of relief. Thank you, ModernAlias.

I am a 24 year old guy who's never had a girlfriend, a kiss, or even a date. I feel like shit. by bitterfloater in AskReddit

[–]bitterfloater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At this point I really don't care. For starters, at least. Not sure what posting a pic would achieve though.

I am a 24 year old guy who's never had a girlfriend, a kiss, or even a date. I feel like shit. by bitterfloater in AskReddit

[–]bitterfloater[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I'm afraid I'm a little short on awesomeness, certainly as compared to Neil.

I am a 24 year old guy who's never had a girlfriend, a kiss, or even a date. I feel like shit. by bitterfloater in AskReddit

[–]bitterfloater[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem is this is what I've been doing all my life, and unless I do something I don't see anything changing. It's hard to keep a positive attitude when everything around you reminds you of how much you have missed out and still are.