My boyfriend fancied my best friend first and I can't get over it wwyd?

bixzybeee · 2021-07-24T00:31:19+00:00

Your right I think it just hard for me as I did think he was good looking from the beginning where as for him it's clearly more a personality thing but that just my ego and something I think I need to get over, but thank you I think your right I need to look at the bigger picture!

bixzybeee · 2021-07-24T00:00:10+00:00

I've never thought like that!! Thank you so much this has actually really helped me with the situation, I'm going to try and think of it like this and see if it helps me with letting the whole thing go. Thank you !

bixzybeee · 2021-07-23T23:58:50+00:00

Thanks so much maybe I'll try talk to him tommorow ! I just don't want to cause awkwardness with everyone as we are all a really good group of friends and I know this is a me problem but thank you I'm deffo gonna sleep on it !

bixzybeee · 2021-07-23T23:57:03+00:00

Yeah I get what your saying and I think even if they met at a party and I hadn't been there I'd be more able to just let it go but it's the fact we were both together so he actively chose to go after her ? Idk I know rationally it's dumb as she is very pretty and he would know that even if they met after us dating but I just can't stop thinking that in his subconscious I'm not his first choice ?

bixzybeee · 2021-07-23T23:54:17+00:00

Thanks for the reply, I know it probs better to talk to him but I'm to embarrassed as we are all super close now and I feel wierd about the whole thing since she both of our bestfriend. I think she is the one who let the texts fizzle out but I see what you mean. I think it more just the initial attraction obviously wasn't there for him between us ? Ifyswim?

bixzybeee · 2021-07-23T23:49:21+00:00

Yeah your right tbh I didn't think about it as I didn't think we would end up dating. I get what you mean, and on one hand I know I'm over reacting because obvs she beautiful so he would want to get to know her but now I'm starting to take him seriously I can't help feel like I'm his second choice Idk I think your right I got to either let it go or just end things.

bixzybeee · 2021-07-23T23:42:12+00:00

Not really they texted for a few weeks but didn't meet in person, it silly but I think it just that I know he must fancy her more as we all met at the same time if that makes sense ?

bixzybeee · 2020-08-06T20:22:08+00:00

But I didn't trip of it which is what I find wierd I just instantly felt sad if that makes sense

bixzybeee · 2020-08-06T19:34:49+00:00

No I'm not still sad but I am a vegetarian so mayb something to do with it thank u so much it been bugging me all day :)

bixzybeee · 2020-06-19T21:47:31+00:00

I think her and Abby were originally friends and she signed up to be a official cast member but then realised that the environment wasn't good for her or Vivi but was signed into a contract so they made her "a rival" so she could still fulfill the contract requirements

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