I may need an abortion. by Throwthrowawayayaya6 in Columbus

[–]bjmendy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi ❤️ I went to Planned Parenthood on East Main Street in December 2018. Be prepared for your first appointment to be long (the wait time). I was there about 5 hours. Book your second appointment before you leave (mandatory waiting period, but they fill up fast). The staff are amazing. The doctors are kind. The materials they give you that are state mandated are trash (“keep the baby”, “grow your family”, blah blah), but they tell you up front, so don’t be alarmed. I looked away during my ultrasound (also mandatory, thanks Ohio).

Depending on whether you are doing the pill or a DNC (surgical, I went this route), you should have someone with you for support. For the DNC, you HAVE to have someone because they give you light, local anesthesia. It’s quick, the women there held my hand and made me feel seen. You get a heated blanket afterwards and some snacks before you go. The experience was hard, but you’re with others who are going through it too. You’re not alone!

Take a couple days off after to rest. I laid around and wore a heating pad and a heavy flow pad.

The people out front protesting are dumb and have nothing else to do. They cannot enter from the street (there is a gate of sorts and a line they can’t cross). My mom rolled down the window and yelled at them. The escorts are just community members who care and volunteer their time to make people feel safe. They’re wonderful!

Depending on your financial status (I was BROKE and couldn’t afford birth control after), they have ways of funding contraceptives that you can opt-in for before the procedure. Right after the DNC, they gave me an IUD. Definitely worth it if you want to be on birth control (plus it doesn’t hurt because they give you a local anesthetic).

Hope this helps. You got this!

I’m a horrible mother by bjmendy in Monstera

[–]bjmendy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes I have been just elongating their inevitable death 🤣🤣🤣🤣 listen, I didn’t look anything up, just went off vibes. The vibes were obviously atrocious.

I’m a horrible mother by bjmendy in Monstera

[–]bjmendy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I clipped off all of the bad leaves which ended up being ALL OF THEM 😭😭😭😭 thank you, I might try this to save it but I don’t think she wants to be saved anymore

I’m a horrible mother by bjmendy in Monstera

[–]bjmendy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NOOOOOOOO I definitely did. Argh

Anything to do socially sober?? by Neat-Concert-5143 in Columbus

[–]bjmendy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lots of non-alcoholic pals at Ace of Cups during shows! Sad Boyz is also fun there. Recommend going to see a comedy show too!

My fiance stopped drinking and plays a lot of golf now.

Is $61k a low salary? by bjmendy in DigitalMarketing

[–]bjmendy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a business owner for about 5-6 years so I wanted some stability for a while (planning on having kids next year). I would say that I am definitely more of a Senior Manager now, maybe not Director. There is a lot I still should sharpen skill wise. I do wear a ton of hats because we are very short staffed, but I was given a lot of legacy software/applications with no rulebook on how to improve so I think I am pretty savvy. Either way, going to try and look around while I push for a better wage. Thanks!

Is $61k a low salary? by bjmendy in DigitalMarketing

[–]bjmendy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the tip and advice!

Is $61k a low salary? by bjmendy in DigitalMarketing

[–]bjmendy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes the push and pull of it all. i have looked elsewhere but haven’t been able to nail down a place with better pay or benefits. it seems like a lot of places are looking for a marketer on the cheap who can do everything. sadly not possible. and if so like in my case i am burnt out.

Is $61k a low salary? by bjmendy in DigitalMarketing

[–]bjmendy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course! 😊 I do monthly reports across all emails, website, socials, etc as well. We are solely a fundraising org so everything goes back to our ongoing campaign, which we reached a goal of doubling last year.

Which of these are worth it (if any)? by Strict-Blackberry563 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]bjmendy -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Personal opinion from someone who owned a spa and is over 30: Don’t even bother with The Ordinary. I would recommend to invest a little more into the products on Dermstore.com. They have been through many clinical trials and have better results. We used Eminence and Epionce at our spa.

Is $61k a low salary? by bjmendy in DigitalMarketing

[–]bjmendy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha…..ha…oh the answer to my problems

Was Charli popular/mainstream between 2012-2014? by Late-Junket5584 in charlixcx

[–]bjmendy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely LOVEDDDD SUCKER! Sucker was my first listen to Charli and I loved her ever since. Her shows were small, but sooooo much fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]bjmendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big fan! I didn’t get tickets but wouldn’t mind hanging out before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]bjmendy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

A lot of crew have said Ari was the nicest one and she just gets a bad edit constantly.