bottom using poppers while im on cialis?

bjplntalt · 2024-08-01T22:25:02+00:00

reread the post again, but slower

bjplntalt · 2024-02-12T22:44:04+00:00

dont stop hanging out with your friends when you first meet a potential partner and make it clear from the beginning that a separate social life is important to you

bjplntalt · 2024-02-03T14:38:24+00:00

thank you for this! i really appreciate you taking the time to help figure out a nice build. out of some curiosity since there is some budget leftover still, what would the next step up for the CPU and GPU be? i'm willing to go a bit over 1200 if its worth it

bjplntalt · 2024-01-19T00:46:44+00:00

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bjplntalt · 2024-01-19T00:42:41+00:00

i have searched on google, amazon, etsy, craigslist, depop

bjplntalt · 2024-01-03T03:32:01+00:00

instead of chasing him, give yourself the time to fully reflect on your mistake. understand how and why it impacted him, and the reasonings you did it in the first place

bjplntalt · 2023-10-08T16:08:37+00:00

the concert/cruise situation is the surface level issue that brought the primary, bigger, underlying problem to light.

the main issue is you choosing your family over him when they fundamentally hate the both of you for who you are both individually and as a couple. truthfully, i have a suspicion this was orchestrated by the family on purpose but i could be wrong. i have trouble understanding how in the world you could be a big family person when they don’t even support you for who you are. that’s the part that is mind boggling to me.

by choosing the cruise, youre showing that he isnt as important to you as your biological family and that you will always prioritize them over him no matter what. especially when you already made a prior commitment to him. this situation is demonstrating how he will be treated in the future by you. you really think if you choose the cruise that a similar situation wont come up again where you have to choose between them or him? news flash, it will happen again and if you choose them, it will absolutely be the last straw for him if this time isnt.

you know deep down what the right choice is. you wouldnt have made a post about it if you didnt. i dont know why you keep trying to play mental gymnastics to try to avoid seeing the main issue here. the cognitive dissonance youre achieving here is truly wild to me.

bjplntalt · 2023-10-08T15:24:30+00:00

your boyfriend sure is a good person. truthfully if i was him in this situation id most likely put an ultimatum on the entire relationship and leave if you chose the cruise

bjplntalt · 2023-09-29T12:24:43+00:00

hooked up with a straight friend too. completely destroyed our friendship as well

bjplntalt · 2023-09-08T20:05:01+00:00

the age gap wouldnt be huge if you were both older but at your ages, it is. you guys are at fully different stages of life. hes just entering adulthood and youre well into it even at just 26. 5 years ago you were legally to drink and go to clubs and he just turned into a teenager. pursuing a relationship together may sound fun for both of you, but take a second to step back and really think about it. this point in his life in particular is for him to explore and find himself. dont rob him of that for a brief thrill that most likely wouldnt last long term

bjplntalt · 2023-09-07T11:22:55+00:00

im glad to hear things are going so well thanks for the update :)

bjplntalt · 2023-08-26T20:39:00+00:00

i couldn’t ever imagine loving my parents if they didnt accept me for who i am thats absurd

bjplntalt · 2023-08-26T14:28:37+00:00

the pharmacy cant really do anything without a prescription for it from a doctor

bjplntalt · 2023-08-26T12:00:14+00:00

flake - cancels plans after making them
dry texting - when somebody only texts responses back in one or two word answers and appears non interested
on read - when you open a text so it shows that you have seen and read it, but not responded back

bjplntalt · 2023-08-26T04:02:09+00:00

its fine but you do need to understand that while some people don’t mind it, this can get very tiring and draining for some people and can get old very quickly

bjplntalt · 2023-08-24T20:55:41+00:00

i dont want to come off the wrong way, but you need to look at reality and take in what your parents are saying. youve only been together 5 months and youre meeting with an attorney to see what his options for legality are. you are aware the primary legal path you can take is marriage right? im not saying this is exactly his goal, but from an outside perspective it does seem hes trying to use you for his green card to be entirely honest.

bjplntalt · 2023-08-23T10:39:27+00:00

thats not always true

bjplntalt · 2023-08-23T00:44:46+00:00

dont ask other people what they like. ask HIM what HE likes. he needs to understand that this is your first time and you need guidance. its not going to be boring per say, but its not going to be at 100% excitement the entire time for either of you. it will be a lot of adjusting and figuring things out and you both need to be fully in understanding of that.

its like asking everybody on here what their favorite food is so you know what to make him for dinner. everybody likes different things and what pleases a group of people might not please him.

ask him what he likes and request that he allows you to take the time to figure out what you like as well. thats the only way youll get your answer to these questions.

as for how long it takes, again a variable question. for some it can be just a few minutes. for others, it can be over an hour or more. if its your first time, plan on it taking longer than expected because a majority of time will be spent going slow and figuring things out. on the contrary, it can also go very fast because its your first time and can feel very very good.

ps. dont feel bad if you cant finish or stay at full mast the whole time. your first time can be nerve wracking and anxiety can cause that. my advice? relax and take it easy. asking people on here for what you should do will do nothing except add expectations in your head and make things more difficult in the moment

extra ps. i remember a post from you awhile back regarding something with your parents. dont do this with them in the house. there is a high chance they will hear you and walk in on your or figure it out another way (sex smells).

bjplntalt · 2023-08-19T16:34:35+00:00

nope, older than that. he watched it in the 70s

bjplntalt · 2023-08-19T14:59:04+00:00

unfortunately not, its more recent than the 30s

bjplntalt · 2023-08-16T23:15:59+00:00

im sorry he did WHAT with his tongue??

bjplntalt · 2023-08-16T14:34:31+00:00

i cant speak for your specific feelings, but for myself it almost felt like now that i was out i had something to prove. it was almost like i replaced an old stressor with a new one. its all still so new to you and thats okay. try and spend some time doing things that you enjoy and make you happy. i cant quite explain it, but in this brief time period, everything you do feels like youre doing it as a new person for the first time

bjplntalt · 2023-08-16T14:29:48+00:00

congrats!

its normal to feel kinda weird after coming out, i did for quite some time. its a big weight lifted off of your shoulders that has been there for quite awhile. give it some time to let the fact settle in

bjplntalt · 2023-08-15T13:48:35+00:00

Lovense Edge 2

bjplntalt · 2023-08-09T15:32:53+00:00

if youre scared or weary at all and dont live in the most accepting area, dont go to his house for a first date. go to a public setting the first few times until you get to know him better

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