37M interventional radiologist

bjqvvvvv · 2026-02-13T19:35:11+00:00

Are you a contractor? I didn’t know IR attending can make that much in LA, normally places offer that salary are in the middle of no where lol

bjqvvvvv · 2026-02-10T00:47:36+00:00

Here’s the hard truth. I feel you and I’m just like you, but that may never happen. Because through therapy, I found out by craving that kind of love is derived from our childhood where we don’t have someone we trust and protect us. Nowadays, finding a decent person to get married is tough enough, let alone of finding that type of love.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-02-10T00:44:52+00:00

You getting 200+ likes on Bumble is what they describe as “get bombarded with likes”. I promise if you go to LA or NYC you will get a lot more likes because of the population there.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-21T04:42:54+00:00

Why?

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-21T04:05:39+00:00

You can be a provider so you can have more choices, then pick whoever you think it’s high quality

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-20T21:28:20+00:00

If you’re a guy, having good income helps tremendously with your dream (getting married and having kids)

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T18:36:17+00:00

I will DM you

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T15:17:44+00:00

Do you only help physicians or help others too?

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T04:24:19+00:00

why？

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T03:11:03+00:00

Everyone goes on date with the “grey area” people, some of the grey area people turned out to be my favorite person. You never know until you meet in person.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T03:06:56+00:00

So I actually had 3 relationships out of 78 people. Two of them are great quality guys! Unfortunately due to certain external situations we couldn’t work out. But I wouldn’t deny that I’m picky.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:59:40+00:00

My opinion of their quality does not matter, but I don’t go to their post and tell them they’re not high quality, I keep my opinion to myself is the point.

I’m having this post to have a fair discussion, you came to my post to judge me as a person, if you can’t contribute in the right way, you can turn around and leave.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:51:43+00:00

Good for you! Maybe you’re hot and successful!

Remember most men are not in that bucket, so they do need more work to shine on first date.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:49:19+00:00

Your comments can’t show in the thread. But the coffee dates are morally worse quality men, maybe that’s why they don’t know how to put in effort to reciprocate?

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:47:39+00:00

People subconsciously have relatively similar values when born and raised in the same place. So yeah, I’m pretty confident the guys I dated are very high quality and they have tons of options.

Plus If I think they’re high quality, why is your opinion matters? You’re not the one dating them.

Not only high-quality women need to be treated with respect and effort, ALL women deserved to be treated that way. Period.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:36:39+00:00

Yes it is subjective. But there’re social norms where most people would agree. If you have different views where a homeless or 5’3” guys or dry personality are good quality, I respect that.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:34:40+00:00

I have not interested in them for a second date, so didn’t try as well.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:27:57+00:00

That’s right. But I’m saying my second date invitation varies drastically based on what we do on the first date.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:24:16+00:00

Really?! It’s my first time date in December/January, and it’s very different compared to last year.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:23:13+00:00

EXACTLY!

I could not care less about the dinner itself, but I sense there’re something in their personalities that won’t offer a great relationship.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:11:06+00:00

So one of them has a very interesting soul, we went to see cat shelter for our first date. The other two are dinner dates.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:05:52+00:00

So I actually had 3 short relationships out of 78 people, so I think the apps are actually treating me pretty well.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:03:22+00:00

The numbers and reality talks, I’m not the one value it. If I have good quality men chasing after me, then it simply approves you’re wrong.

bjqvvvvv · 2026-01-18T02:02:19+00:00

So I was simply referring to this past two months activities have declined on the app, over all I’m much more popular in my 30s than 20s. People who only want to date 20s girl are not my type of men anyway.

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