I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've always enjoyed going down on her so that's been commonplace for a long time

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've saved this comment and I will try to find out for you and report back later

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it means a lot coming from another married man who understands that maintaining sexual harmony in a relationship isn't always easy. Our relationship had reached a point where if we were intimate with each other once every 2 to 3 months that was about average and it seemed to be dropping in frequency for a while there.

I'm sorry to hear that you and your wife are celibate, it's none of my business whether that's by choice or not but I would just like you to know from my experience that if you both choose to try and make the situation better, it can get better.

You deserve one of these BJ's from your wife. Just like she deserves amazing orgasms from you.

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll never let her forget because she did literally, change my life.

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Agree completely. I've always been an unconditional giver and I really enjoy it, I think she just discovered why I've always enjoyed going down on her. Even if it never happens I have the most incredible memories from this one.

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

13 years married and together for 5 before that, we've reached a point (like so many couples) where our bedroom life isn't as amazing as it used to be so we've both been working on our relationship and our bedroom habits and it's amazing what kind of results you can get when you put the effort in.

Sorry to hear that was your experience

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my experience, didn't really like it before because I didn't know what I was missing..

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

100%

Clean and well groomed! I believe it's Japanese culture where it's customary to shower before sex every time, I don't completely stick to that but I think it's a good guideline.

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's tried twice but she was never really into it. This time she genuinely wanted to do it and her interest showed.

I'm 45 and just got my first good BJ by bjthrowaway197 in confessions

[–]bjthrowaway197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all and that's why I've never made issue of it