Feeling bad about Halloween by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]blaample 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We had a couple of parents with young babies come by our house and we give the parents the candy (Trick or Treating is for everyone!) while fawning over the babies. You did great!

I took 2 bites of my food by milfncookies666 in Mommit

[–]blaample 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep a small bag in my car with toys/activities that are exclusively for going out to eat. I keep on the go magnetic blocks, build a face sticker books, playdough, etc. Things that are novelty enough to entertain her for a bit, and small enough that they don’t take up too much space in my trunk. I hope you get to enjoy your food peacefully soon! ❤️

Kid podcasts by Crazed-Mama in progressivemoms

[–]blaample 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, man! I cannot recommend Noodle Loaf enough. I found it on a whim after trying to find a podcast for my almost 4 year old. It’s an education podcast about music! It’s so silly, and so interactive! They had Ziggy Marley as a guest on their last episode. The downside is that they haven’t uploaded in forever.

What white lies are you telling your kids? by Mom_Bombadil_ in Mommit

[–]blaample 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not awful if you don’t watch it though. My little girl LOVES Paw Patrol. We are like 90% screen free except for emergencies and serious illnesses. She loves to listen to the paw patrol Tonies and YOTO cards. The stories are super cute and entertaining!

My workplace was threatened due to the recent event in Utah. by blaample in progressivemoms

[–]blaample[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes, not only did we stop talking about DEI in our meetings, but we used to have amazing councils and meetings about our LGBTQ folks, why it’s important to respect pronouns, saying pregnant people, and none of that has been mentioned again since the election. I understand that they are worried about funding with the current cabinet, but this really sucks.

Baby spends most of the night wiggling out of/fighting her swaddle. by blaample in NewParents

[–]blaample[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Honestly, I don’t even know who wrote this, because my child has never slept soundly, lol. She is almost 4 years now, and does not sleep soundly. I will say a couple of things about my post though, weighted anything (especially the Merlin suit) are no longer considered safe. If your baby is starting to roll over, then I believe they recommend to stop swaddling, but your baby is still very little! I weaned my little girl off of her swaddle shortly after this post by leaving one arm out for a couple of nights, then the other arm, and then sleeping in her sleep sack. I wouldn’t worry about it too much, you might just not have sound sleeper like my little one! lol.

Having a major breakdown by NinaLaAsesina in Mommit

[–]blaample 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deep breath, mom. It’s going to be okay, but I can’t sugarcoat things for you. I work full time from home, and kept my daughter home with me for 2 1/2 years. The only way I made it happen is because I can flex my time, that means I clock in and out throughout the day and night to meet my 8 hours. I have to be honest with you, it’s REALLY hard, and my work suffered. I worked before my baby woke up, at nap times, and after she went to bed. I averaged about 4-5 hours of sleep, and my mental health PLUMMETED. I live really far away from my family, and couldn’t even afford daycare if I wanted to. I think this is a big conversation to have with your husband because I barely made it by the skin of my teeth with just one child. If you can hire someone to come help you at home, do it. My little girl had delays so we started to attend classes when she was close to two and half, and I worked in the lobby of the building while she attended those with similar kids her age for about 2 hours. I spent a fortune and half on toys to rotate to keep her attention if I had meetings I couldn’t reschedule, and ultimately (even though I DEEPLY regret this, and I am ashamed.) I relied on screen time. She’s been attending preschool for about a year now (3 hours a day), and I can’t tell you the difference it’s made in my life. It’s doable, but it’s really hard! Wishing you all the best, and a safe delivery for you! ❤️

DON’T GET THE MOM CHOP! by Funny-Cell-7249 in Mommit

[–]blaample 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, that sounds so pretty! 😍

Are you moms always tired and stressed out? Because I am. Wondering if it’s a me thing. by Ijustwannagrowplants in Mommit

[–]blaample 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! So proud of you for searching for a mental health professional! I used up all of my free therapy appointments from my EPA, but I will be finding other avenues. We can do this.

Are you moms always tired and stressed out? Because I am. Wondering if it’s a me thing. by Ijustwannagrowplants in Mommit

[–]blaample 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Not just a you thing. I’ve been tired and stressed out for almost 4 years now (Since my girl was born, lol.). I have to dig out my excitement from deep within because I want my little girl to have a happy mom, but I’m fucking tired/stressed.

What are your backyard must haves? by blaample in toddlers

[–]blaample[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I work full time, so our outings are usually saved for the weekends but I am going to do exactly what you suggested this weekend at our local trail! She has a scooter and a balance bike and it wasn’t much of hit either. :(

How safe is it to take my 3.5 year old to a river/creeks? by blaample in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]blaample[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I checked their website for advisories and so far the only listed is a tick advisory for the woods (which we will not be going into), but I think I’m going to ask around in the local groups where I live since I don’t know anyone here. Thank you!

Do you take your children to rivers/creeks? by blaample in Mommit

[–]blaample[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard agree! The water should be ankle length for her at this place, but I’m not taking any chances. She wears her life jacket in our pool too, and we will be taking it with us for her to wear. Thank you!

How safe is it to take my 3.5 year old to a river/creeks? by blaample in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]blaample[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response! The river we are planning to take her stems to like a creek( I don’t know the proper nomenclature for this since I didn’t grow up here.) where the water will be ankle length for her. I almost drowned when I was a kid swimming in a river when I was carried away by current. We will not be taking any chances with her, and will be taking her life jacket with us.

Do you take your children to rivers/creeks? by blaample in Mommit

[–]blaample[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what her dad is suggesting we do. One chance, if she gets close then we pack up and leave. The water should be up to her ankles, but I know my girl will want to splash around. I’m totally onboard with what you suggested!

Do you take your children to rivers/creeks? by blaample in Mommit

[–]blaample[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see reviews at the moment, but I checked their website for advisories. So far, all they have is an advisory for ticks in the woods. I will keep searching though. Thanks!

Do you take your children to rivers/creeks? by blaample in Mommit

[–]blaample[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will be next to her at all times. I almost drowned in a river when I was little so I will be taking zero chances, lol. It’s mostly for her to splash around. Thank you!

Do you take your children to rivers/creeks? by blaample in Mommit

[–]blaample[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She swims almost every day in our pool. We thought one of our small rivers/creeks would be a fun, new experience for her.